Wednesday, July 22, 2009

How to Give a Female a Sexual Orgasm

By Branson Yen

If you want to learn how to give a female an orgasm, first you should get to know what really arouses her. Without involving the clit directly or indirectly, female orgasm cannot be achieved.
The Arousing Stimulation
Men find it very difficult to understand how a tiny organ such as the clitoris holds the key to the female orgasm. It is inconceivable for most men how a miniscule organ which is almost exteriorly placed is more sensitive than even the vagina. However, if you understand and accept this, you can easily find the answer on how to give a female an orgasm.
You may believe that stimulation by the penis over the internal lining of the vagina is the key to giving a female her orgasm. This is also true, but if you couple the vaginal stimulation with the clitoral stimulation, you could give the woman an assured orgasmic delight.
However, for women, orgasm is not achieved merely by tactile stimulation. Even emotional elements come into action. In order to learn how to give a female an orgasm, her sexual partner must know and stimulate all her sensitive parts. Organs such as breasts, armpits, neck, lips, collar bones, thighs and umbilicus share equal importance during sexual stimulation leading from the foreplay till the peak.
There is lot to understand for men about how to give a female an orgasm. This is because the way women get sexually satisfied differs from one woman to another.
Sex Positions:
Some women prefer their sexual partner to have a rear entry, whereas, others prefer the female superior (woman on top) position. Also, while in the female superior position, it is said that a man can hold his own orgasm for a longer duration as compared to the position wherein the man is on the top of female. When a man is on top, the gravity pulls down his semen and he ejaculates sooner. In female top position, it is retained up to certain extent.
If a man has the condition of premature ejaculation and wants to learn how to give a female an orgasm, allowing the woman to be on top could be a solution. Again, in any case, the female orgasm is brought when the clitoris is stimulated in one way or the other. In the indirect method the man's pubic bone pushes up and rubs against the clitoris when he is giving gentle strokes inserting his penis into the vaginal canal. Many men prefer rubbing their penises against the vulva. This works because the vulva is close to the clitoris. This leads to indirect stimulation of the clitoris. In the direct method, the clitoris is stimulated using the finger or, if the man prefers, using his tongue.

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