Monday, August 17, 2009

Yoga Invigorates Your Sex Life

By Aasheesh Jain

Yoga has proved it's efficacy in almost all aspects of health. Sexual health also happens to be an essential aspect of being healthy. And Yoga has not bared sex from its holistic health planning.
In fact yoga practices have laid great emphasis on healthy sexual life. A good number of yoga asana and exercises are specifically meant to enhance your sexual energy.
Yoga's sexual philosophy says that for getting sexual pleasure your mind and body should remain in a rejuvenated state and this rejuvenation could be only brought about by various yoga practices. These yoga practices include all forms of yoga- be it asana, pranyama or dhyana.
Various sexual dysfunctions could be effectively cured by yoga. Yoga even offers cure for male impotency. Because of yoga's efficacy in improving your sexual life, yoga is being practiced by a good number of folks with the sole purpose of enhancing sexual drive. But Yoga never advocates excess of sex. It sticks to the conventional concept of sex that the act of sex is primarily meant for procreation.
Among various types of Yoga, Tantra Yoga is said to be very much linked with sex. Tantra Yoga was a preferred practice in ancient India to better you sexually. Ancient Indian guide of sex Kamasutra have advocated usefulness of Tantra Yoga for enhanced level of sexual pleasure. This practice of Tantra Yoga has recently gone through a renaissance as more and more folks prefer it over Viagra and other medications to gain desired level of erection.
Asanas of Tantra Yoga bring in required physiological changes to propel more secretion of sexual hormones. These hormones in turn help gain desired sexual potency. In addition to that Tantra Yoga also contributes to increased flexibility and freshness. These factors combine together to serve a unified purpose that is your better sexual life. Kamsutra offers around sixty yoga positions for ideal sex. These sexual positions have been proved effective in solving marital discord arising out of sexual dissatisfaction. Thus Yoga could be a very effective way of improving your conjugal relationship.
Various yoga breathing techniques are particularly helpful in bettering you for sex. These breathing techniques along with Hot Yoga asana would enable you overpowered with sexual potential. So folks, gear up and make best use of yoga poses to enjoy a healthy and better sex life.
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Sunday, August 16, 2009

