Thursday, July 30, 2009

Kamasutra Positions - Keeping The Kamasutra Nice And Simple

By Rami Sastri

Sure when we think of positions related to the Kamasutra we tend to think extravagant and incredibly sensual. But did you also know that a lot of the positions outlined in the Kamasutra are very basic? That's right, in fact the majority of the hundreds of positions in this ancient text, we probably already use!
The Scissors
All it entails is for the woman to lie on her back. The man on his knees then proceeds to hold onto her ankle region and spread her legs wide apart. From this position the man does all the work. This position enables a good passage for the man to enter into and he is able to rotate his pelvis in different directions to help stimulate different parts of the woman's vagina. The Scandinavian
The Scandinavian is again very simple Kamasutra position that is often used by couples today. It requires the man to lie on his back to start with. The woman then sits on top facing towards his feet, with her legs rapped over the side of his body. In essence she has her back turned to him. She then does all the work from here, thrusting back and forth, while he holds onto her buttocks and helps to increase the momentum.
This position enables the woman to control the amount sexual pleasure that can be obtained by both participants. If you haven't tried the Scandinavian than give it a go, it's incredibly erotic.
The Tigress
The tigress is a Kamasutra position that is a little more complicated to get into. From there she should then proceed to sit on top at a perpendicular angle to her partner. Once she has entered on a right angle she should the hold her legs up at a 45 degree angle, placing her left arm around his right shoulder and using her other arm to support herself on the ground. He should the place his hands under her buttocks and 'do his stuff' from there. I'm sure you'll muck this one up at first, but that's the whole fun of it!
So there are a few Kamasutra positions that are simple yet very erotic at the same time.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Kamasutra and Ramayana - Comparing Epics

By Tushar Jain

As long as individuality is a word linked with the human lexicon, whenever we draw comparisons, we’ll need to strive to simply make the definitions comply. The question is not that we’re discussing terms or epics here; the real issue is that we’re attempting to compare them. How would commonplace sanity allow the comparison of a chair and a gallon of nuclear waste? How can a person even tend to compare ubiquitous logic and the Pythagoras theorem? It is tantamount to marrying for sex, or buying a car to barely sit in. If we construct some conduit of comprehension between two epics, nothing can confirm that either we in ours, or the medium itself, are overruled by an inconsistent resolution. The reason to that is not that we dare not brave the occasion, but instead that the occasion simply isn’t affected by easy bravery, that the source to the inconsistency is not personal, but the inconsistency is automatic, circumstantial, born of engineered comparisons greater than the one we aspire to. Comparing epics is not cumbersome, for we denote something as cumbersome if we believe that it doesn’t resist the possibility of being enacted… comparing epics is impossible, or rather, comparison in its conception serves as a non-existent medium, not linking, not involving, not perturbing the ends, rather subtly moving between them. We cannot device a degree that satisfies an ideal comparison, and hence, any designs at comparison will remain vague, insubstantial, callow, crude, unnecessary and shapeless. If it still tasking to let the fact seem credible, then try comparing maps, rivers, tides, men, women, moon, and the sun, and if you near conclusion, test the foundation on which you judge, and you’ll perhaps understand how comparison is never more than personal.
Since the abomination need be executed, it need be quick and painless, like a heart attack whilst one sleeps. I shall endeavor to compare the beastly epics ‘Kamasutra’ and ‘Ramayana’.
Kamasutra is one of India’s oldest epics, and it is also one of the most illustrious. The notable rest of the Kamasutra can be read ideally in serialized forms on the feted graffiti scrawled on the walls of a boy’s toilet in any institutional building, or can be surveyed with visual aids in the more popular segregated corners of the same, or if all resorts fail, then the delicate knowledge that the Kamasutra confers can be contrived at a very lucrative rate at the Pallika bazaar. The Kamasutra is the Hindu sex-manual. It is tendentious to adultery, lesbianism, open sex, illicit sex, positions that Olympic gold-medlalists for acrobatics will find arduous to engineer, is controversially in opposition to oral sex, and merrily vilifies and belittles women to nothing but mere fun sexual objects to a degree gross enough to set convulsions up a feminist’s back. Conclusively, the Kamasutra is about sex. Comparison needs to based on the commonality of a facet, so what remains to be done is prove that Ramayana is as immensely foul a sexual epic as the Kamasutra.
Whether we’re in a lavatory creating dusky excreta, or slipping off a soap-bar in a bathroom – ‘hey ram’ is a favorite amongst exclamation marks. Ramayana is not something that one can wash his hands off with a bathetic synopsis or sullied with brevity in a vain attempt at summarizing for the details, the nature of the epic, the enormity of its conception, cannot possibly be synthesized or concentrated into a few words. However, if desperation piques more than reverence then – ram went to a jungle with his wife and not-so-temperate brother, started a war, collated an army of freaky monkeys, one of them having a fetish for arson, and defeated a bloke with ten heads and an earthen pot for where his pancreas should’ve been. There’re rarely individuals reared in India without the self-governing fear of god, i.e., Ram, without the know-how of the Ramayana, and of course, for the joyous ignoramuses, Doordarshan aired an entire series devoted to the epic and still gladly has reruns airing every weekend.
Now, the comparison need be put to effect. And do remember the heartening word ‘sex’.
Perception is like a trained dog. If we begin perceiving immorally and with a tad iniquity, or debatably, with a lesser myopic sense than the archetype ingrained in our sick Indian mentalities, the Ramayana can be viewed, like the Kamasutra, as a practical sex manual.
Now, arbitrary qualms need be raised, and arbitrary conclusions need be heralded.
Since, Ram’s dad is a man with a stellar flock of wives, so the Ramayana definitely nods upon not only polygamy but also threesomes and foursomes. Laxman’s (and even Bharat’s) craving to accompany Ram into a forest for the extensive period of the exile illustrates a very filthy homosexual approach. The savamvar needed Ram to break Shiva’s bow to ‘earn’ Sita as his wife, can be mechanized into a very fitting allegory… okay, imagine, Ram needs to ‘break’ a certain ‘something’ to ultimately ‘deflower’ Sita. Next, in the forest, what unambiguous, precise, justified reason do Laxman and Ram possess, instead of the lame one of scanning out food, for leaving behind Sita and heading into the forest, alone, with arrows and other phallic instrument that can be interpreted as ‘tools to contrive obscene homosexual pleasure’? Jatayu is a character tangentially consequent to circumstances related to Sita… the word ‘Jatayu’ is a convoluted etymological contribution of the word ‘Jata’ which in the layman’s Hindi translates into ‘hair’, and thus, Valmiki, the paragon amongst perverts, was alluding actually to Sita’s pubic hair. By keen observations and a keener sense for obscurities, one can perhaps garner the consummate acknowledgement of Ramayana as an epic that not only preaches sex, but abstractly advocates a heterodoxical attitude.
Thus, much reluctantly, the epics lay compared.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Kamasutra - The Art of Making Love

