By Aasheesh Jain
Yoga has proved it's efficacy in almost all aspects of health. Sexual health also happens to be an essential aspect of being healthy. And Yoga has not bared sex from its holistic health planning.
In fact yoga practices have laid great emphasis on healthy sexual life. A good number of yoga asana and exercises are specifically meant to enhance your sexual energy.
Yoga's sexual philosophy says that for getting sexual pleasure your mind and body should remain in a rejuvenated state and this rejuvenation could be only brought about by various yoga practices. These yoga practices include all forms of yoga- be it asana, pranyama or dhyana.
Various sexual dysfunctions could be effectively cured by yoga. Yoga even offers cure for male impotency. Because of yoga's efficacy in improving your sexual life, yoga is being practiced by a good number of folks with the sole purpose of enhancing sexual drive. But Yoga never advocates excess of sex. It sticks to the conventional concept of sex that the act of sex is primarily meant for procreation.
Among various types of Yoga, Tantra Yoga is said to be very much linked with sex. Tantra Yoga was a preferred practice in ancient India to better you sexually. Ancient Indian guide of sex Kamasutra have advocated usefulness of Tantra Yoga for enhanced level of sexual pleasure. This practice of Tantra Yoga has recently gone through a renaissance as more and more folks prefer it over Viagra and other medications to gain desired level of erection.
Asanas of Tantra Yoga bring in required physiological changes to propel more secretion of sexual hormones. These hormones in turn help gain desired sexual potency. In addition to that Tantra Yoga also contributes to increased flexibility and freshness. These factors combine together to serve a unified purpose that is your better sexual life. Kamsutra offers around sixty yoga positions for ideal sex. These sexual positions have been proved effective in solving marital discord arising out of sexual dissatisfaction. Thus Yoga could be a very effective way of improving your conjugal relationship.
Various yoga breathing techniques are particularly helpful in bettering you for sex. These breathing techniques along with Hot Yoga asana would enable you overpowered with sexual potential. So folks, gear up and make best use of yoga poses to enjoy a healthy and better sex life.
To get more information on yoga, yoga types and yoga benefits visit http://www.therealyoga.com/
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Monday, August 17, 2009
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Yoga Invigorates Your Sex Life
By Aasheesh Jain
We live in a sexually pluralistic world and whatever our conviction, sex is here to stay. Through the realities of sex and sexual experience we can gauge a person’s inner most truth, his/her consciousness.
But how sad, despite global interaction and expansion in awareness, most people still tend to conceal bodily experience; they do not recognize wisdom of the body, which is worth loving for its grace, truth and reality.
Painters, photographers and poets view the human body with all its senses, emotions and intellect as a repository of actual pleasure, pain and ecstasy. They express it with imagination and philosophical intuition, making us conscious of our varied realities. They are not inhibited by false shame. They know human sexuality, if presented and used properly, should help us fuse the primordial male-female polarity into energy which could then make life in harmony with the original source, bring the individual and humanity closer, and promote stable sexual relations. If used unwisely it may degenerate into a diffracted and miserable world.
Sex : A metaphor
Artists do not question the cult of pleasure or the reverence for abstinence as they explore the naked physicality in all its dimensions. They do not create a work for the sake of casual stimulation. Rather, they know that sexual symbolism becomes devalued and inexpressive if it loses the wealth of its actual sexual experience and fails to illumine ones inner landscape; they seek to illuminate the realities of life through body-images.
Sex is a metaphor: the encounter of man and woman, woman and woman, man and man to express feelings, to feel valued or loved, to explore relationships, concerns, roles, to react against false ethical and cultural values, against stereotypes and prejudices, against hypocrisy and dubious social standards that enchain, and debase honest aspirations as lust or vulgarity.
Against a gnawing sense of loss of meaning and purpose in the computerized, simulation-filled emptiness of our life today, including gimmicks, imitations, romantic overtures, and even plain silliness that are often noticed, sex serves as an antidote to the fast dehumanizing existence: Its expression is a means of defying the disgusting sociopolitical world without; it’s a form of active resistance to political manipulation day in and day out.
No Narrow View
With their erotic presentation, artists and poets seek to create what is physically balanced and confident, and elevating to the senses. They know that the naked body is a pretext for a work of art and it can be made expressive of a far wider and more civilizing experience. There is, therefore, a sense of purpose in a poet or artist’s eroticism or sexuality – love of the self through exploration of the body, or naked physicality leading to love, or libidinal sublimation, or sexual union of two consenting adults.
It cannot be objectionable to express the real human needs and experiences, the physical body artistically re-formed or sex-acts re-enacted with a sense of shared delight. The sexual imagery indeed conveys a mixture of memories and sensations, a desire to perpetuate ourselves in the complex of living.
Octavio Paz writes in The Double Flame (1995) that eroticism is a social form of sexuality which is transfigured by our dreams. I see it as a means to rediscover the original magic of life just as sex is the mainspring of ones psyche and constitutes the sensory experience besides being the balance-point of various beings.
Sexpression: Indian Heritage
Many of our thousand-year old temple sculptures are an undisguised exaltation of physical desire; the sensuous friezes of the temples at Khajuraho and the figures carved on the stone walls of the Sun Temple at Konark are great works of art because their eroticism is part of the Indian philosophy; it is our cultural heritage.
The process of erotic creation, like Kama-adhyatma, pursuing sex to spiritual height, is something positive in Hindu ethos; it is an important psychological fact of life, a sort of libidinal sublimation if one also performs with an awareness of the rich and ennobling pluralistic dimensions of the Hindu culture.
Love and celebration of womanhood, as part of erotic experience through a process of exhilaration, stimulation and relaxation – swimming through the river of heavenly happiness, uniting the eye, mind and imagination, and losing ignorance – is both physical and spiritual. Orthodoxy Undesirable
But somehow, in recent years, largely due to lack of the spirit of enquiry and appreciation of the Hindu culture, tradition and values, discussion and expression of sex in public seems to have been denigrated. Authors and artists have been frequently subjected to violence of the orthodox right wing which seeks to ban honest sexual self-expression and is intolerant of recreational and non-procreative sex acts.
There was no social tension due to unsatisfied lost. Sex practice was not looked down upon just as men and women enjoyed healthy emotional relationship both within marital and larger societal contexts. The writers of the ancient Sanskrit manuals like Kamasutra, Panchasakya, Smara Pradit, Ratimanjari, Kokashastra, Ratirahasya, Ananga Ranga etc. educated men and women in the art of courtship, foreplay, actual intercourse (including various postures of union) and post-coital activities; they treated love not only as a matter of giving and receiving pleasure, but also as a means of access to the realm where human and divine meet.
Emotional lyrics of poets like Kalidasa, Bhavabhuti, Bhartrhari, Amaru, Yashovarman, Jayadeva and others reflect frank eroticism but create a transcending spiritual effect and meaning with their expression of the primordial pursuh-prakriti, or what the Chinese call Yin-Yang interplay.
God Created Sex
The Bible, like the ancient Hindu scriptures, does not decry sex. In fact celebration of physical union is God-ordained; man and woman are expected to stay together, love each other as their own flesh.
Because God created human beings as male and female, He created sex and ordained sexual union (in a socially acceptable form) to bind man and woman together, to make them dear to each other as husband and wife, to lead a healthy emotional life through love and sex, and thus ensure personal and social stability.
As I see it, it is God’s design that we enjoy life, be happy, be one flesh in coitus, and thus glorify Him in body. In the Vedas and Upanishads, too, sex is the source of happiness in equality, in oneness of man and woman, in love.
The search for love, or desire for sex, even if erotic, is essentially the aspiration for entering into another to know, to understand. It is the search for a bridge between the uncontrollable external events and the often impulsive, subjective, or internal responses.
Body as Soul
In brief, depiction of sex in art and literature has been metaphysically serious in India, just as sexual desire and fulfillment is an action of the spirit in body, leading to pleasure and harmony. The body images illuminate the realities of life; sexual metaphors in art make it possible for artists to convey what it feels like to be filled with desire, transmuting and transmitting memories of experience.
Artists visualize human body as a picture of the human soul; they celebrate it to understand the world and the self. If they glorify nudity, it is to explore the consciousness, in conflict with the muddling external chaos.
As a poet I realize humans are flesh in sensuality and there is divinity in it. The fleshly unity is the reality, the passage to experience divinity, and its expression should not be repressed through governmental interference in the name of morality and all that.
Sexual self-expression should be treated as ones fundamental right just as personal freedom of choice, sexual privacy rights, and tolerance for diversity are the hallmarks of a liberated enlightened society.
--Dr.R.K.SINGH,
Professor & Head, Dept of Humanities & Social Sciences,
Indian School of Mines University,
Dhanbad 826004, India.
We live in a sexually pluralistic world and whatever our conviction, sex is here to stay. Through the realities of sex and sexual experience we can gauge a person’s inner most truth, his/her consciousness.
But how sad, despite global interaction and expansion in awareness, most people still tend to conceal bodily experience; they do not recognize wisdom of the body, which is worth loving for its grace, truth and reality.
Painters, photographers and poets view the human body with all its senses, emotions and intellect as a repository of actual pleasure, pain and ecstasy. They express it with imagination and philosophical intuition, making us conscious of our varied realities. They are not inhibited by false shame. They know human sexuality, if presented and used properly, should help us fuse the primordial male-female polarity into energy which could then make life in harmony with the original source, bring the individual and humanity closer, and promote stable sexual relations. If used unwisely it may degenerate into a diffracted and miserable world.
Sex : A metaphor
Artists do not question the cult of pleasure or the reverence for abstinence as they explore the naked physicality in all its dimensions. They do not create a work for the sake of casual stimulation. Rather, they know that sexual symbolism becomes devalued and inexpressive if it loses the wealth of its actual sexual experience and fails to illumine ones inner landscape; they seek to illuminate the realities of life through body-images.
Sex is a metaphor: the encounter of man and woman, woman and woman, man and man to express feelings, to feel valued or loved, to explore relationships, concerns, roles, to react against false ethical and cultural values, against stereotypes and prejudices, against hypocrisy and dubious social standards that enchain, and debase honest aspirations as lust or vulgarity.
Against a gnawing sense of loss of meaning and purpose in the computerized, simulation-filled emptiness of our life today, including gimmicks, imitations, romantic overtures, and even plain silliness that are often noticed, sex serves as an antidote to the fast dehumanizing existence: Its expression is a means of defying the disgusting sociopolitical world without; it’s a form of active resistance to political manipulation day in and day out.
No Narrow View
With their erotic presentation, artists and poets seek to create what is physically balanced and confident, and elevating to the senses. They know that the naked body is a pretext for a work of art and it can be made expressive of a far wider and more civilizing experience. There is, therefore, a sense of purpose in a poet or artist’s eroticism or sexuality – love of the self through exploration of the body, or naked physicality leading to love, or libidinal sublimation, or sexual union of two consenting adults.
It cannot be objectionable to express the real human needs and experiences, the physical body artistically re-formed or sex-acts re-enacted with a sense of shared delight. The sexual imagery indeed conveys a mixture of memories and sensations, a desire to perpetuate ourselves in the complex of living.
Octavio Paz writes in The Double Flame (1995) that eroticism is a social form of sexuality which is transfigured by our dreams. I see it as a means to rediscover the original magic of life just as sex is the mainspring of ones psyche and constitutes the sensory experience besides being the balance-point of various beings.
Sexpression: Indian Heritage
Many of our thousand-year old temple sculptures are an undisguised exaltation of physical desire; the sensuous friezes of the temples at Khajuraho and the figures carved on the stone walls of the Sun Temple at Konark are great works of art because their eroticism is part of the Indian philosophy; it is our cultural heritage.
The process of erotic creation, like Kama-adhyatma, pursuing sex to spiritual height, is something positive in Hindu ethos; it is an important psychological fact of life, a sort of libidinal sublimation if one also performs with an awareness of the rich and ennobling pluralistic dimensions of the Hindu culture.
Love and celebration of womanhood, as part of erotic experience through a process of exhilaration, stimulation and relaxation – swimming through the river of heavenly happiness, uniting the eye, mind and imagination, and losing ignorance – is both physical and spiritual. Orthodoxy Undesirable
But somehow, in recent years, largely due to lack of the spirit of enquiry and appreciation of the Hindu culture, tradition and values, discussion and expression of sex in public seems to have been denigrated. Authors and artists have been frequently subjected to violence of the orthodox right wing which seeks to ban honest sexual self-expression and is intolerant of recreational and non-procreative sex acts.
There was no social tension due to unsatisfied lost. Sex practice was not looked down upon just as men and women enjoyed healthy emotional relationship both within marital and larger societal contexts. The writers of the ancient Sanskrit manuals like Kamasutra, Panchasakya, Smara Pradit, Ratimanjari, Kokashastra, Ratirahasya, Ananga Ranga etc. educated men and women in the art of courtship, foreplay, actual intercourse (including various postures of union) and post-coital activities; they treated love not only as a matter of giving and receiving pleasure, but also as a means of access to the realm where human and divine meet.
Emotional lyrics of poets like Kalidasa, Bhavabhuti, Bhartrhari, Amaru, Yashovarman, Jayadeva and others reflect frank eroticism but create a transcending spiritual effect and meaning with their expression of the primordial pursuh-prakriti, or what the Chinese call Yin-Yang interplay.
God Created Sex
The Bible, like the ancient Hindu scriptures, does not decry sex. In fact celebration of physical union is God-ordained; man and woman are expected to stay together, love each other as their own flesh.
Because God created human beings as male and female, He created sex and ordained sexual union (in a socially acceptable form) to bind man and woman together, to make them dear to each other as husband and wife, to lead a healthy emotional life through love and sex, and thus ensure personal and social stability.
As I see it, it is God’s design that we enjoy life, be happy, be one flesh in coitus, and thus glorify Him in body. In the Vedas and Upanishads, too, sex is the source of happiness in equality, in oneness of man and woman, in love.
The search for love, or desire for sex, even if erotic, is essentially the aspiration for entering into another to know, to understand. It is the search for a bridge between the uncontrollable external events and the often impulsive, subjective, or internal responses.
Body as Soul
In brief, depiction of sex in art and literature has been metaphysically serious in India, just as sexual desire and fulfillment is an action of the spirit in body, leading to pleasure and harmony. The body images illuminate the realities of life; sexual metaphors in art make it possible for artists to convey what it feels like to be filled with desire, transmuting and transmitting memories of experience.
Artists visualize human body as a picture of the human soul; they celebrate it to understand the world and the self. If they glorify nudity, it is to explore the consciousness, in conflict with the muddling external chaos.
As a poet I realize humans are flesh in sensuality and there is divinity in it. The fleshly unity is the reality, the passage to experience divinity, and its expression should not be repressed through governmental interference in the name of morality and all that.
Sexual self-expression should be treated as ones fundamental right just as personal freedom of choice, sexual privacy rights, and tolerance for diversity are the hallmarks of a liberated enlightened society.
--Dr.R.K.SINGH,
Professor & Head, Dept of Humanities & Social Sciences,
Indian School of Mines University,
Dhanbad 826004, India.
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Why Kamasutra Is Still Important For Modern Youth?
By Dr John Anne
It can be rightfully said that no other work on sex and its correlate is as extensive as the Kamasutra of ancient India. The Kamasutra has been authored by an obscure Indian guru, named Vatsyayana Mallagana as far back as the fourth century.
The Kamasutra is extensively famous today, even in the advanced western world. Life has changed drastically from those times; but the Kamasutra remains perennially fresh. When you read the seven books of the Kamasutra, you get the impression as though it were written just yesterday keeping the modern youth in mind.
The Kamasutra is a journey of the life of a man through different sexual stages. It beings with boyhood when the first pubertal changes begin to surface in the body of the man right up to old age when the man loses his sexual virility. This range of a man’s entire sexual life is divided into seven stages, and hence there are seven books.
In the first book, Vatsyayana tells how a boy first begins to notice the changes in his own body. Not only is this a time of sexual advancement, there is also a social idea ingrained in the boy’s mind at this time. Just as the boy becomes more in harmony with society, he also develops a friendlier bond with his own body. He begins to understand how his body, especially the genitals, reacts to various changes around him. Sexual desires make their presence felt at this stage, and the boy learns to satiate himself by masturbation. Different masturbatory techniques for men are described in this book.