Yoga Invigorates Your Sex Life

By Aasheesh Jain

We live in a sexually pluralistic world and whatever our conviction, sex is here to stay. Through the realities of sex and sexual experience we can gauge a person’s inner most truth, his/her consciousness.
But how sad, despite global interaction and expansion in awareness, most people still tend to conceal bodily experience; they do not recognize wisdom of the body, which is worth loving for its grace, truth and reality.
Painters, photographers and poets view the human body with all its senses, emotions and intellect as a repository of actual pleasure, pain and ecstasy. They express it with imagination and philosophical intuition, making us conscious of our varied realities. They are not inhibited by false shame. They know human sexuality, if presented and used properly, should help us fuse the primordial male-female polarity into energy which could then make life in harmony with the original source, bring the individual and humanity closer, and promote stable sexual relations. If used unwisely it may degenerate into a diffracted and miserable world.
Sex : A metaphor
Artists do not question the cult of pleasure or the reverence for abstinence as they explore the naked physicality in all its dimensions. They do not create a work for the sake of casual stimulation. Rather, they know that sexual symbolism becomes devalued and inexpressive if it loses the wealth of its actual sexual experience and fails to illumine ones inner landscape; they seek to illuminate the realities of life through body-images.
Sex is a metaphor: the encounter of man and woman, woman and woman, man and man to express feelings, to feel valued or loved, to explore relationships, concerns, roles, to react against false ethical and cultural values, against stereotypes and prejudices, against hypocrisy and dubious social standards that enchain, and debase honest aspirations as lust or vulgarity.
Against a gnawing sense of loss of meaning and purpose in the computerized, simulation-filled emptiness of our life today, including gimmicks, imitations, romantic overtures, and even plain silliness that are often noticed, sex serves as an antidote to the fast dehumanizing existence: Its expression is a means of defying the disgusting sociopolitical world without; it’s a form of active resistance to political manipulation day in and day out.
No Narrow View
With their erotic presentation, artists and poets seek to create what is physically balanced and confident, and elevating to the senses. They know that the naked body is a pretext for a work of art and it can be made expressive of a far wider and more civilizing experience. There is, therefore, a sense of purpose in a poet or artist’s eroticism or sexuality – love of the self through exploration of the body, or naked physicality leading to love, or libidinal sublimation, or sexual union of two consenting adults.
It cannot be objectionable to express the real human needs and experiences, the physical body artistically re-formed or sex-acts re-enacted with a sense of shared delight. The sexual imagery indeed conveys a mixture of memories and sensations, a desire to perpetuate ourselves in the complex of living.
Octavio Paz writes in The Double Flame (1995) that eroticism is a social form of sexuality which is transfigured by our dreams. I see it as a means to rediscover the original magic of life just as sex is the mainspring of ones psyche and constitutes the sensory experience besides being the balance-point of various beings.
Sexpression: Indian Heritage
Many of our thousand-year old temple sculptures are an undisguised exaltation of physical desire; the sensuous friezes of the temples at Khajuraho and the figures carved on the stone walls of the Sun Temple at Konark are great works of art because their eroticism is part of the Indian philosophy; it is our cultural heritage.
The process of erotic creation, like Kama-adhyatma, pursuing sex to spiritual height, is something positive in Hindu ethos; it is an important psychological fact of life, a sort of libidinal sublimation if one also performs with an awareness of the rich and ennobling pluralistic dimensions of the Hindu culture.
Love and celebration of womanhood, as part of erotic experience through a process of exhilaration, stimulation and relaxation – swimming through the river of heavenly happiness, uniting the eye, mind and imagination, and losing ignorance – is both physical and spiritual. Orthodoxy Undesirable
But somehow, in recent years, largely due to lack of the spirit of enquiry and appreciation of the Hindu culture, tradition and values, discussion and expression of sex in public seems to have been denigrated. Authors and artists have been frequently subjected to violence of the orthodox right wing which seeks to ban honest sexual self-expression and is intolerant of recreational and non-procreative sex acts.
There was no social tension due to unsatisfied lost. Sex practice was not looked down upon just as men and women enjoyed healthy emotional relationship both within marital and larger societal contexts. The writers of the ancient Sanskrit manuals like Kamasutra, Panchasakya, Smara Pradit, Ratimanjari, Kokashastra, Ratirahasya, Ananga Ranga etc. educated men and women in the art of courtship, foreplay, actual intercourse (including various postures of union) and post-coital activities; they treated love not only as a matter of giving and receiving pleasure, but also as a means of access to the realm where human and divine meet.
Emotional lyrics of poets like Kalidasa, Bhavabhuti, Bhartrhari, Amaru, Yashovarman, Jayadeva and others reflect frank eroticism but create a transcending spiritual effect and meaning with their expression of the primordial pursuh-prakriti, or what the Chinese call Yin-Yang interplay.
God Created Sex
The Bible, like the ancient Hindu scriptures, does not decry sex. In fact celebration of physical union is God-ordained; man and woman are expected to stay together, love each other as their own flesh.
Because God created human beings as male and female, He created sex and ordained sexual union (in a socially acceptable form) to bind man and woman together, to make them dear to each other as husband and wife, to lead a healthy emotional life through love and sex, and thus ensure personal and social stability.
As I see it, it is God’s design that we enjoy life, be happy, be one flesh in coitus, and thus glorify Him in body. In the Vedas and Upanishads, too, sex is the source of happiness in equality, in oneness of man and woman, in love.
The search for love, or desire for sex, even if erotic, is essentially the aspiration for entering into another to know, to understand. It is the search for a bridge between the uncontrollable external events and the often impulsive, subjective, or internal responses.
Body as Soul
In brief, depiction of sex in art and literature has been metaphysically serious in India, just as sexual desire and fulfillment is an action of the spirit in body, leading to pleasure and harmony. The body images illuminate the realities of life; sexual metaphors in art make it possible for artists to convey what it feels like to be filled with desire, transmuting and transmitting memories of experience.
Artists visualize human body as a picture of the human soul; they celebrate it to understand the world and the self. If they glorify nudity, it is to explore the consciousness, in conflict with the muddling external chaos.
As a poet I realize humans are flesh in sensuality and there is divinity in it. The fleshly unity is the reality, the passage to experience divinity, and its expression should not be repressed through governmental interference in the name of morality and all that.
Sexual self-expression should be treated as ones fundamental right just as personal freedom of choice, sexual privacy rights, and tolerance for diversity are the hallmarks of a liberated enlightened society.
--Dr.R.K.SINGH,
Professor & Head, Dept of Humanities & Social Sciences,
Indian School of Mines University,
Dhanbad 826004, India.