By Anshuman Gothwal

The Kamasutra is a famous Indian literary text about love. The text also deals with human sexual behavior, though it is not only a book as many people think, about positions in sexual intercourse. It is a book about finding a partner, maintaining power in married life, committing adultery, living with a courtesan or being a courtesan and also about sexual positions during sexual intercourse.
The name of the book, Kama Sutra comes from two sanskrit words, Kama which means desire/love/sex/pleasure and Sutra which means a treatise. The book was composed by Vatsayayan in Sanskrit, which is the ancient literary language of India. The book opens with a discussion on dharma (piety), artha (power) and kama (pleasure) which are known as three aims of human life or the trinity.
The different chapters in the book are as follows:
1. Introductory
Chapters on contents of the book, three aims and priorities of life, the acquisition of knowledge, conduct of the well-bred townsman, reflections on intermediaries who assist the lover in his enterprises (5 chapters).
2. On sexual union
Chapters on stimulation of desire, types of embraces, caressing and kisses, marking with nails, biting and marking with teeth, on copulation (positions), slapping by hand and corresponding moaning, virile behavior in women, superior coition and oral sex, preludes and conclusions to the game of love. It describes 64 types of sexual acts (10 chapters).
3. About the acquisition of a wife
Chapters on forms of marriage, relaxing the girl, obtaining the girl, managing alone, union by marriage (5 chapters).
4. About a wife
Chapters on conduct of the only wife and conduct of the chief wife and other wives (2 chapters).
5. About the wives of other people
Chapters on behavior of woman and man, encounters to get acquainted, examination of sentiments, the task of go-between, the king's pleasures, behavior in the women's quarters (6 chapters).
6. About courtesans
Chapters on advice of the assistants on the choice of lovers, looking for a steady lover, ways of making money, renewing friendship with a former lover, occasional profits, profits and losses (6 chapters).
Chapters on improving physical attractions, arousing a weakened sexual power (2 chapters).
For a detailed translation of these chapters you may visit:
http://www.indohistory.com/kamasutra.html
The text is direct towards women but it also reflects women´s voices. This kind of reference in Kama Sutra is contrary to infinite number of references in other hindu literature where the women is supposed to be virtuous and constantly server her husband inspite of all his vices.
The book can be appreciated only when you go through the full literature and the literature will be appreciated only when you practice it.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Kama Sutra The Crab's Position, is it The Best in Kama Sutra?