The second book is about sexual blooming of the boy into a young man. The young man learns what sex is all about, and goes into the world to seek his satisfaction. Different men get themselves satisfied in different manners. The very extensive section in this book pertaining to sexual positions is what the Kamasuutra is most remembered for even today. The book discusses at length how different sexual positions affect the mental and biological state of a man’s being. The relative merits and demerits of the positions are discussed at length.
Once this stage is past, the young man strives to gain a wife for himself. This is no easy task either, as he will need to woo the wife and perhaps have to pit himself with several competitors. Once he is victorious, he has the right to his wife, and nobody else can lay a claim on her. He has a moral right to fight anybody who trespasses the decency of his wife. This book also tells how a man and his wife can enjoy sexual bliss. It tells about how a woman must help her husband masturbate if he so desires.
The entire Kamasutra is written from the point of view of a man. However, in book four, Vatsyayana directly addresses women. He tells them of the proper mode of conduct in a marriage, of how to remain faithful and dutiful to their husbands and how to protect their modesties from other men. The point that a wife must provide her husband with good sex, and get good sex in return from him, is also emphasized.
The fifth book lays bare the deviant nature in all men as they approach middle age. This is the time when the wife no longer holds the same attraction, and men try to hunt for other men’s wives. Though this is immoral, the Kamasutra maintains that this is also inevitable. So methods of luring other men’s wives are present in this book of the Kamasutra. The Kamasutra goes as far as saying that only if there is extra-marital sex will there be peace within a marriage.
The sixth book makes man seem more adventurous, primarily because of his diminishing sexual drive. This is the time when the man has earned enough money, and he doesn’t mind squandering a bit of it on carnal pleasures. Man would visit prostitutes and such other women in order to get his pleasures.
In the seventh and the last book, the stage of man after he has lost his sex drive is mentioned. This is when man returns fully to his wife, and engrosses himself in spiritual pursuits. Naturally, people the world over think that the Kamasutra is only a book about sexual positions, though this is as far from the truth as it can be possible. The Kamasutra is a whole treatise on sex.
In today’s world, the basic argument against the Kamasutra – and a very justified one at that – is that it objectifies women. The entire work treats women as nothing more than sex toys for the male. Also, despite its very blatant description of all things sexual, the very popular oral sex has been uncannily kept out. There is no mention – supporting or contradictory – of oral sex at all.
But the book on sexual positions in the Kamasutra is still a very valuable work. Couples can derive much pleasure by trying out the different postures mentioned here.
It can be rightfully said that no other work on sex and its correlate is as extensive as the Kamasutra of ancient India. The Kamasutra has been authored by an obscure Indian guru, named Vatsyayana Mallagana as far back as the fourth century.
The Kamasutra is extensively famous today, even in the advanced western world. Life has changed drastically from those times; but the Kamasutra remains perennially fresh. When you read the seven books of the Kamasutra, you get the impression as though it were written just yesterday keeping the modern youth in mind.
The Kamasutra is a journey of the life of a man through different sexual stages. It beings with boyhood when the first pubertal changes begin to surface in the body of the man right up to old age when the man loses his sexual virility. This range of a man’s entire sexual life is divided into seven stages, and hence there are seven books.
In the first book, Vatsyayana tells how a boy first begins to notice the changes in his own body. Not only is this a time of sexual advancement, there is also a social idea ingrained in the boy’s mind at this time. Just as the boy becomes more in harmony with society, he also develops a friendlier bond with his own body. He begins to understand how his body, especially the genitals, reacts to various changes around him. Sexual desires make their presence felt at this stage, and the boy learns to satiate himself by masturbation. Different masturbatory techniques for men are described in this book.
The second book is about sexual blooming of the boy into a young man. The young man learns what sex is all about, and goes into the world to seek his satisfaction. Different men get themselves satisfied in different manners. The very extensive section in this book pertaining to sexual positions is what the Kamasuutra is most remembered for even today. The book discusses at length how different sexual positions affect the mental and biological state of a man’s being. The relative merits and demerits of the positions are discussed at length.
Once this stage is past, the young man strives to gain a wife for himself. This is no easy task either, as he will need to woo the wife and perhaps have to pit himself with several competitors. Once he is victorious, he has the right to his wife, and nobody else can lay a claim on her. He has a moral right to fight anybody who trespasses the decency of his wife. This book also tells how a man and his wife can enjoy sexual bliss. It tells about how a woman must help her husband masturbate if he so desires.
The entire Kamasutra is written from the point of view of a man. However, in book four, Vatsyayana directly addresses women. He tells them of the proper mode of conduct in a marriage, of how to remain faithful and dutiful to their husbands and how to protect their modesties from other men. The point that a wife must provide her husband with good sex, and get good sex in return from him, is also emphasized.
The fifth book lays bare the deviant nature in all men as they approach middle age. This is the time when the wife no longer holds the same attraction, and men try to hunt for other men’s wives. Though this is immoral, the Kamasutra maintains that this is also inevitable. So methods of luring other men’s wives are present in this book of the Kamasutra. The Kamasutra goes as far as saying that only if there is extra-marital sex will there be peace within a marriage.
The sixth book makes man seem more adventurous, primarily because of his diminishing sexual drive. This is the time when the man has earned enough money, and he doesn’t mind squandering a bit of it on carnal pleasures. Man would visit prostitutes and such other women in order to get his pleasures.
In the seventh and the last book, the stage of man after he has lost his sex drive is mentioned. This is when man returns fully to his wife, and engrosses himself in spiritual pursuits. Naturally, people the world over think that the Kamasutra is only a book about sexual positions, though this is as far from the truth as it can be possible. The Kamasutra is a whole treatise on sex.
In today’s world, the basic argument against the Kamasutra – and a very justified one at that – is that it objectifies women. The entire work treats women as nothing more than sex toys for the male. Also, despite its very blatant description of all things sexual, the very popular oral sex has been uncannily kept out. There is no mention – supporting or contradictory – of oral sex at all.
But the book on sexual positions in the Kamasutra is still a very valuable work. Couples can derive much pleasure by trying out the different postures mentioned here.
Friday, August 14, 2009
What is Kama Sutra?
By Trina Read
Did you know the Kama Sutra was written by a celibate scholar? Or that the Kama Sutra revolves around a man's pleasure? Or that only about 20% of the book is about sexual positioning? After being with the same partner for a number of years, many couples are desperately curious about how to spice up their sex life. Stuck for options, they secretly tiptoe down the "sex" section of the bookstore to get a peek at the Kama Sutra nudie pictures and acrobatic sexual positions. Titillated, they buy the book only to have it sit untouched and lonesome in their nightstand drawer forevermore.
Unfortunately, they failed to understand that Kama Sutra is not a sex-quick-fix; rather, it's a comprehensive way of looking at their sexuality. As such, it has remained under its mystical Eastern shroud since it first hit pop-culture in the early 1980s.
Truthfully, the Kama Sutra isn't all that complicated and it's a great way for couples to keep their sex fun and fresh over the long term.
So what is Kama Sutra? It was meant as a pillow book. Whereas our Western culture believed in not talking about sex and leaving kids ignorant until their wedding day, Eastern culture had the opposite viewpoint. Vatsyayana happened to create the world's most famous pillow book.
Tradition believes Vatsyayana was a celibate scholar who lived sometime around 4th century AD. He did not write the Kama Sutra per se; rather, he was a compiler and editor of all the information that existed during the very rich Gupta period. Interestingly, Vatsyayana believed that sex itself was not wrong, but doing it frivolously was sinful.
Therefore, "Kama" literally means desire and "Sutra" signifies a thread or a thread of discourses. While most of us believe the Kama Sutra is all about sexual positions, 80% of the book gives insights on how to make love a divine union, how to act like a responsible citizen, how to handle your household, etc. It's a discourse or a marriage manual to troubleshoot all the sticky points a young man or young woman will face in their pending marriage. Brilliant, really.
And then there are the infamous 64 positions which has launched hundreds (maybe thousands) of books, videos and websites. A veritable smorgasbord.
What many people don't realize is that the Kama Sutra's focus is to give the man the maximum amount of sexual pleasure. The more sexual energy she had, the more likely her energy would cross over to give him a bigger, better orgasm.
Our quickly-becomes-boring Western get-on, get-in, get-off type of sex cannot begin to rival Kama Sutra's sex because it is about the entire sexual experience.
Kama Sutra sex has a beginning, middle and end-instead of just focusing on the middle like Westerns do. First, the Kama Sutra gives instructions on how to prepare yourself and your environment for lovemaking. It then talks about multiple ways to have foreplay in order to "energize" the woman (yeah!). It then shows many different options for positions. The possible combinations are endless, enabling you to mix-up sex each and every time.
You may be asking, "If Kama Sutra is so great, why aren't more people jumping on the band wagon?" Well, if you go totally authentic and read Richard Burton's original translated version of Vatsyayana's work, it is deathly boring. Did I mention complicated? He talks about yonis and bulls and other euphemisms that are unfamiliar to our Western sensibilities. Luckily, Anne Hooper came out with Kama Sutra for 21st Century Lovers. It's the best version I've seen on the store shelf because it is written in understandable language and the photos are superb. Or if you want to go more authentic, Deepak Chopra is trying to cash in on his name with his beautiful version of Kama Sutra.
If you've done the math, yes Kama Sutra takes more bedroom work. Time starved couples look at it, roll their eyes and say, "No thanks." Please remember though, good sex gives you and your relationship a much-needed injection of energy.
Did you know the Kama Sutra was written by a celibate scholar? Or that the Kama Sutra revolves around a man's pleasure? Or that only about 20% of the book is about sexual positioning? After being with the same partner for a number of years, many couples are desperately curious about how to spice up their sex life. Stuck for options, they secretly tiptoe down the "sex" section of the bookstore to get a peek at the Kama Sutra nudie pictures and acrobatic sexual positions. Titillated, they buy the book only to have it sit untouched and lonesome in their nightstand drawer forevermore.
Unfortunately, they failed to understand that Kama Sutra is not a sex-quick-fix; rather, it's a comprehensive way of looking at their sexuality. As such, it has remained under its mystical Eastern shroud since it first hit pop-culture in the early 1980s.
Truthfully, the Kama Sutra isn't all that complicated and it's a great way for couples to keep their sex fun and fresh over the long term.
So what is Kama Sutra? It was meant as a pillow book. Whereas our Western culture believed in not talking about sex and leaving kids ignorant until their wedding day, Eastern culture had the opposite viewpoint. Vatsyayana happened to create the world's most famous pillow book.
Tradition believes Vatsyayana was a celibate scholar who lived sometime around 4th century AD. He did not write the Kama Sutra per se; rather, he was a compiler and editor of all the information that existed during the very rich Gupta period. Interestingly, Vatsyayana believed that sex itself was not wrong, but doing it frivolously was sinful.
Therefore, "Kama" literally means desire and "Sutra" signifies a thread or a thread of discourses. While most of us believe the Kama Sutra is all about sexual positions, 80% of the book gives insights on how to make love a divine union, how to act like a responsible citizen, how to handle your household, etc. It's a discourse or a marriage manual to troubleshoot all the sticky points a young man or young woman will face in their pending marriage. Brilliant, really.
And then there are the infamous 64 positions which has launched hundreds (maybe thousands) of books, videos and websites. A veritable smorgasbord.
What many people don't realize is that the Kama Sutra's focus is to give the man the maximum amount of sexual pleasure. The more sexual energy she had, the more likely her energy would cross over to give him a bigger, better orgasm.
Our quickly-becomes-boring Western get-on, get-in, get-off type of sex cannot begin to rival Kama Sutra's sex because it is about the entire sexual experience.
Kama Sutra sex has a beginning, middle and end-instead of just focusing on the middle like Westerns do. First, the Kama Sutra gives instructions on how to prepare yourself and your environment for lovemaking. It then talks about multiple ways to have foreplay in order to "energize" the woman (yeah!). It then shows many different options for positions. The possible combinations are endless, enabling you to mix-up sex each and every time.
You may be asking, "If Kama Sutra is so great, why aren't more people jumping on the band wagon?" Well, if you go totally authentic and read Richard Burton's original translated version of Vatsyayana's work, it is deathly boring. Did I mention complicated? He talks about yonis and bulls and other euphemisms that are unfamiliar to our Western sensibilities. Luckily, Anne Hooper came out with Kama Sutra for 21st Century Lovers. It's the best version I've seen on the store shelf because it is written in understandable language and the photos are superb. Or if you want to go more authentic, Deepak Chopra is trying to cash in on his name with his beautiful version of Kama Sutra.
If you've done the math, yes Kama Sutra takes more bedroom work. Time starved couples look at it, roll their eyes and say, "No thanks." Please remember though, good sex gives you and your relationship a much-needed injection of energy.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Tips on Women Making Love to Men
By Pekkie Aon
Most women would give anything to understand what it is that attracts a man to a woman. Men are not a mystery. • There is no substitute to an exciting and fun female, especially in bed. So, whenever you are concentrating on practicing the umpteenth position from Kamasutra, loosen up! Don't get serious enough not to have fun. Share things in bed, tell him your secret fantasies and encourage him to do the same. You can also try a few sex games to get some 'quality time' together.
• Men have different demands from sex compared to women. They need frequent, consistent and passionate lovemaking. While you may want feel desirable and sexy in bed, he may need a lusty animal! Get more active in bed and chances are you will have him eating out of your hands! Just remember, that does not mean that you use sex as a tool. If you do so, he may just warm up to the game! Sex is the means through which most men bond with their women. The act of sexual release makes him feel connected to you. • A woman who cooks and shares her meals with him is a primeval attraction. So, if you are thinking about a romp in the bedroom, start off with your kitchen!
• Give him his private time. Like women, he needs it to get together with friends, pursue his hobbies and participate in a favorite sport. Give him the time off he wants and he will enjoy his time with you much more.
Practice these tips for women making love to men and become the lady of his dreams!
Most women would give anything to understand what it is that attracts a man to a woman. Men are not a mystery. • There is no substitute to an exciting and fun female, especially in bed. So, whenever you are concentrating on practicing the umpteenth position from Kamasutra, loosen up! Don't get serious enough not to have fun. Share things in bed, tell him your secret fantasies and encourage him to do the same. You can also try a few sex games to get some 'quality time' together.
• Men have different demands from sex compared to women. They need frequent, consistent and passionate lovemaking. While you may want feel desirable and sexy in bed, he may need a lusty animal! Get more active in bed and chances are you will have him eating out of your hands! Just remember, that does not mean that you use sex as a tool. If you do so, he may just warm up to the game! Sex is the means through which most men bond with their women. The act of sexual release makes him feel connected to you. • A woman who cooks and shares her meals with him is a primeval attraction. So, if you are thinking about a romp in the bedroom, start off with your kitchen!
• Give him his private time. Like women, he needs it to get together with friends, pursue his hobbies and participate in a favorite sport. Give him the time off he wants and he will enjoy his time with you much more.
Practice these tips for women making love to men and become the lady of his dreams!
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Tips on Women Making Love to Men
By Pekkie Aon
The health and vitality of both partners involved can be boosted by a satisfying union developed over time. It is thus imperative that for satisfying results both partners should be physically, emotionally and spiritually attached. Reaching an orgasm together is a magical moment best shared together.
Sex is a very integral part of our daily lives. Look no further than the Kamasutra, an ancient Sanskrit text that describes the rules for sensual pleasures. The classical erotic stone sculptures of Khajuraho and Konark in India stand as mute testimony to the unparalleled comprehensive documentation of sexual acts and the emphasis that is laid upon various sexual positions.
How a man can exert control over his ejaculation is greatly increased by the sexual position he engages in with his partner. Missionary position is one of the commonest sexual positions but it is difficult for a man to control his ejaculation in this position. If the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him then the man is relaxed and in a better position to guide his partner.
Premature ejaculation is a highly relative issue. A vast majority of women fail to reach orgasm with the stimulation provided by penetration and thrusts alone. The vagina is far less sensitive than the clitoris and in most regular coital positions the clitoris is not stimulated at all. The BIG SECRET is that most of the sexual positions recommended for controlling ejaculation in men are the ones that stimulate the clitoris too!