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Why Kamasutra Is Still Important For Modern Youth?

By Dr John Anne

It can be rightfully said that no other work on sex and its correlate is as extensive as the Kamasutra of ancient India. The Kamasutra has been authored by an obscure Indian guru, named Vatsyayana Mallagana as far back as the fourth century.
The Kamasutra is extensively famous today, even in the advanced western world. Life has changed drastically from those times; but the Kamasutra remains perennially fresh. When you read the seven books of the Kamasutra, you get the impression as though it were written just yesterday keeping the modern youth in mind.
The Kamasutra is a journey of the life of a man through different sexual stages. It beings with boyhood when the first pubertal changes begin to surface in the body of the man right up to old age when the man loses his sexual virility. This range of a man’s entire sexual life is divided into seven stages, and hence there are seven books.
In the first book, Vatsyayana tells how a boy first begins to notice the changes in his own body. Not only is this a time of sexual advancement, there is also a social idea ingrained in the boy’s mind at this time. Just as the boy becomes more in harmony with society, he also develops a friendlier bond with his own body. He begins to understand how his body, especially the genitals, reacts to various changes around him. Sexual desires make their presence felt at this stage, and the boy learns to satiate himself by masturbation. Different masturbatory techniques for men are described in this book.
The second book is about sexual blooming of the boy into a young man. The young man learns what sex is all about, and goes into the world to seek his satisfaction. Different men get themselves satisfied in different manners. The very extensive section in this book pertaining to sexual positions is what the Kamasuutra is most remembered for even today. The book discusses at length how different sexual positions affect the mental and biological state of a man’s being. The relative merits and demerits of the positions are discussed at length.
Once this stage is past, the young man strives to gain a wife for himself. This is no easy task either, as he will need to woo the wife and perhaps have to pit himself with several competitors. Once he is victorious, he has the right to his wife, and nobody else can lay a claim on her. He has a moral right to fight anybody who trespasses the decency of his wife. This book also tells how a man and his wife can enjoy sexual bliss. It tells about how a woman must help her husband masturbate if he so desires.
The entire Kamasutra is written from the point of view of a man. However, in book four, Vatsyayana directly addresses women. He tells them of the proper mode of conduct in a marriage, of how to remain faithful and dutiful to their husbands and how to protect their modesties from other men. The point that a wife must provide her husband with good sex, and get good sex in return from him, is also emphasized.
The fifth book lays bare the deviant nature in all men as they approach middle age. This is the time when the wife no longer holds the same attraction, and men try to hunt for other men’s wives. Though this is immoral, the Kamasutra maintains that this is also inevitable. So methods of luring other men’s wives are present in this book of the Kamasutra. The Kamasutra goes as far as saying that only if there is extra-marital sex will there be peace within a marriage.
The sixth book makes man seem more adventurous, primarily because of his diminishing sexual drive. This is the time when the man has earned enough money, and he doesn’t mind squandering a bit of it on carnal pleasures. Man would visit prostitutes and such other women in order to get his pleasures.
In the seventh and the last book, the stage of man after he has lost his sex drive is mentioned. This is when man returns fully to his wife, and engrosses himself in spiritual pursuits. Naturally, people the world over think that the Kamasutra is only a book about sexual positions, though this is as far from the truth as it can be possible. The Kamasutra is a whole treatise on sex.
In today’s world, the basic argument against the Kamasutra – and a very justified one at that – is that it objectifies women. The entire work treats women as nothing more than sex toys for the male. Also, despite its very blatant description of all things sexual, the very popular oral sex has been uncannily kept out. There is no mention – supporting or contradictory – of oral sex at all.
But the book on sexual positions in the Kamasutra is still a very valuable work. Couples can derive much pleasure by trying out the different postures mentioned here.

Friday, August 14, 2009

What is Kama Sutra?