By Crid Lee

There is a lot of debates about which is the best sex position that human enjoys, especially among those techniques that are listed in Kamasutra? So which is the best technique?
There is this technique called the Crab’s position, which I find it pretty amusing, and therefore wanted to share with you here.
The Crab’s position is a highly pleasurable position that constricts the vagina around the penis. It is done by having the woman lying on her back, bending and drawing in both legs and resting her thighs on her stomach. It somehow looks like a crab retracting its claws. The man can enter from a kneeling position.
The position allows penetration and vigorous thrusting. I think that all the techniques that are in the Kamasutra manual are all the best, as long as you enjoy the company of your partner. Yes, positions do play a part, but most importantly, the communication with your partner during sex is also vital.
Women can play along with men, and create the fantasy that we men always craved for, like dressing up as nurses, old school uniform, etc. Men can also create a better sex for their partners by giving women good foreplays and talking dirty.
In this way, a couple can achieve good sex, no matter what are the Kamasutra positions that you are having. Of course, if you know more positions and try them on your partners, you will always create that extra excitements and adventures.

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Kama Sutra Book - What Is In The Ancient Text?

By John K Stevens

Kamasutra: a book written well over Millennia ago in India for male citizens on how to please and how to be pleasured. As well as acrobatic and sculptural positions, there includes advice for massage, fellatio, cunnilingus, kissing, touching and penis/vaginal compatibility. Many uneducated and uncultured people nowadays see it only as the source to find "wild" positions for sex.
Every man needs a tip once in a while, especially when it comes to things that are not that well-known. Take KamaSutra for example. Everybody heard the name, but to the average man Kama Sutra is just 'a name'. It has a raunchy connotation and a reputation for being some sort of ancient porn mag, but the details elude pretty much anybody who never had the time or the inclination to actually read the book. Lovecentria has taken the necessary steps to bringing the joys of ancient erotic arts of the Orient into the lives of modern people since we believe that it's better to be informed than to risk making a fool of oneself. Lovecentria features an everyman's guide to both Kama Sutra and Tactic sex, a no-nonsense approach to an issue that has the common man repelled by the hints of mysticism and all that talk of chakras, being one with the universe or dancing naked around certain trees. Kama Sutra is a far simpler affair and one that can be learnt quickly.
Nowadays it is becoming a very popular book in the whole world. Every website has a hefty database of instructional videos, articles and e-books that can teach anybody what the ancient people of India meant when they spoke about Kamasutra (love) and what they were doing in bed that has made this kamasutra book so famous through the ages. The Treatise on Love, which is the correct translation of Kama Sutra, is a comprehensive book on how to get to know women, how to woo them and, finally, how to perform in bed in order to please both yourself and the lady in question. All you need to know about Kama Sutra is a couple of clicks away on the Lovecentria? website.
The best reason to learn about the Kama Sutra book is to perfect your style. Every man wants to amaze women with his skills and techniques and this is where this ancient book can make a huge difference in your love life. New positions, new attitudes and new ways of courting women can be at your fingertips in a short while. I think every man would like that.
Tantric Sex and Kama Sutra
Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It's about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that's exactly what's going to make her beg for more every time because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Increase Libido – Shilajit

By Dr. Smith Johnson
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Shilajit, one of the potent herbal supplements that has been used since ages to increase the libido and increasing the endurance of your body. Maharishi Charka the author of the Ayurvedic medical book Charka Samhita has mentioned Shilajit as one of the greatest aphrodisiac herb. Even all the ayurvedic male health enhances definitely contains Shilajit in them. One can imagine the extent of Shilajit’s benefits that its reference can also been found in the love book “The Kamasutra”
Following are the benefits of Shilajit
1. Shilajit increases libido.
2. Shilajit enhances the stamina as well as vigor in males.
3. Shilajit is considered as a herbal supplement that increases the endurance in body. It is also helpful in rectifying the male genital tract problems.
4. Shilajit is responsible for increasing sperm count as well as quantity.
6. Shilajit also makes our body strong and supplies the energy that is very essential for completing the act of love and intercourse.
Fulvic acid -
Shilajit is an ayurvedic herbal supplement that is known to mankind since ages. Shilajit is a rasayana and is a powerful Adaptogenic agent that is a part of numerous ayurvedic classical preparations.
Shilajit when seen chemically consist of more than eighty five different minerals with a good amount of fulvic acid in them. This is the action of these minerals and the fulvic acid that supplies Shilajit with the properties that it possesses.