A woman can often have multiple orgasms due to manual stimulations before penetration and if the partner ejaculates within seconds after mounting then sex is satisfactory for both partners. Men have a natural urge to ejaculate early and such urges should not be treated as premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation also should not be associated with the time taken and the number of thrusts necessary to ejaculate. The stop-start method, the squeeze technique and adopting favorable sexual positions are helpful in controlling premature ejaculation.
Thus the ground reality is that premature ejaculations are a major cause behind barriers for prolonged sexual intimacy. There are numerous treatments for premature ejaculation, some proven and some just high-pressure advertising.
The health and vitality of both partners involved can be boosted by a satisfying union developed over time. It is thus imperative that for satisfying results both partners should be physically, emotionally and spiritually attached. Reaching an orgasm together is a magical moment best shared together.
Sex is a very integral part of our daily lives. Look no further than the Kamasutra, an ancient Sanskrit text that describes the rules for sensual pleasures. The classical erotic stone sculptures of Khajuraho and Konark in India stand as mute testimony to the unparalleled comprehensive documentation of sexual acts and the emphasis that is laid upon various sexual positions.
How a man can exert control over his ejaculation is greatly increased by the sexual position he engages in with his partner. Missionary position is one of the commonest sexual positions but it is difficult for a man to control his ejaculation in this position. If the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him then the man is relaxed and in a better position to guide his partner.
Premature ejaculation is a highly relative issue. A vast majority of women fail to reach orgasm with the stimulation provided by penetration and thrusts alone. The vagina is far less sensitive than the clitoris and in most regular coital positions the clitoris is not stimulated at all. The BIG SECRET is that most of the sexual positions recommended for controlling ejaculation in men are the ones that stimulate the clitoris too!
A woman can often have multiple orgasms due to manual stimulations before penetration and if the partner ejaculates within seconds after mounting then sex is satisfactory for both partners. Men have a natural urge to ejaculate early and such urges should not be treated as premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation also should not be associated with the time taken and the number of thrusts necessary to ejaculate. The stop-start method, the squeeze technique and adopting favorable sexual positions are helpful in controlling premature ejaculation.
Thus the ground reality is that premature ejaculations are a major cause behind barriers for prolonged sexual intimacy. There are numerous treatments for premature ejaculation, some proven and some just high-pressure advertising.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
The Kamasutra and How to Use It
By Neal Stirling
Like sex toys, the kamasutra is a handy tool you can use in bed. This resource will help you get in touch with your partner. It will also help you enhance your performance in bed. Use these love tips to correctly use the kamasutra:
Tip #1: Using the Kamasutra for More than Sex
The kamasutra is a very old Indian text that deals with more than sex. It gives the reader discipline to have a healthy relationship. This means that you can use the kamasutra to create a lasting relationship with your other half.
Of course, the kamastura will also teach you about sexual pleasures. Popular versions of the kamasutra can be found online. These versions deal more with intercourse positions and lovemaking photos.
Regardless, it's important you build a balanced relationship with your partner. This will help you have better sex.
Tip #2: Using the Kamasutra in Bed
You can go online to find several kamasutra intercourse positions. If your partner is with you, you can both start looking at intercourse positions. The first thing to do would be to try simple positions. This would include positions similar to missionary position. You can steadily move to harder positions as you start mastering the easier ones.
Tip #3: The Kamasutra is a Only a Helping Tool
If you are having bad sex, don't expect the kamasutra to solve all your problems. The kamasutra is simply a tool to help you improve your sex life. Sex is more than intercourse positions. It is also about trust and communication between partners. Don't boss her around in bed.
Like sex toys, the kamasutra is a handy tool you can use in bed. This resource will help you get in touch with your partner. It will also help you enhance your performance in bed. Use these love tips to correctly use the kamasutra:
Tip #1: Using the Kamasutra for More than Sex
The kamasutra is a very old Indian text that deals with more than sex. It gives the reader discipline to have a healthy relationship. This means that you can use the kamasutra to create a lasting relationship with your other half.
Of course, the kamastura will also teach you about sexual pleasures. Popular versions of the kamasutra can be found online. These versions deal more with intercourse positions and lovemaking photos.
Regardless, it's important you build a balanced relationship with your partner. This will help you have better sex.
Tip #2: Using the Kamasutra in Bed
You can go online to find several kamasutra intercourse positions. If your partner is with you, you can both start looking at intercourse positions. The first thing to do would be to try simple positions. This would include positions similar to missionary position. You can steadily move to harder positions as you start mastering the easier ones.
Tip #3: The Kamasutra is a Only a Helping Tool
If you are having bad sex, don't expect the kamasutra to solve all your problems. The kamasutra is simply a tool to help you improve your sex life. Sex is more than intercourse positions. It is also about trust and communication between partners. Don't boss her around in bed.
Monday, August 10, 2009
The 3 Best Tips For Giving Her Multiple Orgasms - Tips Every Guy Needs to Know
By Maria Holland
Multiple orgasms are a mystery to most men, this is simply because men do not have them! Women on the other hand given the correct stimulation can continuously orgasm for prolonged periods of time (In some cases I am talking hours!). Well I am here to give you some tips on how to get the ball rolling to give your lover multiple orgasms.
1) Position - Most men think that position has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not a woman will orgasm during sex, but they are so wrong. The downside however is that every woman is different! Some women like doggy style the best while others like to go on top. Remember also that she may like to change position regularly so keep that in mind as well!
2) An element of danger - Try doing it somewhere where there is a possibility of getting caught, this will have all her senses heightened and this will help in the process of having her orgasm!
3) Double up - Try to use a combination of penetration and clitoral stimulation to get her going, most women actually prefer clitoral orgasms to straight vaginal orgasms. So whilst you are performing tip number 1 try to find a position where you can reach around with your hand and rub on her clitoris.
Multiple orgasms are a mystery to most men, this is simply because men do not have them! Women on the other hand given the correct stimulation can continuously orgasm for prolonged periods of time (In some cases I am talking hours!). Well I am here to give you some tips on how to get the ball rolling to give your lover multiple orgasms.
1) Position - Most men think that position has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not a woman will orgasm during sex, but they are so wrong. The downside however is that every woman is different! Some women like doggy style the best while others like to go on top. Remember also that she may like to change position regularly so keep that in mind as well!
2) An element of danger - Try doing it somewhere where there is a possibility of getting caught, this will have all her senses heightened and this will help in the process of having her orgasm!
3) Double up - Try to use a combination of penetration and clitoral stimulation to get her going, most women actually prefer clitoral orgasms to straight vaginal orgasms. So whilst you are performing tip number 1 try to find a position where you can reach around with your hand and rub on her clitoris.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Tantric Sex Techniques - Transform Your Sex Life!
By Ben Evans
I'm sure you have heard about tantric sex and the amazing benefits it can bring to your sex life. Tantric sex techniques enable partners to not only have amazing sex, but also create an amazing emotional connection with each other.
There are hundreds of amazing tantric sex techniques but the one thing that you must know for all of them is the importance of taking your time. With traditional sex, there is normally a period of foreplay that is soon followed by penetrative sex in one of the most common sexual positions. Most people only ever have sex in a couple of different positions.
However, tantric sex can last much longer and orgasms are often achieved in a totally different way. Sometimes, just a gently touch whilst looking into each others eyes can achieve orgasm. Imagine having this amazing tantric power! Well, here's how:
Start of sitting down, legs crossed and directly facing each other. For now, just look into your partners eyes and appreciate how beautiful they are. See them breathing and time your breathing to match theirs. Then, slowly take their clothes off, savouring each and every touch and sight. Stroke their skin but avoid the most common erogenous zones. Look deeply into your lovers eyes as you do this. Slowly touch more of their body and move to the erogenous zones. Keep paying attention to their breathing and move closer together so that you are in a deep embrace and start kissing lightly. Do not progress to penetration yet. Keep moving slowly and feel each others bodies entwined with each other until you both reach climax.
I'm sure you have heard about tantric sex and the amazing benefits it can bring to your sex life. Tantric sex techniques enable partners to not only have amazing sex, but also create an amazing emotional connection with each other.
There are hundreds of amazing tantric sex techniques but the one thing that you must know for all of them is the importance of taking your time. With traditional sex, there is normally a period of foreplay that is soon followed by penetrative sex in one of the most common sexual positions. Most people only ever have sex in a couple of different positions.
However, tantric sex can last much longer and orgasms are often achieved in a totally different way. Sometimes, just a gently touch whilst looking into each others eyes can achieve orgasm. Imagine having this amazing tantric power! Well, here's how:
Start of sitting down, legs crossed and directly facing each other. For now, just look into your partners eyes and appreciate how beautiful they are. See them breathing and time your breathing to match theirs. Then, slowly take their clothes off, savouring each and every touch and sight. Stroke their skin but avoid the most common erogenous zones. Look deeply into your lovers eyes as you do this. Slowly touch more of their body and move to the erogenous zones. Keep paying attention to their breathing and move closer together so that you are in a deep embrace and start kissing lightly. Do not progress to penetration yet. Keep moving slowly and feel each others bodies entwined with each other until you both reach climax.
Friday, August 7, 2009
Sex Positions - 2 Great Positions to Help Your Woman Achieve Ultimate Bliss
By Susan Johnsson
Giving a woman the best sexual experience she has ever had, as well as helping her have the most amazing orgasms, will depend on the kind of sex positions you use. Being able to change and vary the sexual positions will keep boredom and routine out of your sex life. It will also allow for a more satisfying sexual experience for both you and your partner.
There are numerous sex positions available. You have positions that give a more close up and intimate feel, or that give deep penetration, and others that stimulate areas like the g-spot. Depending on how you and your partner want to satisfy each other, or how you are feeling, there will be an appropriate position to best bring out that desire.
You may find some women to be a little shy when it comes to trying out new positions. If your partner is shy or feels degraded by certain positions, be sure never to demand it from her. Let us look at few sex positions you can try out;
Butterfly position
To get into this position, the woman should lie on the edge of the bed or table. She then raises her legs upwards with her feet pointing to the ceiling. The man then approaches and penetrates her from a standing or kneeling position. Once he has penetrated, she can rest her legs against him. This position is great as it allows the woman or man to stimulate her clitoris at the same time.
Missionary
The woman lies on her back with her legs spread open, and the man positions himself on top of her, penetrating from the front. This is the most basic position, but it provides a close up and personal intimate feel.
Giving a woman the best sexual experience she has ever had, as well as helping her have the most amazing orgasms, will depend on the kind of sex positions you use. Being able to change and vary the sexual positions will keep boredom and routine out of your sex life. It will also allow for a more satisfying sexual experience for both you and your partner.
There are numerous sex positions available. You have positions that give a more close up and intimate feel, or that give deep penetration, and others that stimulate areas like the g-spot. Depending on how you and your partner want to satisfy each other, or how you are feeling, there will be an appropriate position to best bring out that desire.
You may find some women to be a little shy when it comes to trying out new positions. If your partner is shy or feels degraded by certain positions, be sure never to demand it from her. Let us look at few sex positions you can try out;
Butterfly position
To get into this position, the woman should lie on the edge of the bed or table. She then raises her legs upwards with her feet pointing to the ceiling. The man then approaches and penetrates her from a standing or kneeling position. Once he has penetrated, she can rest her legs against him. This position is great as it allows the woman or man to stimulate her clitoris at the same time.
Missionary
The woman lies on her back with her legs spread open, and the man positions himself on top of her, penetrating from the front. This is the most basic position, but it provides a close up and personal intimate feel.
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Sex and Weight Loss - Sexercising Your Way to Burn Fats! (Part 1)
By Robin Verma
Sounds good, isn't it? You might have heard about lot of fun ways to burn those fats, but this should beat them all!
As far the facts are concerned sex does burn calories. Sex is a physical act, and whenever you make love, you are doing an activity, and hence you will burn the fats. Figures says that Kissing burns 2 calories per minute. A passionate kissing, could also lead to love making act, which is equivalent to running. This means that vigorous love making burns as much calories as an act of running would burn for the same time.
As per my personal observation, most of the couples who have had a satisfying sexual life are fitter than others who miss it. An important point to remember here is that a proper sex and love making does not merely means having intercourse. The love making act needs to be felt, and enjoyed. A fulfilling act of love making involves active and equal participation of both partners, which includes natural body moments, mourning, and trying out different poses. Love making act have been explained in detail in ancient epics like Kamasutra.
Have you observed how often are words like passion (as in passionate kiss or passionate love), ignite (as it ignited feelings), burning (as in burning with passion) are associated with love and love making? Warmness, sensuality, enthusiasm, all these words looks so familiar with love making. Try to feel the amount of body heat that is generated when you meet your partner, its enormous, and its all natural.
Sounds good, isn't it? You might have heard about lot of fun ways to burn those fats, but this should beat them all!
As far the facts are concerned sex does burn calories. Sex is a physical act, and whenever you make love, you are doing an activity, and hence you will burn the fats. Figures says that Kissing burns 2 calories per minute. A passionate kissing, could also lead to love making act, which is equivalent to running. This means that vigorous love making burns as much calories as an act of running would burn for the same time.
As per my personal observation, most of the couples who have had a satisfying sexual life are fitter than others who miss it. An important point to remember here is that a proper sex and love making does not merely means having intercourse. The love making act needs to be felt, and enjoyed. A fulfilling act of love making involves active and equal participation of both partners, which includes natural body moments, mourning, and trying out different poses. Love making act have been explained in detail in ancient epics like Kamasutra.
Have you observed how often are words like passion (as in passionate kiss or passionate love), ignite (as it ignited feelings), burning (as in burning with passion) are associated with love and love making? Warmness, sensuality, enthusiasm, all these words looks so familiar with love making. Try to feel the amount of body heat that is generated when you meet your partner, its enormous, and its all natural.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Secret Orgasm Tips Course
By Reuben Wallis
Do you feel a bit ungainly in bed? Do you feel a bit amateurish when it comes to love making? If your answer to any of the above is 'yes' then you need to read on. For starters, if you lack the knowledge on what goes where, rest assured that she will not be calling you again anytime in the near future. Sure, this is the digital age and most of the stuff on 'lovemaking' is out there already. But here is the perpetual catch; most of that information on the net, from images to textual is all contrived. It is really hard to say which is for real anymore and if you are looking to learn about sex from these sites, I can tell you right away that you are in for some rough landing in more ways than one [catch my drift]. Basically, what you need is a product that can provide you actual information on ways to pleasure a woman and if you think that the way to go about it is by watching some pornographic movies, well that's your call and one that is bound to lead to some lonely nights. The product in question should be based on actual user experience and one that is not made up in any way and more importantly, it should provide valid information on a woman's erogenous zones. Believe me, I was surprised as well as I had always assumed that they had only 3, but that just goes to show you how important 'valid information' on love making can be. Arron Walker does provide such valid data and much more in his product aptly titled 'secret orgasm tips course'.
Just flick through the latest edition of Kamasutra and I am sure that you will see what I am talking about. Anyway, about the 'secret orgasm tips course', well it is just that. It is jam packed with tips, strategies and information on how to get your partner to achieve that perfect orgasm.
Here's a preview of what you can expect to get with this product, a 97 hour long recording giving you the blow-by-blow on what to do and when to do it. In addition to that, you will also receive 2 e-books on maximizing your sexual experience and with an interview thrown in the mix as well. I have to say that this product goes into the subject matter in detail and sheds light on various facets from 'how to stimulate the clitoris' to unique oral techniques that you can put to good use. It does provide content on a certain subject matter that has interested us for some time to come; I am talking about premature ejaculation and ways to avoid the same.
This particular product may not be everyone's cup of tea but as it deals on 'lovemaking' and 'tips on how to achieve orgasm' as well as providing content on other facets of sex, that was good enough for me. So if you are looking for an in depth guide on lovemaking, well, this is it.
Do you feel a bit ungainly in bed? Do you feel a bit amateurish when it comes to love making? If your answer to any of the above is 'yes' then you need to read on. For starters, if you lack the knowledge on what goes where, rest assured that she will not be calling you again anytime in the near future. Sure, this is the digital age and most of the stuff on 'lovemaking' is out there already. But here is the perpetual catch; most of that information on the net, from images to textual is all contrived. It is really hard to say which is for real anymore and if you are looking to learn about sex from these sites, I can tell you right away that you are in for some rough landing in more ways than one [catch my drift]. Basically, what you need is a product that can provide you actual information on ways to pleasure a woman and if you think that the way to go about it is by watching some pornographic movies, well that's your call and one that is bound to lead to some lonely nights. The product in question should be based on actual user experience and one that is not made up in any way and more importantly, it should provide valid information on a woman's erogenous zones. Believe me, I was surprised as well as I had always assumed that they had only 3, but that just goes to show you how important 'valid information' on love making can be. Arron Walker does provide such valid data and much more in his product aptly titled 'secret orgasm tips course'.