By Trina Read

Did you know the Kama Sutra was written by a celibate scholar? Or that the Kama Sutra revolves around a man's pleasure? Or that only about 20% of the book is about sexual positioning? After being with the same partner for a number of years, many couples are desperately curious about how to spice up their sex life. Stuck for options, they secretly tiptoe down the "sex" section of the bookstore to get a peek at the Kama Sutra nudie pictures and acrobatic sexual positions. Titillated, they buy the book only to have it sit untouched and lonesome in their nightstand drawer forevermore.
Unfortunately, they failed to understand that Kama Sutra is not a sex-quick-fix; rather, it's a comprehensive way of looking at their sexuality. As such, it has remained under its mystical Eastern shroud since it first hit pop-culture in the early 1980s.
Truthfully, the Kama Sutra isn't all that complicated and it's a great way for couples to keep their sex fun and fresh over the long term.
So what is Kama Sutra? It was meant as a pillow book. Whereas our Western culture believed in not talking about sex and leaving kids ignorant until their wedding day, Eastern culture had the opposite viewpoint. Vatsyayana happened to create the world's most famous pillow book.
Tradition believes Vatsyayana was a celibate scholar who lived sometime around 4th century AD. He did not write the Kama Sutra per se; rather, he was a compiler and editor of all the information that existed during the very rich Gupta period. Interestingly, Vatsyayana believed that sex itself was not wrong, but doing it frivolously was sinful.
Therefore, "Kama" literally means desire and "Sutra" signifies a thread or a thread of discourses. While most of us believe the Kama Sutra is all about sexual positions, 80% of the book gives insights on how to make love a divine union, how to act like a responsible citizen, how to handle your household, etc. It's a discourse or a marriage manual to troubleshoot all the sticky points a young man or young woman will face in their pending marriage. Brilliant, really.
And then there are the infamous 64 positions which has launched hundreds (maybe thousands) of books, videos and websites. A veritable smorgasbord.
What many people don't realize is that the Kama Sutra's focus is to give the man the maximum amount of sexual pleasure. The more sexual energy she had, the more likely her energy would cross over to give him a bigger, better orgasm.
Our quickly-becomes-boring Western get-on, get-in, get-off type of sex cannot begin to rival Kama Sutra's sex because it is about the entire sexual experience.
Kama Sutra sex has a beginning, middle and end-instead of just focusing on the middle like Westerns do. First, the Kama Sutra gives instructions on how to prepare yourself and your environment for lovemaking. It then talks about multiple ways to have foreplay in order to "energize" the woman (yeah!). It then shows many different options for positions. The possible combinations are endless, enabling you to mix-up sex each and every time.
You may be asking, "If Kama Sutra is so great, why aren't more people jumping on the band wagon?" Well, if you go totally authentic and read Richard Burton's original translated version of Vatsyayana's work, it is deathly boring. Did I mention complicated? He talks about yonis and bulls and other euphemisms that are unfamiliar to our Western sensibilities. Luckily, Anne Hooper came out with Kama Sutra for 21st Century Lovers. It's the best version I've seen on the store shelf because it is written in understandable language and the photos are superb. Or if you want to go more authentic, Deepak Chopra is trying to cash in on his name with his beautiful version of Kama Sutra.
If you've done the math, yes Kama Sutra takes more bedroom work. Time starved couples look at it, roll their eyes and say, "No thanks." Please remember though, good sex gives you and your relationship a much-needed injection of energy.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Tips on Women Making Love to Men

By Pekkie Aon

Most women would give anything to understand what it is that attracts a man to a woman. Men are not a mystery. • There is no substitute to an exciting and fun female, especially in bed. So, whenever you are concentrating on practicing the umpteenth position from Kamasutra, loosen up! Don't get serious enough not to have fun. Share things in bed, tell him your secret fantasies and encourage him to do the same. You can also try a few sex games to get some 'quality time' together.
• Men have different demands from sex compared to women. They need frequent, consistent and passionate lovemaking. While you may want feel desirable and sexy in bed, he may need a lusty animal! Get more active in bed and chances are you will have him eating out of your hands! Just remember, that does not mean that you use sex as a tool. If you do so, he may just warm up to the game! Sex is the means through which most men bond with their women. The act of sexual release makes him feel connected to you. • A woman who cooks and shares her meals with him is a primeval attraction. So, if you are thinking about a romp in the bedroom, start off with your kitchen!
• Give him his private time. Like women, he needs it to get together with friends, pursue his hobbies and participate in a favorite sport. Give him the time off he wants and he will enjoy his time with you much more.
Practice these tips for women making love to men and become the lady of his dreams!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Tips on Women Making Love to Men