Friday, July 24, 2009

How To Make Your Regular Sexual Life "Sensual"

By Cheetu Jaisinghani

Are you facing boredom in your sex life? Then why not to try sensual hypnosis to increase your sensuality so that you can enjoy all the pleasures of sex.
Senses are the greatest gift, given by god to us. As we know, that we have mainly five senses sight, smell, hearing, taste & touch. And if, we use all of these senses during sex, then it will be erotic, sensual, and divine sex.
Sensual Hypnosis
Why most of us don't feel sensual in our regular sexual life?
Because its natural and interconnected with both male and female. Naturally for males anything repetitive becomes boring. Senses become neutral and stop stimulating.
Woman, basically she is richer of the senses than any selective male, but in response to the dry senses of her partner she absorbs the feeling of boredom and dissatisfaction, and how can a unsatisfied woman makes her man satisfied?
Here comes the need for Sensual hypnosis to express all that feelings physically which is inside your heart, the touch, the smell, your passion, obsession, fantasy, excitement, tickling, light caresses to create all the sensation in your body, mind and soul.
How It Works
It removes all the blocks in the sensual system, no matter where it's in your body, conscious mind or subconscious mind.
Sensual hypnosis commands your subconscious mind to automatically zoom into the feelings of sexual pleasure, communication and mutual satisfaction or it can be customized according to your specific circumstances as your age, sex, nationality, attitude and desires.
Magnetic Aura
Magnetic Aura is an ancient kamasutra technique. Your partner will respond automatically according to you.
Just after going deep in trance, imagine that you both are mating and feel a magnetic aura of energy is covering both of you.
This energy is alive, powerful, and vibrant, taking you to the sense of deep arousal, complete sex and satisfaction.
Now the key to transformation is to do this session just 15 min before you plan to mate, and enter with this aura in a casual and natural way.

For more information on sex and hypnosis please visit
href="http://cheetu.com/erotic-hypnosis.html"> My Erotic Hypnosis article

Thursday, July 23, 2009

How to Give Your Female Partner an Orgasm

By Branson Yen

For any man, probably the most essential thing is to realize about a woman's sexual climax is that the woman is not as easily satisfied as the man. This is because women do not ejaculate and hence, their sexual climax is indefinite. In most incidences, the man ejaculates and reaches his climax before the woman attains her orgasm.
Men can climax just by stimulating their penises for a while. But for women, the whole situation is quite different. In order to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm, you must learn how the female body experiences sexual climax, what her main excitable organs are, and how they are affected during sexual stimulation.
Unlike men who can reach their climaxes at the drop of a hat, women require a romantic atmosphere, proper arousal, a comfortable sex position, or to sum it all up, an overall stimulating ambiance.
Here are some tips on how to give women their orgasms.
Tip 1:
Make the atmosphere as romantic as possible. For women, romance has a strong relation with fragrance. But do not go for any artificial sprays and deodorants, choose some natural flavor (simple flowers may work). Another thing you can do to add fuel to her sexual desire is to play some romantic, soft and soothing music. Let the beat and rhythm become a part of these wonderful moments.
Tip 2:
Invest in some comfortable bedspreads, flowing curtains, tantalizing pictures, mood lighting, the works. Keep everything neat and clean. When the woman walks into such a room, she won't be able to resist herself.
Tip 3:
One of the most important things in learning how to give your female partner an orgasm is to understand how to make her feel wanted and appreciated. Proper communication can open hidden doors. Tell her that you appreciate her body and spend a lot of time caressing each of them. Tip 4:
Foreplay is mandatory and cannot be overlooked. You know all about the female sexual body parts such as breasts, thighs, lips, neck and most importantly, the clitoris and vaginal lips. Some men prefer oral sex whereas others just keep themselves away from it. Do not get worried if you feel that stimulating by tongue is something you don't want to do; you can simply rub your genitals against her private parts and excite her no end.
Spend as much time as possible fondling all her assets that can make her feel aroused. Tip 5:
Penetration should be gentle if you want to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm. Sexual positions do matter and different women like different positions. Some women love to be on top and some would want to be more adventurous and ask for different kinds of penetrations too. Whatever way you adopt, the idea is to arouse and tempt your female partner as much as possible.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