Just flick through the latest edition of Kamasutra and I am sure that you will see what I am talking about. Anyway, about the 'secret orgasm tips course', well it is just that. It is jam packed with tips, strategies and information on how to get your partner to achieve that perfect orgasm.
Here's a preview of what you can expect to get with this product, a 97 hour long recording giving you the blow-by-blow on what to do and when to do it. In addition to that, you will also receive 2 e-books on maximizing your sexual experience and with an interview thrown in the mix as well. I have to say that this product goes into the subject matter in detail and sheds light on various facets from 'how to stimulate the clitoris' to unique oral techniques that you can put to good use. It does provide content on a certain subject matter that has interested us for some time to come; I am talking about premature ejaculation and ways to avoid the same.
This particular product may not be everyone's cup of tea but as it deals on 'lovemaking' and 'tips on how to achieve orgasm' as well as providing content on other facets of sex, that was good enough for me. So if you are looking for an in depth guide on lovemaking, well, this is it.
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
Read This Article Before Buying a Sex Pill
By Ajeet Gautam
Ayurvedic herbs as we know have been used for centuries by men in treating their sexual problems even Kamasutra texts have listed ayurvedic aphrodisiacs to enhance sexual pleasure. In this article we are going to list and discuss some of these ayurvedic herbs which have been found very useful in curing sex related problems and an effective sex pill should have these as ingredients.
Ashwagandha- Withania Somnifera
Ashwagandha means power of ten horses this herb has been referred in ancient kamasutra texts to increase sexual pleasure by increasing semen volume and helping in having intense orgasms. It is one of the most effective herbs in entire herbal kingdom. Shilajit
It is helpful in diabetes, sexual problems, and is actively used as an anti aging drug. It is very helpful in improving the quality of sperm.
Gokshura- Tribulus Terrestris
This ayurvedic herb helps in improved sex and is a mood enhancer. The active constituents in gokshura help in increasing testosterone levels which are helpful in having firm erections and increasing sperm count.
Safed Musli- Asparagus Adscendens
Safed musli is a very popular aphrodisiac used in India since ancient times. Ginger
Ginger is a multiple use herb which has been used to lower blood pressure improve appetite and it also helps in other herbs work more rigorously thereby assisting in overall health.
These were some of the important herbs in enhancing your sexual pleasure. If you look to try herbal pills for prolong sex look for the ingredients and if it has one or some of these herbs it surely will help in eliminating your sexual concerns.
Ayurvedic herbs as we know have been used for centuries by men in treating their sexual problems even Kamasutra texts have listed ayurvedic aphrodisiacs to enhance sexual pleasure. In this article we are going to list and discuss some of these ayurvedic herbs which have been found very useful in curing sex related problems and an effective sex pill should have these as ingredients.
Ashwagandha- Withania Somnifera
Ashwagandha means power of ten horses this herb has been referred in ancient kamasutra texts to increase sexual pleasure by increasing semen volume and helping in having intense orgasms. It is one of the most effective herbs in entire herbal kingdom. Shilajit
It is helpful in diabetes, sexual problems, and is actively used as an anti aging drug. It is very helpful in improving the quality of sperm.
Gokshura- Tribulus Terrestris
This ayurvedic herb helps in improved sex and is a mood enhancer. The active constituents in gokshura help in increasing testosterone levels which are helpful in having firm erections and increasing sperm count.
Safed Musli- Asparagus Adscendens
Safed musli is a very popular aphrodisiac used in India since ancient times. Ginger
Ginger is a multiple use herb which has been used to lower blood pressure improve appetite and it also helps in other herbs work more rigorously thereby assisting in overall health.
These were some of the important herbs in enhancing your sexual pleasure. If you look to try herbal pills for prolong sex look for the ingredients and if it has one or some of these herbs it surely will help in eliminating your sexual concerns.
Monday, August 3, 2009
Men Secret Issues - Part I
By Dr John Anne
Couples all over the world who have sex use typical positions to enhance their sexual experience. A single couple could use many positions in order to satisfy their interests, and they could change these positions from time to time to prevent the monotony from creeping in. There are different positions that are ideal in different circumstances. The ancient Indian treatise on sex, Vatsyayana’s Kamasutra, explains several sexual positions in detail and enlists their various merits and demerits. Some of the popular positions of the Kamasutra are explained in this article.
The first and the most popular position is the missionary position. This is the safest position when it comes to sexual intercourse, and it can be rightfully said that every couple of the world uses this position for most of their sexual activities. The missionary position is adopted with the woman lying on her back and her legs hoisted in the air. The man penetrates from top, inserting his penis into her vagina.
The missionary position is classified as one of the natural comfort positions of sex, which means, the body does not need to unduly exert itself to achieve the coitus. The male normally lies atop the female, while the female is well-rested as her back is on the surface. This position allows the penis to lock securely within the vagina and hence there is no waste of semen. For men with short penises and low sperm counts, this is very beneficial.
But some feminists believe that the missionary position gives too much importance to the male partner. The missionary position provides natural stimulation of the G-spot and the clitoris by the penis. For some people, the expressions on the partner’s face during intercourse may be a major turn-on, but the partners cannot see the lower bodies. To counter the drawbacks in the missionary position, there is another position known as the woman-on-top position. This is a totally feminist-appealing position. Here the man lies on the back with his legs outstretched. The woman positions herself in a sitting position on the man such that his penis enters her vagina. In this position, the woman does the jerking movements and hence the control is in the hands of the woman. Plus, the man and the woman both are free to fondle each other’s breasts and nipples; and get visually stimulated by the same. The position allows the man to reach out and stimulate the clitoris, or to fondle the buttocks. The woman-on-top position is also called as the cowgirl position, because the woman looks as though she is striding a horse.
However, this position is also not perfect. There is a problem of the penis slipping out of the vagina repeatedly making the whole process quite cumbersome. It is very difficult for men with short penises. Also when the woman is pregnant, this position is not advisable.
There is a reverse cowgirl position in which the woman sits facing the other way. This position is favored by some couples, as it allows better stimulation of the clitoris. Also the woman can reach out to stimulate the man’s scrotum or anus. At the same time, the man can caress the woman’s back and breasts. And just like the cowgirl position, the reverse cowgirl also provides the control in the hands of the female, while allowing the male to rest.
In both the cowgirl and the reverse cowgirl positions, there is a danger of the penis being damaged. It is necessary that the female keep this in mind, and begin the rocking motions only when the penis is comfortably positioned inside the vagina.
When it comes to relaxing during sex, there is no position comparable to the spoon position. In the spoon position, both male and female lay on their sides and ensconced within each other like two spoons. The butt of the female is placed against the groin of the male. The male can penetrate the anus of the female, or if he lifts her leg a bit, can even penetrate her vaginally. If bored, both partners can change sides, and the woman can reach out and masturbate the man’s penis with her hand.
The spoon position is an equating position. For the more adventurous couples, there is the supported congress position. Actually this is a very difficult position to achieve, and only couples with a good degree of flexibility and physical strength can pull it off. Here the woman is propped against a wall, and the man penetrates her from the front. The woman then lifts her legs and wraps it around the man’s torso. Hence the entire weight of the woman is supported by the wall and the man’s hands.
There is no end to the number of sexual positions, and every couple has their own modified versions. Just take care that you keep changing the positions from time to time in order to avoid the monotony.
Couples all over the world who have sex use typical positions to enhance their sexual experience. A single couple could use many positions in order to satisfy their interests, and they could change these positions from time to time to prevent the monotony from creeping in. There are different positions that are ideal in different circumstances. The ancient Indian treatise on sex, Vatsyayana’s Kamasutra, explains several sexual positions in detail and enlists their various merits and demerits. Some of the popular positions of the Kamasutra are explained in this article.
The first and the most popular position is the missionary position. This is the safest position when it comes to sexual intercourse, and it can be rightfully said that every couple of the world uses this position for most of their sexual activities. The missionary position is adopted with the woman lying on her back and her legs hoisted in the air. The man penetrates from top, inserting his penis into her vagina.
The missionary position is classified as one of the natural comfort positions of sex, which means, the body does not need to unduly exert itself to achieve the coitus. The male normally lies atop the female, while the female is well-rested as her back is on the surface. This position allows the penis to lock securely within the vagina and hence there is no waste of semen. For men with short penises and low sperm counts, this is very beneficial.
But some feminists believe that the missionary position gives too much importance to the male partner. The missionary position provides natural stimulation of the G-spot and the clitoris by the penis. For some people, the expressions on the partner’s face during intercourse may be a major turn-on, but the partners cannot see the lower bodies. To counter the drawbacks in the missionary position, there is another position known as the woman-on-top position. This is a totally feminist-appealing position. Here the man lies on the back with his legs outstretched. The woman positions herself in a sitting position on the man such that his penis enters her vagina. In this position, the woman does the jerking movements and hence the control is in the hands of the woman. Plus, the man and the woman both are free to fondle each other’s breasts and nipples; and get visually stimulated by the same. The position allows the man to reach out and stimulate the clitoris, or to fondle the buttocks. The woman-on-top position is also called as the cowgirl position, because the woman looks as though she is striding a horse.
However, this position is also not perfect. There is a problem of the penis slipping out of the vagina repeatedly making the whole process quite cumbersome. It is very difficult for men with short penises. Also when the woman is pregnant, this position is not advisable.
There is a reverse cowgirl position in which the woman sits facing the other way. This position is favored by some couples, as it allows better stimulation of the clitoris. Also the woman can reach out to stimulate the man’s scrotum or anus. At the same time, the man can caress the woman’s back and breasts. And just like the cowgirl position, the reverse cowgirl also provides the control in the hands of the female, while allowing the male to rest.
In both the cowgirl and the reverse cowgirl positions, there is a danger of the penis being damaged. It is necessary that the female keep this in mind, and begin the rocking motions only when the penis is comfortably positioned inside the vagina.
When it comes to relaxing during sex, there is no position comparable to the spoon position. In the spoon position, both male and female lay on their sides and ensconced within each other like two spoons. The butt of the female is placed against the groin of the male. The male can penetrate the anus of the female, or if he lifts her leg a bit, can even penetrate her vaginally. If bored, both partners can change sides, and the woman can reach out and masturbate the man’s penis with her hand.
The spoon position is an equating position. For the more adventurous couples, there is the supported congress position. Actually this is a very difficult position to achieve, and only couples with a good degree of flexibility and physical strength can pull it off. Here the woman is propped against a wall, and the man penetrates her from the front. The woman then lifts her legs and wraps it around the man’s torso. Hence the entire weight of the woman is supported by the wall and the man’s hands.
There is no end to the number of sexual positions, and every couple has their own modified versions. Just take care that you keep changing the positions from time to time in order to avoid the monotony.
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Love Advice - Common Mistakes Men Make in Sex
By Pekkie Aon
Let our love advice help you find out about the common mistakes men make when it comes to sex!
• Women have less sexual desire- this is a misconception. She needs sex just as much as you do. The only difference is that while you just need to look at her naked body to get you aroused, she needs to feel needed and loved before she can be ready for sex. Also, her hormones vary throughout the month. This might explain why she feels particularly ready at times and not so much at others!
Women are not always the innocent virgins we are made out to be. • We prefer porn stars- no, we don't! The stuff that porn stars do in five minutes of a show does not turn us on. In fact, multiple positions are the last thing on a woman's mind when she is thinking about sex. Also, you do not need an instrument that is a foot in length, if you know what I mean. The only person who is bothered about size is YOU! If you really want to please her in bed, take it slow and concentrate on giving her pleasure rather than trying out the Kamasutra in about 3 minutes!
• Foreplay is just a luxury- for women, it is a necessity. Don't just assume that if you are ready for sex, so is she. Women need lots of time, at least 20 minutes to be ready for intercourse. So, give her that time if you really care.
Follow our love advice and give her a time to remember.
Let our love advice help you find out about the common mistakes men make when it comes to sex!
• Women have less sexual desire- this is a misconception. She needs sex just as much as you do. The only difference is that while you just need to look at her naked body to get you aroused, she needs to feel needed and loved before she can be ready for sex. Also, her hormones vary throughout the month. This might explain why she feels particularly ready at times and not so much at others!
Women are not always the innocent virgins we are made out to be. • We prefer porn stars- no, we don't! The stuff that porn stars do in five minutes of a show does not turn us on. In fact, multiple positions are the last thing on a woman's mind when she is thinking about sex. Also, you do not need an instrument that is a foot in length, if you know what I mean. The only person who is bothered about size is YOU! If you really want to please her in bed, take it slow and concentrate on giving her pleasure rather than trying out the Kamasutra in about 3 minutes!
• Foreplay is just a luxury- for women, it is a necessity. Don't just assume that if you are ready for sex, so is she. Women need lots of time, at least 20 minutes to be ready for intercourse. So, give her that time if you really care.
Follow our love advice and give her a time to remember.
Saturday, August 1, 2009
Kamasutra Positions For Better Sex
By Pekkie Aon
• The easiest and the most popular of the Kamasutra positions is the face to face one. It allows a number of variations. It leaves your hands free to explore her body and is perfect for those who are starting off as a couple. An interesting variation of this is to arch the female body while the man balances on his knees. This allows greater penetration and can be very fulfilling for the man.
• The Amazon is another scintillating variation. Here, the man lies on his back and relaxes his legs, keeping them slightly tilted and flexed towards his chest. It lets the woman ride her man while he enjoys the pleasures.
• The armchair position. In this position, the woman positions herself on the lap of the man, stretching her legs over his shoulders. The man holds the woman and balances her. This will let him penetrate her while his fingers can stimulate her clitoris.
• The position of fusion lets you place your legs on his shoulders. The man balances himself on his arms and penetrates her deeply.
• The position of the hammock is also an interesting one. The man throws himself backwards and supports himself on his arms. Stretch out your legs and let her balance herself on his legs. The woman also throws herself backwards and then lets him penetrate her. You can also practice the mill vanes position. The man should lie down, stretch his legs and ask the woman to do the same. The man should lie over the woman and then penetrate her.
Try these Kamasutra positions and get the most out of sex.
• The easiest and the most popular of the Kamasutra positions is the face to face one. It allows a number of variations. It leaves your hands free to explore her body and is perfect for those who are starting off as a couple. An interesting variation of this is to arch the female body while the man balances on his knees. This allows greater penetration and can be very fulfilling for the man.
• The Amazon is another scintillating variation. Here, the man lies on his back and relaxes his legs, keeping them slightly tilted and flexed towards his chest. It lets the woman ride her man while he enjoys the pleasures.
• The armchair position. In this position, the woman positions herself on the lap of the man, stretching her legs over his shoulders. The man holds the woman and balances her. This will let him penetrate her while his fingers can stimulate her clitoris.
• The position of fusion lets you place your legs on his shoulders. The man balances himself on his arms and penetrates her deeply.
• The position of the hammock is also an interesting one. The man throws himself backwards and supports himself on his arms. Stretch out your legs and let her balance herself on his legs. The woman also throws herself backwards and then lets him penetrate her. You can also practice the mill vanes position. The man should lie down, stretch his legs and ask the woman to do the same. The man should lie over the woman and then penetrate her.
Try these Kamasutra positions and get the most out of sex.
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Kamasutra Positions - Keeping The Kamasutra Nice And Simple
By Rami Sastri
Sure when we think of positions related to the Kamasutra we tend to think extravagant and incredibly sensual. But did you also know that a lot of the positions outlined in the Kamasutra are very basic? That's right, in fact the majority of the hundreds of positions in this ancient text, we probably already use!
The Scissors
All it entails is for the woman to lie on her back. The man on his knees then proceeds to hold onto her ankle region and spread her legs wide apart. From this position the man does all the work. This position enables a good passage for the man to enter into and he is able to rotate his pelvis in different directions to help stimulate different parts of the woman's vagina. The Scandinavian
The Scandinavian is again very simple Kamasutra position that is often used by couples today. It requires the man to lie on his back to start with. The woman then sits on top facing towards his feet, with her legs rapped over the side of his body. In essence she has her back turned to him. She then does all the work from here, thrusting back and forth, while he holds onto her buttocks and helps to increase the momentum.