By Pekkie Aon

The health and vitality of both partners involved can be boosted by a satisfying union developed over time. It is thus imperative that for satisfying results both partners should be physically, emotionally and spiritually attached. Reaching an orgasm together is a magical moment best shared together.
Sex is a very integral part of our daily lives. Look no further than the Kamasutra, an ancient Sanskrit text that describes the rules for sensual pleasures. The classical erotic stone sculptures of Khajuraho and Konark in India stand as mute testimony to the unparalleled comprehensive documentation of sexual acts and the emphasis that is laid upon various sexual positions.
How a man can exert control over his ejaculation is greatly increased by the sexual position he engages in with his partner. Missionary position is one of the commonest sexual positions but it is difficult for a man to control his ejaculation in this position. If the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him then the man is relaxed and in a better position to guide his partner.
Premature ejaculation is a highly relative issue. A vast majority of women fail to reach orgasm with the stimulation provided by penetration and thrusts alone. The vagina is far less sensitive than the clitoris and in most regular coital positions the clitoris is not stimulated at all. The BIG SECRET is that most of the sexual positions recommended for controlling ejaculation in men are the ones that stimulate the clitoris too!
A woman can often have multiple orgasms due to manual stimulations before penetration and if the partner ejaculates within seconds after mounting then sex is satisfactory for both partners. Men have a natural urge to ejaculate early and such urges should not be treated as premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation also should not be associated with the time taken and the number of thrusts necessary to ejaculate. The stop-start method, the squeeze technique and adopting favorable sexual positions are helpful in controlling premature ejaculation.
Thus the ground reality is that premature ejaculations are a major cause behind barriers for prolonged sexual intimacy. There are numerous treatments for premature ejaculation, some proven and some just high-pressure advertising.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

The Kamasutra and How to Use It

By Neal Stirling

Like sex toys, the kamasutra is a handy tool you can use in bed. This resource will help you get in touch with your partner. It will also help you enhance your performance in bed. Use these love tips to correctly use the kamasutra:
Tip #1: Using the Kamasutra for More than Sex
The kamasutra is a very old Indian text that deals with more than sex. It gives the reader discipline to have a healthy relationship. This means that you can use the kamasutra to create a lasting relationship with your other half.
Of course, the kamastura will also teach you about sexual pleasures. Popular versions of the kamasutra can be found online. These versions deal more with intercourse positions and lovemaking photos.
Regardless, it's important you build a balanced relationship with your partner. This will help you have better sex.
Tip #2: Using the Kamasutra in Bed
You can go online to find several kamasutra intercourse positions. If your partner is with you, you can both start looking at intercourse positions. The first thing to do would be to try simple positions. This would include positions similar to missionary position. You can steadily move to harder positions as you start mastering the easier ones.
Tip #3: The Kamasutra is a Only a Helping Tool
If you are having bad sex, don't expect the kamasutra to solve all your problems. The kamasutra is simply a tool to help you improve your sex life. Sex is more than intercourse positions. It is also about trust and communication between partners. Don't boss her around in bed.

Monday, August 10, 2009

The 3 Best Tips For Giving Her Multiple Orgasms - Tips Every Guy Needs to Know

By Maria Holland

Multiple orgasms are a mystery to most men, this is simply because men do not have them! Women on the other hand given the correct stimulation can continuously orgasm for prolonged periods of time (In some cases I am talking hours!). Well I am here to give you some tips on how to get the ball rolling to give your lover multiple orgasms.
1) Position - Most men think that position has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not a woman will orgasm during sex, but they are so wrong. The downside however is that every woman is different! Some women like doggy style the best while others like to go on top. Remember also that she may like to change position regularly so keep that in mind as well!
2) An element of danger - Try doing it somewhere where there is a possibility of getting caught, this will have all her senses heightened and this will help in the process of having her orgasm!
3) Double up - Try to use a combination of penetration and clitoral stimulation to get her going, most women actually prefer clitoral orgasms to straight vaginal orgasms. So whilst you are performing tip number 1 try to find a position where you can reach around with your hand and rub on her clitoris.

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Tantric Sex Techniques - Transform Your Sex Life!