How to Give a Female a Sexual Orgasm

By Branson Yen

If you want to learn how to give a female an orgasm, first you should get to know what really arouses her. Without involving the clit directly or indirectly, female orgasm cannot be achieved.
The Arousing Stimulation
Men find it very difficult to understand how a tiny organ such as the clitoris holds the key to the female orgasm. It is inconceivable for most men how a miniscule organ which is almost exteriorly placed is more sensitive than even the vagina. However, if you understand and accept this, you can easily find the answer on how to give a female an orgasm.
You may believe that stimulation by the penis over the internal lining of the vagina is the key to giving a female her orgasm. This is also true, but if you couple the vaginal stimulation with the clitoral stimulation, you could give the woman an assured orgasmic delight.
However, for women, orgasm is not achieved merely by tactile stimulation. Even emotional elements come into action. In order to learn how to give a female an orgasm, her sexual partner must know and stimulate all her sensitive parts. Organs such as breasts, armpits, neck, lips, collar bones, thighs and umbilicus share equal importance during sexual stimulation leading from the foreplay till the peak.
There is lot to understand for men about how to give a female an orgasm. This is because the way women get sexually satisfied differs from one woman to another.
Sex Positions:
Some women prefer their sexual partner to have a rear entry, whereas, others prefer the female superior (woman on top) position. Also, while in the female superior position, it is said that a man can hold his own orgasm for a longer duration as compared to the position wherein the man is on the top of female. When a man is on top, the gravity pulls down his semen and he ejaculates sooner. In female top position, it is retained up to certain extent.
If a man has the condition of premature ejaculation and wants to learn how to give a female an orgasm, allowing the woman to be on top could be a solution. Again, in any case, the female orgasm is brought when the clitoris is stimulated in one way or the other. In the indirect method the man's pubic bone pushes up and rubs against the clitoris when he is giving gentle strokes inserting his penis into the vaginal canal. Many men prefer rubbing their penises against the vulva. This works because the vulva is close to the clitoris. This leads to indirect stimulation of the clitoris. In the direct method, the clitoris is stimulated using the finger or, if the man prefers, using his tongue.

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Discover the Best Love Making Positions

By Neal Stirling

When it comes to the best love making positions, it is difficult to point out only one. For most men, sex is just sex. The best love making positions are the simplest. Sure, trying out all the fancy positions in the kamasutra is fun. But, sometimes these positions tend to be too complicated. They can be uncomfortable and really tiring if they are carried out for a long time.
Below are a few love tips to help you make love with that special someone.
Tip #1 - Eye Contact
Any position with eye contact is good for making love. For most women, having her partner look her straight in the eye with lustful eyes is very intimate. Tip #2 - Missionary Position
Missionary position is one of the most intimate positions. It has to be done correctly so that both people can enjoy it. There are many things a woman can do in this position. One of them is to arc her back while looking at her lover lustfully. She can also use her arms to grab him. She can grab his arms or back.
To make it even spicier, some men like their women to pinch their nipples or grip them tight with their nails. Some men find these "love wounds" extremely sexy!
Tip #3 - Cowgirl!
The cowgirl position is when she is on top of him. This position also allows face to face contact. To have a night full of love, you can alternate between the missionary position, cowgirl position and any other position in which you are face to face.
When she is on top he can lustfully look at her body. It is also very good for the woman because she can control her hips. She can move her body to touch just the right spots.