This position enables the woman to control the amount sexual pleasure that can be obtained by both participants. If you haven't tried the Scandinavian than give it a go, it's incredibly erotic.
The Tigress
The tigress is a Kamasutra position that is a little more complicated to get into. From there she should then proceed to sit on top at a perpendicular angle to her partner. Once she has entered on a right angle she should the hold her legs up at a 45 degree angle, placing her left arm around his right shoulder and using her other arm to support herself on the ground. He should the place his hands under her buttocks and 'do his stuff' from there. I'm sure you'll muck this one up at first, but that's the whole fun of it!
So there are a few Kamasutra positions that are simple yet very erotic at the same time.
Sure when we think of positions related to the Kamasutra we tend to think extravagant and incredibly sensual. But did you also know that a lot of the positions outlined in the Kamasutra are very basic? That's right, in fact the majority of the hundreds of positions in this ancient text, we probably already use!
The Scissors
All it entails is for the woman to lie on her back. The man on his knees then proceeds to hold onto her ankle region and spread her legs wide apart. From this position the man does all the work. This position enables a good passage for the man to enter into and he is able to rotate his pelvis in different directions to help stimulate different parts of the woman's vagina. The Scandinavian
The Scandinavian is again very simple Kamasutra position that is often used by couples today. It requires the man to lie on his back to start with. The woman then sits on top facing towards his feet, with her legs rapped over the side of his body. In essence she has her back turned to him. She then does all the work from here, thrusting back and forth, while he holds onto her buttocks and helps to increase the momentum.
This position enables the woman to control the amount sexual pleasure that can be obtained by both participants. If you haven't tried the Scandinavian than give it a go, it's incredibly erotic.
The Tigress
The tigress is a Kamasutra position that is a little more complicated to get into. From there she should then proceed to sit on top at a perpendicular angle to her partner. Once she has entered on a right angle she should the hold her legs up at a 45 degree angle, placing her left arm around his right shoulder and using her other arm to support herself on the ground. He should the place his hands under her buttocks and 'do his stuff' from there. I'm sure you'll muck this one up at first, but that's the whole fun of it!
So there are a few Kamasutra positions that are simple yet very erotic at the same time.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Kamasutra and Ramayana - Comparing Epics
By Tushar Jain
As long as individuality is a word linked with the human lexicon, whenever we draw comparisons, we’ll need to strive to simply make the definitions comply. The question is not that we’re discussing terms or epics here; the real issue is that we’re attempting to compare them. How would commonplace sanity allow the comparison of a chair and a gallon of nuclear waste? How can a person even tend to compare ubiquitous logic and the Pythagoras theorem? It is tantamount to marrying for sex, or buying a car to barely sit in. If we construct some conduit of comprehension between two epics, nothing can confirm that either we in ours, or the medium itself, are overruled by an inconsistent resolution. The reason to that is not that we dare not brave the occasion, but instead that the occasion simply isn’t affected by easy bravery, that the source to the inconsistency is not personal, but the inconsistency is automatic, circumstantial, born of engineered comparisons greater than the one we aspire to. Comparing epics is not cumbersome, for we denote something as cumbersome if we believe that it doesn’t resist the possibility of being enacted… comparing epics is impossible, or rather, comparison in its conception serves as a non-existent medium, not linking, not involving, not perturbing the ends, rather subtly moving between them. We cannot device a degree that satisfies an ideal comparison, and hence, any designs at comparison will remain vague, insubstantial, callow, crude, unnecessary and shapeless. If it still tasking to let the fact seem credible, then try comparing maps, rivers, tides, men, women, moon, and the sun, and if you near conclusion, test the foundation on which you judge, and you’ll perhaps understand how comparison is never more than personal.
Since the abomination need be executed, it need be quick and painless, like a heart attack whilst one sleeps. I shall endeavor to compare the beastly epics ‘Kamasutra’ and ‘Ramayana’.
Kamasutra is one of India’s oldest epics, and it is also one of the most illustrious. The notable rest of the Kamasutra can be read ideally in serialized forms on the feted graffiti scrawled on the walls of a boy’s toilet in any institutional building, or can be surveyed with visual aids in the more popular segregated corners of the same, or if all resorts fail, then the delicate knowledge that the Kamasutra confers can be contrived at a very lucrative rate at the Pallika bazaar. The Kamasutra is the Hindu sex-manual. It is tendentious to adultery, lesbianism, open sex, illicit sex, positions that Olympic gold-medlalists for acrobatics will find arduous to engineer, is controversially in opposition to oral sex, and merrily vilifies and belittles women to nothing but mere fun sexual objects to a degree gross enough to set convulsions up a feminist’s back. Conclusively, the Kamasutra is about sex. Comparison needs to based on the commonality of a facet, so what remains to be done is prove that Ramayana is as immensely foul a sexual epic as the Kamasutra.
Whether we’re in a lavatory creating dusky excreta, or slipping off a soap-bar in a bathroom – ‘hey ram’ is a favorite amongst exclamation marks. Ramayana is not something that one can wash his hands off with a bathetic synopsis or sullied with brevity in a vain attempt at summarizing for the details, the nature of the epic, the enormity of its conception, cannot possibly be synthesized or concentrated into a few words. However, if desperation piques more than reverence then – ram went to a jungle with his wife and not-so-temperate brother, started a war, collated an army of freaky monkeys, one of them having a fetish for arson, and defeated a bloke with ten heads and an earthen pot for where his pancreas should’ve been. There’re rarely individuals reared in India without the self-governing fear of god, i.e., Ram, without the know-how of the Ramayana, and of course, for the joyous ignoramuses, Doordarshan aired an entire series devoted to the epic and still gladly has reruns airing every weekend.
Now, the comparison need be put to effect. And do remember the heartening word ‘sex’.
Perception is like a trained dog. If we begin perceiving immorally and with a tad iniquity, or debatably, with a lesser myopic sense than the archetype ingrained in our sick Indian mentalities, the Ramayana can be viewed, like the Kamasutra, as a practical sex manual.
Now, arbitrary qualms need be raised, and arbitrary conclusions need be heralded.
Since, Ram’s dad is a man with a stellar flock of wives, so the Ramayana definitely nods upon not only polygamy but also threesomes and foursomes. Laxman’s (and even Bharat’s) craving to accompany Ram into a forest for the extensive period of the exile illustrates a very filthy homosexual approach. The savamvar needed Ram to break Shiva’s bow to ‘earn’ Sita as his wife, can be mechanized into a very fitting allegory… okay, imagine, Ram needs to ‘break’ a certain ‘something’ to ultimately ‘deflower’ Sita. Next, in the forest, what unambiguous, precise, justified reason do Laxman and Ram possess, instead of the lame one of scanning out food, for leaving behind Sita and heading into the forest, alone, with arrows and other phallic instrument that can be interpreted as ‘tools to contrive obscene homosexual pleasure’? Jatayu is a character tangentially consequent to circumstances related to Sita… the word ‘Jatayu’ is a convoluted etymological contribution of the word ‘Jata’ which in the layman’s Hindi translates into ‘hair’, and thus, Valmiki, the paragon amongst perverts, was alluding actually to Sita’s pubic hair. By keen observations and a keener sense for obscurities, one can perhaps garner the consummate acknowledgement of Ramayana as an epic that not only preaches sex, but abstractly advocates a heterodoxical attitude.
Thus, much reluctantly, the epics lay compared.
As long as individuality is a word linked with the human lexicon, whenever we draw comparisons, we’ll need to strive to simply make the definitions comply. The question is not that we’re discussing terms or epics here; the real issue is that we’re attempting to compare them. How would commonplace sanity allow the comparison of a chair and a gallon of nuclear waste? How can a person even tend to compare ubiquitous logic and the Pythagoras theorem? It is tantamount to marrying for sex, or buying a car to barely sit in. If we construct some conduit of comprehension between two epics, nothing can confirm that either we in ours, or the medium itself, are overruled by an inconsistent resolution. The reason to that is not that we dare not brave the occasion, but instead that the occasion simply isn’t affected by easy bravery, that the source to the inconsistency is not personal, but the inconsistency is automatic, circumstantial, born of engineered comparisons greater than the one we aspire to. Comparing epics is not cumbersome, for we denote something as cumbersome if we believe that it doesn’t resist the possibility of being enacted… comparing epics is impossible, or rather, comparison in its conception serves as a non-existent medium, not linking, not involving, not perturbing the ends, rather subtly moving between them. We cannot device a degree that satisfies an ideal comparison, and hence, any designs at comparison will remain vague, insubstantial, callow, crude, unnecessary and shapeless. If it still tasking to let the fact seem credible, then try comparing maps, rivers, tides, men, women, moon, and the sun, and if you near conclusion, test the foundation on which you judge, and you’ll perhaps understand how comparison is never more than personal.
Since the abomination need be executed, it need be quick and painless, like a heart attack whilst one sleeps. I shall endeavor to compare the beastly epics ‘Kamasutra’ and ‘Ramayana’.
Kamasutra is one of India’s oldest epics, and it is also one of the most illustrious. The notable rest of the Kamasutra can be read ideally in serialized forms on the feted graffiti scrawled on the walls of a boy’s toilet in any institutional building, or can be surveyed with visual aids in the more popular segregated corners of the same, or if all resorts fail, then the delicate knowledge that the Kamasutra confers can be contrived at a very lucrative rate at the Pallika bazaar. The Kamasutra is the Hindu sex-manual. It is tendentious to adultery, lesbianism, open sex, illicit sex, positions that Olympic gold-medlalists for acrobatics will find arduous to engineer, is controversially in opposition to oral sex, and merrily vilifies and belittles women to nothing but mere fun sexual objects to a degree gross enough to set convulsions up a feminist’s back. Conclusively, the Kamasutra is about sex. Comparison needs to based on the commonality of a facet, so what remains to be done is prove that Ramayana is as immensely foul a sexual epic as the Kamasutra.
Whether we’re in a lavatory creating dusky excreta, or slipping off a soap-bar in a bathroom – ‘hey ram’ is a favorite amongst exclamation marks. Ramayana is not something that one can wash his hands off with a bathetic synopsis or sullied with brevity in a vain attempt at summarizing for the details, the nature of the epic, the enormity of its conception, cannot possibly be synthesized or concentrated into a few words. However, if desperation piques more than reverence then – ram went to a jungle with his wife and not-so-temperate brother, started a war, collated an army of freaky monkeys, one of them having a fetish for arson, and defeated a bloke with ten heads and an earthen pot for where his pancreas should’ve been. There’re rarely individuals reared in India without the self-governing fear of god, i.e., Ram, without the know-how of the Ramayana, and of course, for the joyous ignoramuses, Doordarshan aired an entire series devoted to the epic and still gladly has reruns airing every weekend.
Now, the comparison need be put to effect. And do remember the heartening word ‘sex’.
Perception is like a trained dog. If we begin perceiving immorally and with a tad iniquity, or debatably, with a lesser myopic sense than the archetype ingrained in our sick Indian mentalities, the Ramayana can be viewed, like the Kamasutra, as a practical sex manual.
Now, arbitrary qualms need be raised, and arbitrary conclusions need be heralded.
Since, Ram’s dad is a man with a stellar flock of wives, so the Ramayana definitely nods upon not only polygamy but also threesomes and foursomes. Laxman’s (and even Bharat’s) craving to accompany Ram into a forest for the extensive period of the exile illustrates a very filthy homosexual approach. The savamvar needed Ram to break Shiva’s bow to ‘earn’ Sita as his wife, can be mechanized into a very fitting allegory… okay, imagine, Ram needs to ‘break’ a certain ‘something’ to ultimately ‘deflower’ Sita. Next, in the forest, what unambiguous, precise, justified reason do Laxman and Ram possess, instead of the lame one of scanning out food, for leaving behind Sita and heading into the forest, alone, with arrows and other phallic instrument that can be interpreted as ‘tools to contrive obscene homosexual pleasure’? Jatayu is a character tangentially consequent to circumstances related to Sita… the word ‘Jatayu’ is a convoluted etymological contribution of the word ‘Jata’ which in the layman’s Hindi translates into ‘hair’, and thus, Valmiki, the paragon amongst perverts, was alluding actually to Sita’s pubic hair. By keen observations and a keener sense for obscurities, one can perhaps garner the consummate acknowledgement of Ramayana as an epic that not only preaches sex, but abstractly advocates a heterodoxical attitude.
Thus, much reluctantly, the epics lay compared.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Kamasutra - The Art of Making Love
By Anshuman Gothwal
The Kamasutra is a famous Indian literary text about love. The text also deals with human sexual behavior, though it is not only a book as many people think, about positions in sexual intercourse. It is a book about finding a partner, maintaining power in married life, committing adultery, living with a courtesan or being a courtesan and also about sexual positions during sexual intercourse.
The name of the book, Kama Sutra comes from two sanskrit words, Kama which means desire/love/sex/pleasure and Sutra which means a treatise. The book was composed by Vatsayayan in Sanskrit, which is the ancient literary language of India. The book opens with a discussion on dharma (piety), artha (power) and kama (pleasure) which are known as three aims of human life or the trinity.
The different chapters in the book are as follows:
1. Introductory
Chapters on contents of the book, three aims and priorities of life, the acquisition of knowledge, conduct of the well-bred townsman, reflections on intermediaries who assist the lover in his enterprises (5 chapters).
2. On sexual union
Chapters on stimulation of desire, types of embraces, caressing and kisses, marking with nails, biting and marking with teeth, on copulation (positions), slapping by hand and corresponding moaning, virile behavior in women, superior coition and oral sex, preludes and conclusions to the game of love. It describes 64 types of sexual acts (10 chapters).
3. About the acquisition of a wife
Chapters on forms of marriage, relaxing the girl, obtaining the girl, managing alone, union by marriage (5 chapters).
4. About a wife
Chapters on conduct of the only wife and conduct of the chief wife and other wives (2 chapters).
5. About the wives of other people
Chapters on behavior of woman and man, encounters to get acquainted, examination of sentiments, the task of go-between, the king's pleasures, behavior in the women's quarters (6 chapters).
6. About courtesans
Chapters on advice of the assistants on the choice of lovers, looking for a steady lover, ways of making money, renewing friendship with a former lover, occasional profits, profits and losses (6 chapters).
Chapters on improving physical attractions, arousing a weakened sexual power (2 chapters).
For a detailed translation of these chapters you may visit:
http://www.indohistory.com/kamasutra.html
The text is direct towards women but it also reflects women´s voices. This kind of reference in Kama Sutra is contrary to infinite number of references in other hindu literature where the women is supposed to be virtuous and constantly server her husband inspite of all his vices.
The book can be appreciated only when you go through the full literature and the literature will be appreciated only when you practice it.
The Kamasutra is a famous Indian literary text about love. The text also deals with human sexual behavior, though it is not only a book as many people think, about positions in sexual intercourse. It is a book about finding a partner, maintaining power in married life, committing adultery, living with a courtesan or being a courtesan and also about sexual positions during sexual intercourse.
The name of the book, Kama Sutra comes from two sanskrit words, Kama which means desire/love/sex/pleasure and Sutra which means a treatise. The book was composed by Vatsayayan in Sanskrit, which is the ancient literary language of India. The book opens with a discussion on dharma (piety), artha (power) and kama (pleasure) which are known as three aims of human life or the trinity.
The different chapters in the book are as follows:
1. Introductory
Chapters on contents of the book, three aims and priorities of life, the acquisition of knowledge, conduct of the well-bred townsman, reflections on intermediaries who assist the lover in his enterprises (5 chapters).
2. On sexual union
Chapters on stimulation of desire, types of embraces, caressing and kisses, marking with nails, biting and marking with teeth, on copulation (positions), slapping by hand and corresponding moaning, virile behavior in women, superior coition and oral sex, preludes and conclusions to the game of love. It describes 64 types of sexual acts (10 chapters).
3. About the acquisition of a wife
Chapters on forms of marriage, relaxing the girl, obtaining the girl, managing alone, union by marriage (5 chapters).
4. About a wife
Chapters on conduct of the only wife and conduct of the chief wife and other wives (2 chapters).