By Ben Evans


I'm sure you have heard about tantric sex and the amazing benefits it can bring to your sex life. Tantric sex techniques enable partners to not only have amazing sex, but also create an amazing emotional connection with each other.
There are hundreds of amazing tantric sex techniques but the one thing that you must know for all of them is the importance of taking your time. With traditional sex, there is normally a period of foreplay that is soon followed by penetrative sex in one of the most common sexual positions. Most people only ever have sex in a couple of different positions.
However, tantric sex can last much longer and orgasms are often achieved in a totally different way. Sometimes, just a gently touch whilst looking into each others eyes can achieve orgasm. Imagine having this amazing tantric power! Well, here's how:
Start of sitting down, legs crossed and directly facing each other. For now, just look into your partners eyes and appreciate how beautiful they are. See them breathing and time your breathing to match theirs. Then, slowly take their clothes off, savouring each and every touch and sight. Stroke their skin but avoid the most common erogenous zones. Look deeply into your lovers eyes as you do this. Slowly touch more of their body and move to the erogenous zones. Keep paying attention to their breathing and move closer together so that you are in a deep embrace and start kissing lightly. Do not progress to penetration yet. Keep moving slowly and feel each others bodies entwined with each other until you both reach climax.

Friday, August 7, 2009

Sex Positions - 2 Great Positions to Help Your Woman Achieve Ultimate Bliss

By Susan Johnsson

Giving a woman the best sexual experience she has ever had, as well as helping her have the most amazing orgasms, will depend on the kind of sex positions you use. Being able to change and vary the sexual positions will keep boredom and routine out of your sex life. It will also allow for a more satisfying sexual experience for both you and your partner.
There are numerous sex positions available. You have positions that give a more close up and intimate feel, or that give deep penetration, and others that stimulate areas like the g-spot. Depending on how you and your partner want to satisfy each other, or how you are feeling, there will be an appropriate position to best bring out that desire.
You may find some women to be a little shy when it comes to trying out new positions. If your partner is shy or feels degraded by certain positions, be sure never to demand it from her. Let us look at few sex positions you can try out;
Butterfly position
To get into this position, the woman should lie on the edge of the bed or table. She then raises her legs upwards with her feet pointing to the ceiling. The man then approaches and penetrates her from a standing or kneeling position. Once he has penetrated, she can rest her legs against him. This position is great as it allows the woman or man to stimulate her clitoris at the same time.
Missionary
The woman lies on her back with her legs spread open, and the man positions himself on top of her, penetrating from the front. This is the most basic position, but it provides a close up and personal intimate feel.

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Sex and Weight Loss - Sexercising Your Way to Burn Fats! (Part 1)

By Robin Verma

Sounds good, isn't it? You might have heard about lot of fun ways to burn those fats, but this should beat them all!
As far the facts are concerned sex does burn calories. Sex is a physical act, and whenever you make love, you are doing an activity, and hence you will burn the fats. Figures says that Kissing burns 2 calories per minute. A passionate kissing, could also lead to love making act, which is equivalent to running. This means that vigorous love making burns as much calories as an act of running would burn for the same time.
As per my personal observation, most of the couples who have had a satisfying sexual life are fitter than others who miss it. An important point to remember here is that a proper sex and love making does not merely means having intercourse. The love making act needs to be felt, and enjoyed. A fulfilling act of love making involves active and equal participation of both partners, which includes natural body moments, mourning, and trying out different poses. Love making act have been explained in detail in ancient epics like Kamasutra.
Have you observed how often are words like passion (as in passionate kiss or passionate love), ignite (as it ignited feelings), burning (as in burning with passion) are associated with love and love making? Warmness, sensuality, enthusiasm, all these words looks so familiar with love making. Try to feel the amount of body heat that is generated when you meet your partner, its enormous, and its all natural.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Secret Orgasm Tips Course