Monday, July 20, 2009

How to Get a Female Orgasm Easily and Effectively Every Time You Make Love

By Branson Yen

It does not matter how perfect and masculine you are, when it is all about a manhood, your potential and virility is measured by how long you can withstand sexual stimulation and how powerful you are in satisfying the woman!
It does not matter how long you can remain on the boxing ring but it does matter how long you can last on the bed, in front of your sexual partner! When it is all about sexual stimulation, sexual activities and sexual intercourse, there is no compromise from either side; the man and the woman.
Unfortunately, they are the men who come so early before their female sexual partners imagine or want. When it comes to successfully getting a lady her best possible orgasm, it is crucial that a man must follow some basic though crucial steps.
In order to learn how to get female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love, make it sure first that you both are in 'sexy' mood. You should be free from any tension (of being caught!!!) and any hurries and worries.
This is just to make the whole episode effective and enjoyable since both of you can focus on the true act of lovemaking. In this way, the woman can achieve mind-blowing orgasms every episode she has with you.
Sexual communication:
Communication plays a crucial role to help the partner achieve any orgasm she wants as it is through the communication which you can identify the problems and correct matters. If you bashful in doing this, you may have to regret one day when your female sexual partner decides to look for other ways to get the missing part of her sexual experience fulfilled.
In order to learn how to get a female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love, it is important to know that you should never put all your focus on just having sexual intercourse.
Extended Foreplay:
You know all sensual parts of the female body that play active role in sexual arousal and stimulation.
The male partner can start touching and fondling individual organs like breasts, thighs, neck, lips and finally clitoris before mounting on her.
Romantic ambience and fragrance around you can also help you in getting answer of how to get a female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love.
This is because women love romance and this can be achieved by playing some soft music, keeping arousing wall-pieces (as said in Kamasutra), use soothing lightings and placing velvety bedspread. They all appear insignificant to you things but play major role in sexually stimulation.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Guide of Sexual Positions - Use These Positions To Impress Her During Sex

By Crid Lee

Before we get into the types of sexual positions to adopt to impress her during sex, do remember to spend sufficient time on foreplay. Foreplay is essential to get her aroused and ready for intercourse. A good foreplay will focus a lot of kissing and caressing on areas such as breasts, neck, shoulders, abdomen, inner thighs, lips, earlobes and spine.
Once the both of you have enough foreplay, you are now ready to learn these sexual positions to bring her to mind-blowing orgasms:
1. The Missionary Position.
This is a natural starter because of its strong eye contact and stimulation for both parties. The woman will lie flat on the bed with both her feet planted on the bed and knees bent. The man will then enter her while caressing her body. This position allows the man to have thrusting control, which can either be deep or shallow depending on the woman's reaction. One thing to note is that this position usually causes a man to ejaculate faster due to friction. To last longer and keep her happy, you can switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.
2. The Belly Flop Position.
With this position, the woman will lie on her tummy, taking her weight on her forearms. When you are using this position with your partner, you should place a pillow under her hips so that her pelvis is angled and you have a better chance to hit her g-spot.
3. The Clip Position.
This positions starts off with the man lying down with his legs outstretched. His partner will sit on top of him, allowing him to penetrate her. The woman will lean back, allowing the man to stimulate her clitoris with his free hands, giving her greater pleasure.
These 3 positions that I have shared with you are very easy to execute. Be sure to master these positions first before moving on to more complicated ones.
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Saturday, July 18, 2009

Female Orgasm Technique - How to Please Women in Bed

By Pekkie Aon

If you want to know about how to please women in bed, you need to know about certain things we hate in lovemaking! Interested? Read on!
• Sure, we all know that toe curling; screaming orgasms require variation and different positions. But please, can we have just five minutes of each at a time? Most women need a steady and slow rhythm to climax at the right time. So, the first step to knowing how to please women in bed is to avoid too many positions at the same time. We do not need a Kamasutra lesson every night! Avoid putting stuff like whipped cream or any other foods in that area. If you want to have melted chocolate off her, go ahead! Just keep it above the waist and you are safe. Just remember that they are very sensitive body tissue. An occasional squeeze is ok; avoid kneading and twisting them too much. It's painful and can turn off your partner in seconds. Also, it doesn't say a lot about your expertise!
• You might feel that a spa is the ideal place to cozy up to your partner. Just be careful of the chlorine in that hot tub of water. It can have a very drying effect on the skin and can cause your partner's vagina to go sore with the friction. Make love to her by all means; just shift the venue of the intercourse to safer areas when you are ready!
Finally, girls hate it when it's all about you all the time. If you really want to know how to please women in bed, make it about her too!