5. About the wives of other people
Chapters on behavior of woman and man, encounters to get acquainted, examination of sentiments, the task of go-between, the king's pleasures, behavior in the women's quarters (6 chapters).
6. About courtesans
Chapters on advice of the assistants on the choice of lovers, looking for a steady lover, ways of making money, renewing friendship with a former lover, occasional profits, profits and losses (6 chapters).
Chapters on improving physical attractions, arousing a weakened sexual power (2 chapters).
For a detailed translation of these chapters you may visit:
http://www.indohistory.com/kamasutra.html
The text is direct towards women but it also reflects women´s voices. This kind of reference in Kama Sutra is contrary to infinite number of references in other hindu literature where the women is supposed to be virtuous and constantly server her husband inspite of all his vices.
The book can be appreciated only when you go through the full literature and the literature will be appreciated only when you practice it.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Kama Sutra The Crab's Position, is it The Best in Kama Sutra?
By Crid Lee
There is a lot of debates about which is the best sex position that human enjoys, especially among those techniques that are listed in Kamasutra? So which is the best technique?
There is this technique called the Crab’s position, which I find it pretty amusing, and therefore wanted to share with you here.
The Crab’s position is a highly pleasurable position that constricts the vagina around the penis. It is done by having the woman lying on her back, bending and drawing in both legs and resting her thighs on her stomach. It somehow looks like a crab retracting its claws. The man can enter from a kneeling position.
The position allows penetration and vigorous thrusting. I think that all the techniques that are in the Kamasutra manual are all the best, as long as you enjoy the company of your partner. Yes, positions do play a part, but most importantly, the communication with your partner during sex is also vital.
Women can play along with men, and create the fantasy that we men always craved for, like dressing up as nurses, old school uniform, etc. Men can also create a better sex for their partners by giving women good foreplays and talking dirty.
In this way, a couple can achieve good sex, no matter what are the Kamasutra positions that you are having. Of course, if you know more positions and try them on your partners, you will always create that extra excitements and adventures.
There is a lot of debates about which is the best sex position that human enjoys, especially among those techniques that are listed in Kamasutra? So which is the best technique?
There is this technique called the Crab’s position, which I find it pretty amusing, and therefore wanted to share with you here.
The Crab’s position is a highly pleasurable position that constricts the vagina around the penis. It is done by having the woman lying on her back, bending and drawing in both legs and resting her thighs on her stomach. It somehow looks like a crab retracting its claws. The man can enter from a kneeling position.
The position allows penetration and vigorous thrusting. I think that all the techniques that are in the Kamasutra manual are all the best, as long as you enjoy the company of your partner. Yes, positions do play a part, but most importantly, the communication with your partner during sex is also vital.
Women can play along with men, and create the fantasy that we men always craved for, like dressing up as nurses, old school uniform, etc. Men can also create a better sex for their partners by giving women good foreplays and talking dirty.
In this way, a couple can achieve good sex, no matter what are the Kamasutra positions that you are having. Of course, if you know more positions and try them on your partners, you will always create that extra excitements and adventures.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Kama Sutra Book - What Is In The Ancient Text?
By John K Stevens
Kamasutra: a book written well over Millennia ago in India for male citizens on how to please and how to be pleasured. As well as acrobatic and sculptural positions, there includes advice for massage, fellatio, cunnilingus, kissing, touching and penis/vaginal compatibility. Many uneducated and uncultured people nowadays see it only as the source to find "wild" positions for sex.
Every man needs a tip once in a while, especially when it comes to things that are not that well-known. Take KamaSutra for example. Everybody heard the name, but to the average man Kama Sutra is just 'a name'. It has a raunchy connotation and a reputation for being some sort of ancient porn mag, but the details elude pretty much anybody who never had the time or the inclination to actually read the book. Lovecentria has taken the necessary steps to bringing the joys of ancient erotic arts of the Orient into the lives of modern people since we believe that it's better to be informed than to risk making a fool of oneself. Lovecentria features an everyman's guide to both Kama Sutra and Tactic sex, a no-nonsense approach to an issue that has the common man repelled by the hints of mysticism and all that talk of chakras, being one with the universe or dancing naked around certain trees. Kama Sutra is a far simpler affair and one that can be learnt quickly.
Nowadays it is becoming a very popular book in the whole world. Every website has a hefty database of instructional videos, articles and e-books that can teach anybody what the ancient people of India meant when they spoke about Kamasutra (love) and what they were doing in bed that has made this kamasutra book so famous through the ages. The Treatise on Love, which is the correct translation of Kama Sutra, is a comprehensive book on how to get to know women, how to woo them and, finally, how to perform in bed in order to please both yourself and the lady in question. All you need to know about Kama Sutra is a couple of clicks away on the Lovecentria? website.
The best reason to learn about the Kama Sutra book is to perfect your style. Every man wants to amaze women with his skills and techniques and this is where this ancient book can make a huge difference in your love life. New positions, new attitudes and new ways of courting women can be at your fingertips in a short while. I think every man would like that.
Tantric Sex and Kama Sutra
Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It's about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that's exactly what's going to make her beg for more every time because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.
Kamasutra: a book written well over Millennia ago in India for male citizens on how to please and how to be pleasured. As well as acrobatic and sculptural positions, there includes advice for massage, fellatio, cunnilingus, kissing, touching and penis/vaginal compatibility. Many uneducated and uncultured people nowadays see it only as the source to find "wild" positions for sex.
Every man needs a tip once in a while, especially when it comes to things that are not that well-known. Take KamaSutra for example. Everybody heard the name, but to the average man Kama Sutra is just 'a name'. It has a raunchy connotation and a reputation for being some sort of ancient porn mag, but the details elude pretty much anybody who never had the time or the inclination to actually read the book. Lovecentria has taken the necessary steps to bringing the joys of ancient erotic arts of the Orient into the lives of modern people since we believe that it's better to be informed than to risk making a fool of oneself. Lovecentria features an everyman's guide to both Kama Sutra and Tactic sex, a no-nonsense approach to an issue that has the common man repelled by the hints of mysticism and all that talk of chakras, being one with the universe or dancing naked around certain trees. Kama Sutra is a far simpler affair and one that can be learnt quickly.
Nowadays it is becoming a very popular book in the whole world. Every website has a hefty database of instructional videos, articles and e-books that can teach anybody what the ancient people of India meant when they spoke about Kamasutra (love) and what they were doing in bed that has made this kamasutra book so famous through the ages. The Treatise on Love, which is the correct translation of Kama Sutra, is a comprehensive book on how to get to know women, how to woo them and, finally, how to perform in bed in order to please both yourself and the lady in question. All you need to know about Kama Sutra is a couple of clicks away on the Lovecentria? website.
The best reason to learn about the Kama Sutra book is to perfect your style. Every man wants to amaze women with his skills and techniques and this is where this ancient book can make a huge difference in your love life. New positions, new attitudes and new ways of courting women can be at your fingertips in a short while. I think every man would like that.
Tantric Sex and Kama Sutra
Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It's about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that's exactly what's going to make her beg for more every time because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Increase Libido – Shilajit
By Dr. Smith Johnson
libido
Shilajit, one of the potent herbal supplements that has been used since ages to increase the libido and increasing the endurance of your body. Maharishi Charka the author of the Ayurvedic medical book Charka Samhita has mentioned Shilajit as one of the greatest aphrodisiac herb. Even all the ayurvedic male health enhances definitely contains Shilajit in them. One can imagine the extent of Shilajit’s benefits that its reference can also been found in the love book “The Kamasutra”
Following are the benefits of Shilajit
1. Shilajit increases libido.
2. Shilajit enhances the stamina as well as vigor in males.
3. Shilajit is considered as a herbal supplement that increases the endurance in body. It is also helpful in rectifying the male genital tract problems.
4. Shilajit is responsible for increasing sperm count as well as quantity.
6. Shilajit also makes our body strong and supplies the energy that is very essential for completing the act of love and intercourse.
Fulvic acid -
Shilajit is an ayurvedic herbal supplement that is known to mankind since ages. Shilajit is a rasayana and is a powerful Adaptogenic agent that is a part of numerous ayurvedic classical preparations.
Shilajit when seen chemically consist of more than eighty five different minerals with a good amount of fulvic acid in them. This is the action of these minerals and the fulvic acid that supplies Shilajit with the properties that it possesses.
libido
Shilajit, one of the potent herbal supplements that has been used since ages to increase the libido and increasing the endurance of your body. Maharishi Charka the author of the Ayurvedic medical book Charka Samhita has mentioned Shilajit as one of the greatest aphrodisiac herb. Even all the ayurvedic male health enhances definitely contains Shilajit in them. One can imagine the extent of Shilajit’s benefits that its reference can also been found in the love book “The Kamasutra”
Following are the benefits of Shilajit
1. Shilajit increases libido.
2. Shilajit enhances the stamina as well as vigor in males.
3. Shilajit is considered as a herbal supplement that increases the endurance in body. It is also helpful in rectifying the male genital tract problems.
4. Shilajit is responsible for increasing sperm count as well as quantity.
6. Shilajit also makes our body strong and supplies the energy that is very essential for completing the act of love and intercourse.
Fulvic acid -
Shilajit is an ayurvedic herbal supplement that is known to mankind since ages. Shilajit is a rasayana and is a powerful Adaptogenic agent that is a part of numerous ayurvedic classical preparations.
Shilajit when seen chemically consist of more than eighty five different minerals with a good amount of fulvic acid in them. This is the action of these minerals and the fulvic acid that supplies Shilajit with the properties that it possesses.
Friday, July 24, 2009
How To Make Your Regular Sexual Life "Sensual"
By Cheetu Jaisinghani
Are you facing boredom in your sex life? Then why not to try sensual hypnosis to increase your sensuality so that you can enjoy all the pleasures of sex.
Senses are the greatest gift, given by god to us. As we know, that we have mainly five senses sight, smell, hearing, taste & touch. And if, we use all of these senses during sex, then it will be erotic, sensual, and divine sex.
Sensual Hypnosis
Why most of us don't feel sensual in our regular sexual life?
Because its natural and interconnected with both male and female. Naturally for males anything repetitive becomes boring. Senses become neutral and stop stimulating.
Woman, basically she is richer of the senses than any selective male, but in response to the dry senses of her partner she absorbs the feeling of boredom and dissatisfaction, and how can a unsatisfied woman makes her man satisfied?
Here comes the need for Sensual hypnosis to express all that feelings physically which is inside your heart, the touch, the smell, your passion, obsession, fantasy, excitement, tickling, light caresses to create all the sensation in your body, mind and soul.
How It Works
It removes all the blocks in the sensual system, no matter where it's in your body, conscious mind or subconscious mind.
Sensual hypnosis commands your subconscious mind to automatically zoom into the feelings of sexual pleasure, communication and mutual satisfaction or it can be customized according to your specific circumstances as your age, sex, nationality, attitude and desires.
Magnetic Aura
Magnetic Aura is an ancient kamasutra technique. Your partner will respond automatically according to you.
Just after going deep in trance, imagine that you both are mating and feel a magnetic aura of energy is covering both of you.
This energy is alive, powerful, and vibrant, taking you to the sense of deep arousal, complete sex and satisfaction.
Now the key to transformation is to do this session just 15 min before you plan to mate, and enter with this aura in a casual and natural way.
For more information on sex and hypnosis please visit
href="http://cheetu.com/erotic-hypnosis.html"> My Erotic Hypnosis article
Are you facing boredom in your sex life? Then why not to try sensual hypnosis to increase your sensuality so that you can enjoy all the pleasures of sex.
Senses are the greatest gift, given by god to us. As we know, that we have mainly five senses sight, smell, hearing, taste & touch. And if, we use all of these senses during sex, then it will be erotic, sensual, and divine sex.
Sensual Hypnosis
Why most of us don't feel sensual in our regular sexual life?
Because its natural and interconnected with both male and female. Naturally for males anything repetitive becomes boring. Senses become neutral and stop stimulating.
Woman, basically she is richer of the senses than any selective male, but in response to the dry senses of her partner she absorbs the feeling of boredom and dissatisfaction, and how can a unsatisfied woman makes her man satisfied?
Here comes the need for Sensual hypnosis to express all that feelings physically which is inside your heart, the touch, the smell, your passion, obsession, fantasy, excitement, tickling, light caresses to create all the sensation in your body, mind and soul.
How It Works
It removes all the blocks in the sensual system, no matter where it's in your body, conscious mind or subconscious mind.
Sensual hypnosis commands your subconscious mind to automatically zoom into the feelings of sexual pleasure, communication and mutual satisfaction or it can be customized according to your specific circumstances as your age, sex, nationality, attitude and desires.
Magnetic Aura
Magnetic Aura is an ancient kamasutra technique. Your partner will respond automatically according to you.
Just after going deep in trance, imagine that you both are mating and feel a magnetic aura of energy is covering both of you.
This energy is alive, powerful, and vibrant, taking you to the sense of deep arousal, complete sex and satisfaction.
Now the key to transformation is to do this session just 15 min before you plan to mate, and enter with this aura in a casual and natural way.
For more information on sex and hypnosis please visit
href="http://cheetu.com/erotic-hypnosis.html"> My Erotic Hypnosis article
Thursday, July 23, 2009
How to Give Your Female Partner an Orgasm
By Branson Yen
For any man, probably the most essential thing is to realize about a woman's sexual climax is that the woman is not as easily satisfied as the man. This is because women do not ejaculate and hence, their sexual climax is indefinite. In most incidences, the man ejaculates and reaches his climax before the woman attains her orgasm.
Men can climax just by stimulating their penises for a while. But for women, the whole situation is quite different. In order to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm, you must learn how the female body experiences sexual climax, what her main excitable organs are, and how they are affected during sexual stimulation.
Unlike men who can reach their climaxes at the drop of a hat, women require a romantic atmosphere, proper arousal, a comfortable sex position, or to sum it all up, an overall stimulating ambiance.
Here are some tips on how to give women their orgasms.
Tip 1:
Make the atmosphere as romantic as possible. For women, romance has a strong relation with fragrance. But do not go for any artificial sprays and deodorants, choose some natural flavor (simple flowers may work). Another thing you can do to add fuel to her sexual desire is to play some romantic, soft and soothing music. Let the beat and rhythm become a part of these wonderful moments.
Tip 2:
Invest in some comfortable bedspreads, flowing curtains, tantalizing pictures, mood lighting, the works. Keep everything neat and clean. When the woman walks into such a room, she won't be able to resist herself.
Tip 3:
One of the most important things in learning how to give your female partner an orgasm is to understand how to make her feel wanted and appreciated. Proper communication can open hidden doors. Tell her that you appreciate her body and spend a lot of time caressing each of them. Tip 4:
Foreplay is mandatory and cannot be overlooked. You know all about the female sexual body parts such as breasts, thighs, lips, neck and most importantly, the clitoris and vaginal lips. Some men prefer oral sex whereas others just keep themselves away from it. Do not get worried if you feel that stimulating by tongue is something you don't want to do; you can simply rub your genitals against her private parts and excite her no end.
Spend as much time as possible fondling all her assets that can make her feel aroused. Tip 5:
Penetration should be gentle if you want to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm. Sexual positions do matter and different women like different positions. Some women love to be on top and some would want to be more adventurous and ask for different kinds of penetrations too. Whatever way you adopt, the idea is to arouse and tempt your female partner as much as possible.
For any man, probably the most essential thing is to realize about a woman's sexual climax is that the woman is not as easily satisfied as the man. This is because women do not ejaculate and hence, their sexual climax is indefinite. In most incidences, the man ejaculates and reaches his climax before the woman attains her orgasm.
Men can climax just by stimulating their penises for a while. But for women, the whole situation is quite different. In order to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm, you must learn how the female body experiences sexual climax, what her main excitable organs are, and how they are affected during sexual stimulation.
Unlike men who can reach their climaxes at the drop of a hat, women require a romantic atmosphere, proper arousal, a comfortable sex position, or to sum it all up, an overall stimulating ambiance.
Here are some tips on how to give women their orgasms.
Tip 1:
Make the atmosphere as romantic as possible. For women, romance has a strong relation with fragrance. But do not go for any artificial sprays and deodorants, choose some natural flavor (simple flowers may work). Another thing you can do to add fuel to her sexual desire is to play some romantic, soft and soothing music. Let the beat and rhythm become a part of these wonderful moments.