By Reuben Wallis


Do you feel a bit ungainly in bed? Do you feel a bit amateurish when it comes to love making? If your answer to any of the above is 'yes' then you need to read on. For starters, if you lack the knowledge on what goes where, rest assured that she will not be calling you again anytime in the near future. Sure, this is the digital age and most of the stuff on 'lovemaking' is out there already. But here is the perpetual catch; most of that information on the net, from images to textual is all contrived. It is really hard to say which is for real anymore and if you are looking to learn about sex from these sites, I can tell you right away that you are in for some rough landing in more ways than one [catch my drift]. Basically, what you need is a product that can provide you actual information on ways to pleasure a woman and if you think that the way to go about it is by watching some pornographic movies, well that's your call and one that is bound to lead to some lonely nights. The product in question should be based on actual user experience and one that is not made up in any way and more importantly, it should provide valid information on a woman's erogenous zones. Believe me, I was surprised as well as I had always assumed that they had only 3, but that just goes to show you how important 'valid information' on love making can be. Arron Walker does provide such valid data and much more in his product aptly titled 'secret orgasm tips course'.
Just flick through the latest edition of Kamasutra and I am sure that you will see what I am talking about. Anyway, about the 'secret orgasm tips course', well it is just that. It is jam packed with tips, strategies and information on how to get your partner to achieve that perfect orgasm.
Here's a preview of what you can expect to get with this product, a 97 hour long recording giving you the blow-by-blow on what to do and when to do it. In addition to that, you will also receive 2 e-books on maximizing your sexual experience and with an interview thrown in the mix as well. I have to say that this product goes into the subject matter in detail and sheds light on various facets from 'how to stimulate the clitoris' to unique oral techniques that you can put to good use. It does provide content on a certain subject matter that has interested us for some time to come; I am talking about premature ejaculation and ways to avoid the same.
This particular product may not be everyone's cup of tea but as it deals on 'lovemaking' and 'tips on how to achieve orgasm' as well as providing content on other facets of sex, that was good enough for me. So if you are looking for an in depth guide on lovemaking, well, this is it.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Read This Article Before Buying a Sex Pill

By Ajeet Gautam

Ayurvedic herbs as we know have been used for centuries by men in treating their sexual problems even Kamasutra texts have listed ayurvedic aphrodisiacs to enhance sexual pleasure. In this article we are going to list and discuss some of these ayurvedic herbs which have been found very useful in curing sex related problems and an effective sex pill should have these as ingredients.
Ashwagandha- Withania Somnifera
Ashwagandha means power of ten horses this herb has been referred in ancient kamasutra texts to increase sexual pleasure by increasing semen volume and helping in having intense orgasms. It is one of the most effective herbs in entire herbal kingdom. Shilajit
It is helpful in diabetes, sexual problems, and is actively used as an anti aging drug. It is very helpful in improving the quality of sperm.
Gokshura- Tribulus Terrestris
This ayurvedic herb helps in improved sex and is a mood enhancer. The active constituents in gokshura help in increasing testosterone levels which are helpful in having firm erections and increasing sperm count.
Safed Musli- Asparagus Adscendens
Safed musli is a very popular aphrodisiac used in India since ancient times. Ginger
Ginger is a multiple use herb which has been used to lower blood pressure improve appetite and it also helps in other herbs work more rigorously thereby assisting in overall health.
These were some of the important herbs in enhancing your sexual pleasure. If you look to try herbal pills for prolong sex look for the ingredients and if it has one or some of these herbs it surely will help in eliminating your sexual concerns.