Friday, July 17, 2009

Calories During Sex - Tips to Burn Calories During a Sex Session

By Anna Holman

Burning of calories during sex is higher than any other exercise. In order to burn calories and lose weight, we should have regular sex. Lovemaking is a pleasurable and exciting experience that is enjoyed by everyone. Everyone likes to cuddle, kiss and make love. Sex rejuvenates your body, mind and soul especially making love during morning and late nights are more pleasurable. Regular sex enhances your overall health. Your psychological health also increases due to a safe and happy intercourse.
Tips To Burn Calories During A Sex Session
. In order to burn calories, you should try to make your love making session last for atleast 30 minutes. Never jump into the main action directly, which can reduce the amount of calorie burning.
. Experimentation is the key for an electrifying sex session. Burn calories using difficult positions such as Italian Chandelier and wheelbarrow.
. 150 calories are burnt during a regular sex session. It can even go higher than this if we can delay the entire session by using stop and go rule. It not only helps your body to burn calories but also reduces the cholesterol level. Lovemaking enhances the oxygen supply in your body and improves your blood circulation.
. In order to learn different types of postures during love making, one should read the book called Kamasutra. Calories during sex will be burnt more, if we understand the various nuances of this book. The popular positions like the dog, visitor and lotus is quite helpful for someone who wants to make their lovemaking experience somewhat memorable.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Best Sexual Positions Of The Rich & Famous Part1

By Sacha Tarkovsky

In this series on best sexual positions we have covered a multitude of situations and conditions for a greater understanding to sexual health.
Famous people, like everyday normal ones, are allowed to have a sex life, but sadly, theirs ends up in tabloids and cheap publicity outlets.
Elvis.
Elvis, like most men in the 1950s were completely taken with Marilyn Monroe.
One day at a chance meeting he met her on a movie lot, and asked her out. Elvis on the other hand, had a very active sexual life, and mostly ladies were arranged by one executive at the William Morris Agency who represented him.
Elvis apparently pressured this agent to arrange a meeting with Marilyn.
Marilyn
At the time of this “arrangement” Marilyn was still married to the famous playwright Arthur Miller, so the liaison had to be kept completely secret.
Marilyn was known to have herself been in some kind of 3-way relations with a pair of bisexual men (Charlie Chaplin’s son and another man) as well.
She was willing to meet Elvis, and did.
Their Most Likely Favorite Position
From information gathered in recent books about both of these Hollywood legends, there is one position that is likely to have been their favorite.
This would have been the doggy style in two variations.
On the bed and against a sofa back.
The correct version of the doggy style (most used in the sexually inhibited 1950s America) would have been for the woman to be on all fours on the bed, but her head close to, or touching the sheet.
Instead of her hands supporting her upper body, she would have rested on her forearms with hands flat.
This position elevates the woman’s buttocks for direct contact to the man, on his knees behind her. This also allows the man to fondle her breasts or even her genital area while he is thrusting.
The variation of this is where the man places the woman over the back side of the sofa, so her head in on the sofa back cushion, but her buttocks are firmly against the rear backside of the sofa, her feet on the ground.
The man enters from the rear, standing, and can thrust in a very vigorous manner. This is pure sex, and as the couple can’t really see each other, they are free to fantasize while the sexual act is in progress.
As we know from history, both of these unfortunate individuals were on drugs at the time, perhaps stimulants (amphetamines or cocaine), and the positions described would have been ideal for a couple so influenced.
As we also know from history, this was a one-off event, it seems both their sexual lives took on some negative elements.
Let us suppose that at the time, the positions mentioned (the agent was in the outer room while the two were together) were accurate.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Best Sexual Positions For Sex Out of the Bedroom

By Sacha Tarkovsky

In the Best Sexual Positions series we cover the ideal sexual positions for all circumstances and situations. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for sex out of the bedroom.
Use this information to spice up your sex life, and remember that variety is the secret weapon against complacency.
Sex Out of the Bedroom Situations – At Home
The areas of greatest advantage are the living room, where the sofa and easy chairs are; the bathroom and the kitchen.
The living room
Gives the bed replacements in the sofa and easy chairs.
The best sexual position in these cases are supported doggy style, with the woman on her knees on the sofa seat, and her hands supporting her holding on to the sofa back.
The man is standing, and easily finds a rear entry. This is a marvelous position in that it is pure sex for both partners, and the woman is getting full g-spot stimulation.
The second best position in this case is the man seated on the sofa, and the woman mounts him, facing him, or even with her back turned.
Penetration is easy and deep, and trusting is up to the woman. This is a maximum clitoral stimulation position, and usually ends up with the woman achieving a profound orgasm.
The bathroom
Presents some great possibilities, but the best is the standing rear entry. The woman will support herself against the bathroom sink, and spread her legs wide.
The man will easily find rear entry and in this case, all the thrusting is up to him. This position is a standing doggy style, and thus gives both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This is really a pure sex position.
Sex in the kitchen
Is never as easy as it might seem. The best sexual position here is to have the woman sit or lie back on the kitchen counter (if low enough), or kitchen table.
A small pillow should be placed under her buttocks.
The man will raise the woman’s legs to her breast, and expose her genital area. The woman can assist him by giving feed back.
Then the man can begin thrusting in various ways, such as alternating short and long thrusts.
The woman is very much stimulated by this position (which the Chinese refer to as the standing horse), and the man usually can last a great amount of time also without ejaculating.
There are other great positions for sex outside the bedroom and outside the house, and these are covered in later articles in this series.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters

By Sacha Tarkovsky

In the best sexual positions series we have discussed the best sexual positions for most situations that can arise.
One special situation is for spontaneous sex, and this is something that is totally unpredictable, and thus, knowing the best sexual position in advance can make the magic of a spontaneous sexual encounter last in your memory forever.
Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Often portrayed in films and written about in books, the spontaneous sexual encounter is more or less another name for the Americanized word, ‘quickie’.
The other problem is clothing, and for the spontaneous encounter, you will need to keep as much of your clothing on as possible, as in spontaneous sexual encounters, there is always the risk of being “caught in the act”.
The Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Assuming the encounter begins by kissing, once the couple have passed the moment of decision (to or not to), then the man must turn the woman around so she has to back to the man.
The clothes on the upper part of the body are not required to be removed (regardless of how it is done in films), and concentrate on getting the lower clothes to the knees at least or better the ankles. The man then embraces the woman with one arm, and uses the other to position himself.
The woman does the same. One arm is used to hold the man, usually around his neck, but holding her arm back over her own head, and the other is used to facilitate penetration.
Both the man and woman bend their knees slightly, and come together very closely, like two spoons resting together. As penetration is made the couple move in unison with push and recoil.
This is the action, and as entry was made from the rear, both the g-spot and the clitoris are stimulated.
It is very much like a dance, and indeed the movements from new club dancing should be used if the couple understands how to do it.
The very term spontaneous often means that there is not enough time to prepare for all eventualities.
If inside the woman, then there is no problem, if outside (a term known as coitus interruptus ) the man should terminate in his own free hand, as not to cause a mess.
Remember time is of the essence here, and a quick dressing after the session will not be possible if the man is careless about where he deposits his sperm.
Finishing Up
There are other sexual positions possible for spontaneous sexual encounters, but the standing spoons is by far the best from the standpoint of mutual satisfaction, speed to penetrate, react and completion, and should it be interrupted or discovered, it is the fastest position to recover one’s equipoise.

Ayurveda and Sex

By Dev Sri

Sex, according to Ayurveda and according to Ayurveda and the Vedas, is a divine process that is responsible for the very existence of human race on the face of earth. Kamasutra, the ancient science of love and love making describes in detail a variety of factors involved in practicing safe and fulfilling sex.

According to Ayurveda, children is an asset. From having intercourse to delivering children and bringing them up with healthy body, mind and imparting in them, the training to see life in positive life and showing them the good way of life is an elaborate process. Sal-Santanangal (or children of good qualities, physically, mentally and spiritually) is the ultimate aim of sex.

Vageekarana Chikitsa (Aphrodisiac Treatment)

Aphrodisiac therapy or treatment has a prominent place in Ayurveda. It is part of Vrisha, one anga or branch in ashtanga or eight principle branches of Ayurveda. Removing the imbalances of doshas or tridosha (vata, pitta, kapha) comes before vageekarana chikitsa (aphrodisiac therapy).

Good physical qualities, semen quantity and quality, is the aim of vajeekarana chikitsa.

The man should be compatible to his woman in physical, mental, and on an astrological basis.

Meeting other women is strictly prohibited in Ayurveda. The only place to ejaculate semen is vagina - masturbation and all other forms of unnatural sex are prohibited.

Although Kamasutra suggests 64 different sexual positions, Ayurveda recognizes only the common method -woman bottom and man top. Experimenting on this for bodily pleasure causes woman body to position in different forms, which can cause immediate to long-term faults to woman body and also to the child.

Vageekarana chikitsa or Jaara chikitsa (aphrodisiac therapy) suggests Panchakarma for purification of physiology and semen. Panchakarma is not necessary for women because of physical peculiarities.

Ayurveda suggests physical union of loving couples as the one way to enjoy divine pleasure. Here an assembly of panchendriya (Five Senses - touch, sight, etc.), physical organs, and mind takes place.