Tip 2:
Invest in some comfortable bedspreads, flowing curtains, tantalizing pictures, mood lighting, the works. Keep everything neat and clean. When the woman walks into such a room, she won't be able to resist herself.
Tip 3:
One of the most important things in learning how to give your female partner an orgasm is to understand how to make her feel wanted and appreciated. Proper communication can open hidden doors. Tell her that you appreciate her body and spend a lot of time caressing each of them. Tip 4:
Foreplay is mandatory and cannot be overlooked. You know all about the female sexual body parts such as breasts, thighs, lips, neck and most importantly, the clitoris and vaginal lips. Some men prefer oral sex whereas others just keep themselves away from it. Do not get worried if you feel that stimulating by tongue is something you don't want to do; you can simply rub your genitals against her private parts and excite her no end.
Spend as much time as possible fondling all her assets that can make her feel aroused. Tip 5:
Penetration should be gentle if you want to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm. Sexual positions do matter and different women like different positions. Some women love to be on top and some would want to be more adventurous and ask for different kinds of penetrations too. Whatever way you adopt, the idea is to arouse and tempt your female partner as much as possible.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
How to Give a Female a Sexual Orgasm
By Branson Yen
If you want to learn how to give a female an orgasm, first you should get to know what really arouses her. Without involving the clit directly or indirectly, female orgasm cannot be achieved.
The Arousing Stimulation
Men find it very difficult to understand how a tiny organ such as the clitoris holds the key to the female orgasm. It is inconceivable for most men how a miniscule organ which is almost exteriorly placed is more sensitive than even the vagina. However, if you understand and accept this, you can easily find the answer on how to give a female an orgasm.
You may believe that stimulation by the penis over the internal lining of the vagina is the key to giving a female her orgasm. This is also true, but if you couple the vaginal stimulation with the clitoral stimulation, you could give the woman an assured orgasmic delight.
However, for women, orgasm is not achieved merely by tactile stimulation. Even emotional elements come into action. In order to learn how to give a female an orgasm, her sexual partner must know and stimulate all her sensitive parts. Organs such as breasts, armpits, neck, lips, collar bones, thighs and umbilicus share equal importance during sexual stimulation leading from the foreplay till the peak.
There is lot to understand for men about how to give a female an orgasm. This is because the way women get sexually satisfied differs from one woman to another.
Sex Positions:
Some women prefer their sexual partner to have a rear entry, whereas, others prefer the female superior (woman on top) position. Also, while in the female superior position, it is said that a man can hold his own orgasm for a longer duration as compared to the position wherein the man is on the top of female. When a man is on top, the gravity pulls down his semen and he ejaculates sooner. In female top position, it is retained up to certain extent.
If a man has the condition of premature ejaculation and wants to learn how to give a female an orgasm, allowing the woman to be on top could be a solution. Again, in any case, the female orgasm is brought when the clitoris is stimulated in one way or the other. In the indirect method the man's pubic bone pushes up and rubs against the clitoris when he is giving gentle strokes inserting his penis into the vaginal canal. Many men prefer rubbing their penises against the vulva. This works because the vulva is close to the clitoris. This leads to indirect stimulation of the clitoris. In the direct method, the clitoris is stimulated using the finger or, if the man prefers, using his tongue.
If you want to learn how to give a female an orgasm, first you should get to know what really arouses her. Without involving the clit directly or indirectly, female orgasm cannot be achieved.
The Arousing Stimulation
Men find it very difficult to understand how a tiny organ such as the clitoris holds the key to the female orgasm. It is inconceivable for most men how a miniscule organ which is almost exteriorly placed is more sensitive than even the vagina. However, if you understand and accept this, you can easily find the answer on how to give a female an orgasm.
You may believe that stimulation by the penis over the internal lining of the vagina is the key to giving a female her orgasm. This is also true, but if you couple the vaginal stimulation with the clitoral stimulation, you could give the woman an assured orgasmic delight.
However, for women, orgasm is not achieved merely by tactile stimulation. Even emotional elements come into action. In order to learn how to give a female an orgasm, her sexual partner must know and stimulate all her sensitive parts. Organs such as breasts, armpits, neck, lips, collar bones, thighs and umbilicus share equal importance during sexual stimulation leading from the foreplay till the peak.
There is lot to understand for men about how to give a female an orgasm. This is because the way women get sexually satisfied differs from one woman to another.
Sex Positions:
Some women prefer their sexual partner to have a rear entry, whereas, others prefer the female superior (woman on top) position. Also, while in the female superior position, it is said that a man can hold his own orgasm for a longer duration as compared to the position wherein the man is on the top of female. When a man is on top, the gravity pulls down his semen and he ejaculates sooner. In female top position, it is retained up to certain extent.
If a man has the condition of premature ejaculation and wants to learn how to give a female an orgasm, allowing the woman to be on top could be a solution. Again, in any case, the female orgasm is brought when the clitoris is stimulated in one way or the other. In the indirect method the man's pubic bone pushes up and rubs against the clitoris when he is giving gentle strokes inserting his penis into the vaginal canal. Many men prefer rubbing their penises against the vulva. This works because the vulva is close to the clitoris. This leads to indirect stimulation of the clitoris. In the direct method, the clitoris is stimulated using the finger or, if the man prefers, using his tongue.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Discover the Best Love Making Positions
By Neal Stirling
When it comes to the best love making positions, it is difficult to point out only one. For most men, sex is just sex. The best love making positions are the simplest. Sure, trying out all the fancy positions in the kamasutra is fun. But, sometimes these positions tend to be too complicated. They can be uncomfortable and really tiring if they are carried out for a long time.
Below are a few love tips to help you make love with that special someone.
Tip #1 - Eye Contact
Any position with eye contact is good for making love. For most women, having her partner look her straight in the eye with lustful eyes is very intimate. Tip #2 - Missionary Position
Missionary position is one of the most intimate positions. It has to be done correctly so that both people can enjoy it. There are many things a woman can do in this position. One of them is to arc her back while looking at her lover lustfully. She can also use her arms to grab him. She can grab his arms or back.
To make it even spicier, some men like their women to pinch their nipples or grip them tight with their nails. Some men find these "love wounds" extremely sexy!
Tip #3 - Cowgirl!
The cowgirl position is when she is on top of him. This position also allows face to face contact. To have a night full of love, you can alternate between the missionary position, cowgirl position and any other position in which you are face to face.
When she is on top he can lustfully look at her body. It is also very good for the woman because she can control her hips. She can move her body to touch just the right spots.
When it comes to the best love making positions, it is difficult to point out only one. For most men, sex is just sex. The best love making positions are the simplest. Sure, trying out all the fancy positions in the kamasutra is fun. But, sometimes these positions tend to be too complicated. They can be uncomfortable and really tiring if they are carried out for a long time.
Below are a few love tips to help you make love with that special someone.
Tip #1 - Eye Contact
Any position with eye contact is good for making love. For most women, having her partner look her straight in the eye with lustful eyes is very intimate. Tip #2 - Missionary Position
Missionary position is one of the most intimate positions. It has to be done correctly so that both people can enjoy it. There are many things a woman can do in this position. One of them is to arc her back while looking at her lover lustfully. She can also use her arms to grab him. She can grab his arms or back.
To make it even spicier, some men like their women to pinch their nipples or grip them tight with their nails. Some men find these "love wounds" extremely sexy!
Tip #3 - Cowgirl!
The cowgirl position is when she is on top of him. This position also allows face to face contact. To have a night full of love, you can alternate between the missionary position, cowgirl position and any other position in which you are face to face.
When she is on top he can lustfully look at her body. It is also very good for the woman because she can control her hips. She can move her body to touch just the right spots.
Monday, July 20, 2009
How to Get a Female Orgasm Easily and Effectively Every Time You Make Love
By Branson Yen
It does not matter how perfect and masculine you are, when it is all about a manhood, your potential and virility is measured by how long you can withstand sexual stimulation and how powerful you are in satisfying the woman!
It does not matter how long you can remain on the boxing ring but it does matter how long you can last on the bed, in front of your sexual partner! When it is all about sexual stimulation, sexual activities and sexual intercourse, there is no compromise from either side; the man and the woman.
Unfortunately, they are the men who come so early before their female sexual partners imagine or want. When it comes to successfully getting a lady her best possible orgasm, it is crucial that a man must follow some basic though crucial steps.
In order to learn how to get female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love, make it sure first that you both are in 'sexy' mood. You should be free from any tension (of being caught!!!) and any hurries and worries.
This is just to make the whole episode effective and enjoyable since both of you can focus on the true act of lovemaking. In this way, the woman can achieve mind-blowing orgasms every episode she has with you.
Sexual communication:
Communication plays a crucial role to help the partner achieve any orgasm she wants as it is through the communication which you can identify the problems and correct matters. If you bashful in doing this, you may have to regret one day when your female sexual partner decides to look for other ways to get the missing part of her sexual experience fulfilled.
In order to learn how to get a female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love, it is important to know that you should never put all your focus on just having sexual intercourse.
Extended Foreplay:
You know all sensual parts of the female body that play active role in sexual arousal and stimulation.
The male partner can start touching and fondling individual organs like breasts, thighs, neck, lips and finally clitoris before mounting on her.
Romantic ambience and fragrance around you can also help you in getting answer of how to get a female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love.
This is because women love romance and this can be achieved by playing some soft music, keeping arousing wall-pieces (as said in Kamasutra), use soothing lightings and placing velvety bedspread. They all appear insignificant to you things but play major role in sexually stimulation.
It does not matter how perfect and masculine you are, when it is all about a manhood, your potential and virility is measured by how long you can withstand sexual stimulation and how powerful you are in satisfying the woman!
It does not matter how long you can remain on the boxing ring but it does matter how long you can last on the bed, in front of your sexual partner! When it is all about sexual stimulation, sexual activities and sexual intercourse, there is no compromise from either side; the man and the woman.
Unfortunately, they are the men who come so early before their female sexual partners imagine or want. When it comes to successfully getting a lady her best possible orgasm, it is crucial that a man must follow some basic though crucial steps.
In order to learn how to get female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love, make it sure first that you both are in 'sexy' mood. You should be free from any tension (of being caught!!!) and any hurries and worries.
This is just to make the whole episode effective and enjoyable since both of you can focus on the true act of lovemaking. In this way, the woman can achieve mind-blowing orgasms every episode she has with you.
Sexual communication:
Communication plays a crucial role to help the partner achieve any orgasm she wants as it is through the communication which you can identify the problems and correct matters. If you bashful in doing this, you may have to regret one day when your female sexual partner decides to look for other ways to get the missing part of her sexual experience fulfilled.
In order to learn how to get a female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love, it is important to know that you should never put all your focus on just having sexual intercourse.
Extended Foreplay:
You know all sensual parts of the female body that play active role in sexual arousal and stimulation.
The male partner can start touching and fondling individual organs like breasts, thighs, neck, lips and finally clitoris before mounting on her.
Romantic ambience and fragrance around you can also help you in getting answer of how to get a female orgasm easily and effectively every time you make love.
This is because women love romance and this can be achieved by playing some soft music, keeping arousing wall-pieces (as said in Kamasutra), use soothing lightings and placing velvety bedspread. They all appear insignificant to you things but play major role in sexually stimulation.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Guide of Sexual Positions - Use These Positions To Impress Her During Sex
By Crid Lee
Before we get into the types of sexual positions to adopt to impress her during sex, do remember to spend sufficient time on foreplay. Foreplay is essential to get her aroused and ready for intercourse. A good foreplay will focus a lot of kissing and caressing on areas such as breasts, neck, shoulders, abdomen, inner thighs, lips, earlobes and spine.
Once the both of you have enough foreplay, you are now ready to learn these sexual positions to bring her to mind-blowing orgasms:
1. The Missionary Position.
This is a natural starter because of its strong eye contact and stimulation for both parties. The woman will lie flat on the bed with both her feet planted on the bed and knees bent. The man will then enter her while caressing her body. This position allows the man to have thrusting control, which can either be deep or shallow depending on the woman's reaction. One thing to note is that this position usually causes a man to ejaculate faster due to friction. To last longer and keep her happy, you can switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.
2. The Belly Flop Position.
With this position, the woman will lie on her tummy, taking her weight on her forearms. When you are using this position with your partner, you should place a pillow under her hips so that her pelvis is angled and you have a better chance to hit her g-spot.
3. The Clip Position.
This positions starts off with the man lying down with his legs outstretched. His partner will sit on top of him, allowing him to penetrate her. The woman will lean back, allowing the man to stimulate her clitoris with his free hands, giving her greater pleasure.
These 3 positions that I have shared with you are very easy to execute. Be sure to master these positions first before moving on to more complicated ones.
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Before we get into the types of sexual positions to adopt to impress her during sex, do remember to spend sufficient time on foreplay. Foreplay is essential to get her aroused and ready for intercourse. A good foreplay will focus a lot of kissing and caressing on areas such as breasts, neck, shoulders, abdomen, inner thighs, lips, earlobes and spine.
Once the both of you have enough foreplay, you are now ready to learn these sexual positions to bring her to mind-blowing orgasms:
1. The Missionary Position.
This is a natural starter because of its strong eye contact and stimulation for both parties. The woman will lie flat on the bed with both her feet planted on the bed and knees bent. The man will then enter her while caressing her body. This position allows the man to have thrusting control, which can either be deep or shallow depending on the woman's reaction. One thing to note is that this position usually causes a man to ejaculate faster due to friction. To last longer and keep her happy, you can switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.
2. The Belly Flop Position.
With this position, the woman will lie on her tummy, taking her weight on her forearms. When you are using this position with your partner, you should place a pillow under her hips so that her pelvis is angled and you have a better chance to hit her g-spot.
3. The Clip Position.
This positions starts off with the man lying down with his legs outstretched. His partner will sit on top of him, allowing him to penetrate her. The woman will lean back, allowing the man to stimulate her clitoris with his free hands, giving her greater pleasure.
These 3 positions that I have shared with you are very easy to execute. Be sure to master these positions first before moving on to more complicated ones.
How skilful are you in bed to make your woman achieves the best orgasm that she ever had? Visit the website below to find out more tips to skyrocket your sex life now...
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Female Orgasm Technique - How to Please Women in Bed
By Pekkie Aon
If you want to know about how to please women in bed, you need to know about certain things we hate in lovemaking! Interested? Read on!
• Sure, we all know that toe curling; screaming orgasms require variation and different positions. But please, can we have just five minutes of each at a time? Most women need a steady and slow rhythm to climax at the right time. So, the first step to knowing how to please women in bed is to avoid too many positions at the same time. We do not need a Kamasutra lesson every night! Avoid putting stuff like whipped cream or any other foods in that area. If you want to have melted chocolate off her, go ahead! Just keep it above the waist and you are safe. Just remember that they are very sensitive body tissue. An occasional squeeze is ok; avoid kneading and twisting them too much. It's painful and can turn off your partner in seconds. Also, it doesn't say a lot about your expertise!
• You might feel that a spa is the ideal place to cozy up to your partner. Just be careful of the chlorine in that hot tub of water. It can have a very drying effect on the skin and can cause your partner's vagina to go sore with the friction. Make love to her by all means; just shift the venue of the intercourse to safer areas when you are ready!
Finally, girls hate it when it's all about you all the time. If you really want to know how to please women in bed, make it about her too!
If you want to know about how to please women in bed, you need to know about certain things we hate in lovemaking! Interested? Read on!
• Sure, we all know that toe curling; screaming orgasms require variation and different positions. But please, can we have just five minutes of each at a time? Most women need a steady and slow rhythm to climax at the right time. So, the first step to knowing how to please women in bed is to avoid too many positions at the same time. We do not need a Kamasutra lesson every night! Avoid putting stuff like whipped cream or any other foods in that area. If you want to have melted chocolate off her, go ahead! Just keep it above the waist and you are safe. Just remember that they are very sensitive body tissue. An occasional squeeze is ok; avoid kneading and twisting them too much. It's painful and can turn off your partner in seconds. Also, it doesn't say a lot about your expertise!
• You might feel that a spa is the ideal place to cozy up to your partner. Just be careful of the chlorine in that hot tub of water. It can have a very drying effect on the skin and can cause your partner's vagina to go sore with the friction. Make love to her by all means; just shift the venue of the intercourse to safer areas when you are ready!