Monday, August 3, 2009

Men Secret Issues - Part I

By Dr John Anne

Couples all over the world who have sex use typical positions to enhance their sexual experience. A single couple could use many positions in order to satisfy their interests, and they could change these positions from time to time to prevent the monotony from creeping in. There are different positions that are ideal in different circumstances. The ancient Indian treatise on sex, Vatsyayana’s Kamasutra, explains several sexual positions in detail and enlists their various merits and demerits. Some of the popular positions of the Kamasutra are explained in this article.
The first and the most popular position is the missionary position. This is the safest position when it comes to sexual intercourse, and it can be rightfully said that every couple of the world uses this position for most of their sexual activities. The missionary position is adopted with the woman lying on her back and her legs hoisted in the air. The man penetrates from top, inserting his penis into her vagina.
The missionary position is classified as one of the natural comfort positions of sex, which means, the body does not need to unduly exert itself to achieve the coitus. The male normally lies atop the female, while the female is well-rested as her back is on the surface. This position allows the penis to lock securely within the vagina and hence there is no waste of semen. For men with short penises and low sperm counts, this is very beneficial.
But some feminists believe that the missionary position gives too much importance to the male partner. The missionary position provides natural stimulation of the G-spot and the clitoris by the penis. For some people, the expressions on the partner’s face during intercourse may be a major turn-on, but the partners cannot see the lower bodies. To counter the drawbacks in the missionary position, there is another position known as the woman-on-top position. This is a totally feminist-appealing position. Here the man lies on the back with his legs outstretched. The woman positions herself in a sitting position on the man such that his penis enters her vagina. In this position, the woman does the jerking movements and hence the control is in the hands of the woman. Plus, the man and the woman both are free to fondle each other’s breasts and nipples; and get visually stimulated by the same. The position allows the man to reach out and stimulate the clitoris, or to fondle the buttocks. The woman-on-top position is also called as the cowgirl position, because the woman looks as though she is striding a horse.
However, this position is also not perfect. There is a problem of the penis slipping out of the vagina repeatedly making the whole process quite cumbersome. It is very difficult for men with short penises. Also when the woman is pregnant, this position is not advisable.
There is a reverse cowgirl position in which the woman sits facing the other way. This position is favored by some couples, as it allows better stimulation of the clitoris. Also the woman can reach out to stimulate the man’s scrotum or anus. At the same time, the man can caress the woman’s back and breasts. And just like the cowgirl position, the reverse cowgirl also provides the control in the hands of the female, while allowing the male to rest.
In both the cowgirl and the reverse cowgirl positions, there is a danger of the penis being damaged. It is necessary that the female keep this in mind, and begin the rocking motions only when the penis is comfortably positioned inside the vagina.
When it comes to relaxing during sex, there is no position comparable to the spoon position. In the spoon position, both male and female lay on their sides and ensconced within each other like two spoons. The butt of the female is placed against the groin of the male. The male can penetrate the anus of the female, or if he lifts her leg a bit, can even penetrate her vaginally. If bored, both partners can change sides, and the woman can reach out and masturbate the man’s penis with her hand.
The spoon position is an equating position. For the more adventurous couples, there is the supported congress position. Actually this is a very difficult position to achieve, and only couples with a good degree of flexibility and physical strength can pull it off. Here the woman is propped against a wall, and the man penetrates her from the front. The woman then lifts her legs and wraps it around the man’s torso. Hence the entire weight of the woman is supported by the wall and the man’s hands.
There is no end to the number of sexual positions, and every couple has their own modified versions. Just take care that you keep changing the positions from time to time in order to avoid the monotony.

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Love Advice - Common Mistakes Men Make in Sex

By Pekkie Aon

Let our love advice help you find out about the common mistakes men make when it comes to sex!
• Women have less sexual desire- this is a misconception. She needs sex just as much as you do. The only difference is that while you just need to look at her naked body to get you aroused, she needs to feel needed and loved before she can be ready for sex. Also, her hormones vary throughout the month. This might explain why she feels particularly ready at times and not so much at others!
Women are not always the innocent virgins we are made out to be. • We prefer porn stars- no, we don't! The stuff that porn stars do in five minutes of a show does not turn us on. In fact, multiple positions are the last thing on a woman's mind when she is thinking about sex. Also, you do not need an instrument that is a foot in length, if you know what I mean. The only person who is bothered about size is YOU! If you really want to please her in bed, take it slow and concentrate on giving her pleasure rather than trying out the Kamasutra in about 3 minutes!
• Foreplay is just a luxury- for women, it is a necessity. Don't just assume that if you are ready for sex, so is she. Women need lots of time, at least 20 minutes to be ready for intercourse. So, give her that time if you really care.
Follow our love advice and give her a time to remember.

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Kamasutra Positions For Better Sex

By Pekkie Aon

• The easiest and the most popular of the Kamasutra positions is the face to face one. It allows a number of variations. It leaves your hands free to explore her body and is perfect for those who are starting off as a couple. An interesting variation of this is to arch the female body while the man balances on his knees. This allows greater penetration and can be very fulfilling for the man.
• The Amazon is another scintillating variation. Here, the man lies on his back and relaxes his legs, keeping them slightly tilted and flexed towards his chest. It lets the woman ride her man while he enjoys the pleasures.
• The armchair position. In this position, the woman positions herself on the lap of the man, stretching her legs over his shoulders. The man holds the woman and balances her. This will let him penetrate her while his fingers can stimulate her clitoris.
• The position of fusion lets you place your legs on his shoulders. The man balances himself on his arms and penetrates her deeply.
• The position of the hammock is also an interesting one. The man throws himself backwards and supports himself on his arms. Stretch out your legs and let her balance herself on his legs. The woman also throws herself backwards and then lets him penetrate her. You can also practice the mill vanes position. The man should lie down, stretch his legs and ask the woman to do the same. The man should lie over the woman and then penetrate her.
Try these Kamasutra positions and get the most out of sex.