Finally, girls hate it when it's all about you all the time. If you really want to know how to please women in bed, make it about her too!
Friday, July 17, 2009
Calories During Sex - Tips to Burn Calories During a Sex Session
By Anna Holman
Burning of calories during sex is higher than any other exercise. In order to burn calories and lose weight, we should have regular sex. Lovemaking is a pleasurable and exciting experience that is enjoyed by everyone. Everyone likes to cuddle, kiss and make love. Sex rejuvenates your body, mind and soul especially making love during morning and late nights are more pleasurable. Regular sex enhances your overall health. Your psychological health also increases due to a safe and happy intercourse.
Tips To Burn Calories During A Sex Session
. In order to burn calories, you should try to make your love making session last for atleast 30 minutes. Never jump into the main action directly, which can reduce the amount of calorie burning.
. Experimentation is the key for an electrifying sex session. Burn calories using difficult positions such as Italian Chandelier and wheelbarrow.
. 150 calories are burnt during a regular sex session. It can even go higher than this if we can delay the entire session by using stop and go rule. It not only helps your body to burn calories but also reduces the cholesterol level. Lovemaking enhances the oxygen supply in your body and improves your blood circulation.
. In order to learn different types of postures during love making, one should read the book called Kamasutra. Calories during sex will be burnt more, if we understand the various nuances of this book. The popular positions like the dog, visitor and lotus is quite helpful for someone who wants to make their lovemaking experience somewhat memorable.
Burning of calories during sex is higher than any other exercise. In order to burn calories and lose weight, we should have regular sex. Lovemaking is a pleasurable and exciting experience that is enjoyed by everyone. Everyone likes to cuddle, kiss and make love. Sex rejuvenates your body, mind and soul especially making love during morning and late nights are more pleasurable. Regular sex enhances your overall health. Your psychological health also increases due to a safe and happy intercourse.
Tips To Burn Calories During A Sex Session
. In order to burn calories, you should try to make your love making session last for atleast 30 minutes. Never jump into the main action directly, which can reduce the amount of calorie burning.
. Experimentation is the key for an electrifying sex session. Burn calories using difficult positions such as Italian Chandelier and wheelbarrow.
. 150 calories are burnt during a regular sex session. It can even go higher than this if we can delay the entire session by using stop and go rule. It not only helps your body to burn calories but also reduces the cholesterol level. Lovemaking enhances the oxygen supply in your body and improves your blood circulation.
. In order to learn different types of postures during love making, one should read the book called Kamasutra. Calories during sex will be burnt more, if we understand the various nuances of this book. The popular positions like the dog, visitor and lotus is quite helpful for someone who wants to make their lovemaking experience somewhat memorable.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Best Sexual Positions Of The Rich & Famous Part1
By Sacha Tarkovsky
In this series on best sexual positions we have covered a multitude of situations and conditions for a greater understanding to sexual health.
Famous people, like everyday normal ones, are allowed to have a sex life, but sadly, theirs ends up in tabloids and cheap publicity outlets.
Elvis.
Elvis, like most men in the 1950s were completely taken with Marilyn Monroe.
One day at a chance meeting he met her on a movie lot, and asked her out. Elvis on the other hand, had a very active sexual life, and mostly ladies were arranged by one executive at the William Morris Agency who represented him.
Elvis apparently pressured this agent to arrange a meeting with Marilyn.
Marilyn
At the time of this “arrangement” Marilyn was still married to the famous playwright Arthur Miller, so the liaison had to be kept completely secret.
Marilyn was known to have herself been in some kind of 3-way relations with a pair of bisexual men (Charlie Chaplin’s son and another man) as well.
She was willing to meet Elvis, and did.
Their Most Likely Favorite Position
From information gathered in recent books about both of these Hollywood legends, there is one position that is likely to have been their favorite.
This would have been the doggy style in two variations.
On the bed and against a sofa back.
The correct version of the doggy style (most used in the sexually inhibited 1950s America) would have been for the woman to be on all fours on the bed, but her head close to, or touching the sheet.
Instead of her hands supporting her upper body, she would have rested on her forearms with hands flat.
This position elevates the woman’s buttocks for direct contact to the man, on his knees behind her. This also allows the man to fondle her breasts or even her genital area while he is thrusting.
The variation of this is where the man places the woman over the back side of the sofa, so her head in on the sofa back cushion, but her buttocks are firmly against the rear backside of the sofa, her feet on the ground.
The man enters from the rear, standing, and can thrust in a very vigorous manner. This is pure sex, and as the couple can’t really see each other, they are free to fantasize while the sexual act is in progress.
As we know from history, both of these unfortunate individuals were on drugs at the time, perhaps stimulants (amphetamines or cocaine), and the positions described would have been ideal for a couple so influenced.
As we also know from history, this was a one-off event, it seems both their sexual lives took on some negative elements.
Let us suppose that at the time, the positions mentioned (the agent was in the outer room while the two were together) were accurate.
In this series on best sexual positions we have covered a multitude of situations and conditions for a greater understanding to sexual health.
Famous people, like everyday normal ones, are allowed to have a sex life, but sadly, theirs ends up in tabloids and cheap publicity outlets.
Elvis.
Elvis, like most men in the 1950s were completely taken with Marilyn Monroe.
One day at a chance meeting he met her on a movie lot, and asked her out. Elvis on the other hand, had a very active sexual life, and mostly ladies were arranged by one executive at the William Morris Agency who represented him.
Elvis apparently pressured this agent to arrange a meeting with Marilyn.
Marilyn
At the time of this “arrangement” Marilyn was still married to the famous playwright Arthur Miller, so the liaison had to be kept completely secret.
Marilyn was known to have herself been in some kind of 3-way relations with a pair of bisexual men (Charlie Chaplin’s son and another man) as well.
She was willing to meet Elvis, and did.
Their Most Likely Favorite Position
From information gathered in recent books about both of these Hollywood legends, there is one position that is likely to have been their favorite.
This would have been the doggy style in two variations.
On the bed and against a sofa back.
The correct version of the doggy style (most used in the sexually inhibited 1950s America) would have been for the woman to be on all fours on the bed, but her head close to, or touching the sheet.
Instead of her hands supporting her upper body, she would have rested on her forearms with hands flat.
This position elevates the woman’s buttocks for direct contact to the man, on his knees behind her. This also allows the man to fondle her breasts or even her genital area while he is thrusting.
The variation of this is where the man places the woman over the back side of the sofa, so her head in on the sofa back cushion, but her buttocks are firmly against the rear backside of the sofa, her feet on the ground.
The man enters from the rear, standing, and can thrust in a very vigorous manner. This is pure sex, and as the couple can’t really see each other, they are free to fantasize while the sexual act is in progress.
As we know from history, both of these unfortunate individuals were on drugs at the time, perhaps stimulants (amphetamines or cocaine), and the positions described would have been ideal for a couple so influenced.
As we also know from history, this was a one-off event, it seems both their sexual lives took on some negative elements.
Let us suppose that at the time, the positions mentioned (the agent was in the outer room while the two were together) were accurate.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Best Sexual Positions For Sex Out of the Bedroom
By Sacha Tarkovsky
In the Best Sexual Positions series we cover the ideal sexual positions for all circumstances and situations. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for sex out of the bedroom.
Use this information to spice up your sex life, and remember that variety is the secret weapon against complacency.
Sex Out of the Bedroom Situations – At Home
The areas of greatest advantage are the living room, where the sofa and easy chairs are; the bathroom and the kitchen.
The living room
Gives the bed replacements in the sofa and easy chairs.
The best sexual position in these cases are supported doggy style, with the woman on her knees on the sofa seat, and her hands supporting her holding on to the sofa back.
The man is standing, and easily finds a rear entry. This is a marvelous position in that it is pure sex for both partners, and the woman is getting full g-spot stimulation.
The second best position in this case is the man seated on the sofa, and the woman mounts him, facing him, or even with her back turned.
Penetration is easy and deep, and trusting is up to the woman. This is a maximum clitoral stimulation position, and usually ends up with the woman achieving a profound orgasm.
The bathroom
Presents some great possibilities, but the best is the standing rear entry. The woman will support herself against the bathroom sink, and spread her legs wide.
The man will easily find rear entry and in this case, all the thrusting is up to him. This position is a standing doggy style, and thus gives both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This is really a pure sex position.
Sex in the kitchen
Is never as easy as it might seem. The best sexual position here is to have the woman sit or lie back on the kitchen counter (if low enough), or kitchen table.
A small pillow should be placed under her buttocks.
The man will raise the woman’s legs to her breast, and expose her genital area. The woman can assist him by giving feed back.
Then the man can begin thrusting in various ways, such as alternating short and long thrusts.
The woman is very much stimulated by this position (which the Chinese refer to as the standing horse), and the man usually can last a great amount of time also without ejaculating.
There are other great positions for sex outside the bedroom and outside the house, and these are covered in later articles in this series.
In the Best Sexual Positions series we cover the ideal sexual positions for all circumstances and situations. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for sex out of the bedroom.
Use this information to spice up your sex life, and remember that variety is the secret weapon against complacency.
Sex Out of the Bedroom Situations – At Home
The areas of greatest advantage are the living room, where the sofa and easy chairs are; the bathroom and the kitchen.
The living room
Gives the bed replacements in the sofa and easy chairs.
The best sexual position in these cases are supported doggy style, with the woman on her knees on the sofa seat, and her hands supporting her holding on to the sofa back.
The man is standing, and easily finds a rear entry. This is a marvelous position in that it is pure sex for both partners, and the woman is getting full g-spot stimulation.
The second best position in this case is the man seated on the sofa, and the woman mounts him, facing him, or even with her back turned.
Penetration is easy and deep, and trusting is up to the woman. This is a maximum clitoral stimulation position, and usually ends up with the woman achieving a profound orgasm.
The bathroom
Presents some great possibilities, but the best is the standing rear entry. The woman will support herself against the bathroom sink, and spread her legs wide.
The man will easily find rear entry and in this case, all the thrusting is up to him. This position is a standing doggy style, and thus gives both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This is really a pure sex position.
Sex in the kitchen
Is never as easy as it might seem. The best sexual position here is to have the woman sit or lie back on the kitchen counter (if low enough), or kitchen table.
A small pillow should be placed under her buttocks.
The man will raise the woman’s legs to her breast, and expose her genital area. The woman can assist him by giving feed back.
Then the man can begin thrusting in various ways, such as alternating short and long thrusts.
The woman is very much stimulated by this position (which the Chinese refer to as the standing horse), and the man usually can last a great amount of time also without ejaculating.
There are other great positions for sex outside the bedroom and outside the house, and these are covered in later articles in this series.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
By Sacha Tarkovsky
In the best sexual positions series we have discussed the best sexual positions for most situations that can arise.
One special situation is for spontaneous sex, and this is something that is totally unpredictable, and thus, knowing the best sexual position in advance can make the magic of a spontaneous sexual encounter last in your memory forever.
Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Often portrayed in films and written about in books, the spontaneous sexual encounter is more or less another name for the Americanized word, ‘quickie’.
The other problem is clothing, and for the spontaneous encounter, you will need to keep as much of your clothing on as possible, as in spontaneous sexual encounters, there is always the risk of being “caught in the act”.
The Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Assuming the encounter begins by kissing, once the couple have passed the moment of decision (to or not to), then the man must turn the woman around so she has to back to the man.
The clothes on the upper part of the body are not required to be removed (regardless of how it is done in films), and concentrate on getting the lower clothes to the knees at least or better the ankles. The man then embraces the woman with one arm, and uses the other to position himself.
The woman does the same. One arm is used to hold the man, usually around his neck, but holding her arm back over her own head, and the other is used to facilitate penetration.
Both the man and woman bend their knees slightly, and come together very closely, like two spoons resting together. As penetration is made the couple move in unison with push and recoil.
This is the action, and as entry was made from the rear, both the g-spot and the clitoris are stimulated.
It is very much like a dance, and indeed the movements from new club dancing should be used if the couple understands how to do it.
The very term spontaneous often means that there is not enough time to prepare for all eventualities.
If inside the woman, then there is no problem, if outside (a term known as coitus interruptus ) the man should terminate in his own free hand, as not to cause a mess.
Remember time is of the essence here, and a quick dressing after the session will not be possible if the man is careless about where he deposits his sperm.
Finishing Up
There are other sexual positions possible for spontaneous sexual encounters, but the standing spoons is by far the best from the standpoint of mutual satisfaction, speed to penetrate, react and completion, and should it be interrupted or discovered, it is the fastest position to recover one’s equipoise.
In the best sexual positions series we have discussed the best sexual positions for most situations that can arise.
One special situation is for spontaneous sex, and this is something that is totally unpredictable, and thus, knowing the best sexual position in advance can make the magic of a spontaneous sexual encounter last in your memory forever.
Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Often portrayed in films and written about in books, the spontaneous sexual encounter is more or less another name for the Americanized word, ‘quickie’.
The other problem is clothing, and for the spontaneous encounter, you will need to keep as much of your clothing on as possible, as in spontaneous sexual encounters, there is always the risk of being “caught in the act”.
The Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Assuming the encounter begins by kissing, once the couple have passed the moment of decision (to or not to), then the man must turn the woman around so she has to back to the man.
The clothes on the upper part of the body are not required to be removed (regardless of how it is done in films), and concentrate on getting the lower clothes to the knees at least or better the ankles. The man then embraces the woman with one arm, and uses the other to position himself.
The woman does the same. One arm is used to hold the man, usually around his neck, but holding her arm back over her own head, and the other is used to facilitate penetration.
Both the man and woman bend their knees slightly, and come together very closely, like two spoons resting together. As penetration is made the couple move in unison with push and recoil.
This is the action, and as entry was made from the rear, both the g-spot and the clitoris are stimulated.
It is very much like a dance, and indeed the movements from new club dancing should be used if the couple understands how to do it.
The very term spontaneous often means that there is not enough time to prepare for all eventualities.
If inside the woman, then there is no problem, if outside (a term known as coitus interruptus ) the man should terminate in his own free hand, as not to cause a mess.
Remember time is of the essence here, and a quick dressing after the session will not be possible if the man is careless about where he deposits his sperm.
Finishing Up
There are other sexual positions possible for spontaneous sexual encounters, but the standing spoons is by far the best from the standpoint of mutual satisfaction, speed to penetrate, react and completion, and should it be interrupted or discovered, it is the fastest position to recover one’s equipoise.
Ayurveda and Sex
By Dev Sri
Sex, according to Ayurveda and according to Ayurveda and the Vedas, is a divine process that is responsible for the very existence of human race on the face of earth. Kamasutra, the ancient science of love and love making describes in detail a variety of factors involved in practicing safe and fulfilling sex.
According to Ayurveda, children is an asset. From having intercourse to delivering children and bringing them up with healthy body, mind and imparting in them, the training to see life in positive life and showing them the good way of life is an elaborate process. Sal-Santanangal (or children of good qualities, physically, mentally and spiritually) is the ultimate aim of sex.
Vageekarana Chikitsa (Aphrodisiac Treatment)
Aphrodisiac therapy or treatment has a prominent place in Ayurveda. It is part of Vrisha, one anga or branch in ashtanga or eight principle branches of Ayurveda. Removing the imbalances of doshas or tridosha (vata, pitta, kapha) comes before vageekarana chikitsa (aphrodisiac therapy).
Good physical qualities, semen quantity and quality, is the aim of vajeekarana chikitsa.
The man should be compatible to his woman in physical, mental, and on an astrological basis.
Meeting other women is strictly prohibited in Ayurveda. The only place to ejaculate semen is vagina - masturbation and all other forms of unnatural sex are prohibited.
Although Kamasutra suggests 64 different sexual positions, Ayurveda recognizes only the common method -woman bottom and man top. Experimenting on this for bodily pleasure causes woman body to position in different forms, which can cause immediate to long-term faults to woman body and also to the child.
Vageekarana chikitsa or Jaara chikitsa (aphrodisiac therapy) suggests Panchakarma for purification of physiology and semen. Panchakarma is not necessary for women because of physical peculiarities.
Ayurveda suggests physical union of loving couples as the one way to enjoy divine pleasure. Here an assembly of panchendriya (Five Senses - touch, sight, etc.), physical organs, and mind takes place.
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