What is Kama Sutra?

By Trina Read

Did you know the Kama Sutra was written by a celibate scholar? Or that the Kama Sutra revolves around a man's pleasure? Or that only about 20% of the book is about sexual positioning? After being with the same partner for a number of years, many couples are desperately curious about how to spice up their sex life. Stuck for options, they secretly tiptoe down the "sex" section of the bookstore to get a peek at the Kama Sutra nudie pictures and acrobatic sexual positions. Titillated, they buy the book only to have it sit untouched and lonesome in their nightstand drawer forevermore.
Unfortunately, they failed to understand that Kama Sutra is not a sex-quick-fix; rather, it's a comprehensive way of looking at their sexuality. As such, it has remained under its mystical Eastern shroud since it first hit pop-culture in the early 1980s.
Truthfully, the Kama Sutra isn't all that complicated and it's a great way for couples to keep their sex fun and fresh over the long term.
So what is Kama Sutra? It was meant as a pillow book. Whereas our Western culture believed in not talking about sex and leaving kids ignorant until their wedding day, Eastern culture had the opposite viewpoint. Vatsyayana happened to create the world's most famous pillow book.
Tradition believes Vatsyayana was a celibate scholar who lived sometime around 4th century AD. He did not write the Kama Sutra per se; rather, he was a compiler and editor of all the information that existed during the very rich Gupta period. Interestingly, Vatsyayana believed that sex itself was not wrong, but doing it frivolously was sinful.
Therefore, "Kama" literally means desire and "Sutra" signifies a thread or a thread of discourses. While most of us believe the Kama Sutra is all about sexual positions, 80% of the book gives insights on how to make love a divine union, how to act like a responsible citizen, how to handle your household, etc. It's a discourse or a marriage manual to troubleshoot all the sticky points a young man or young woman will face in their pending marriage. Brilliant, really.
And then there are the infamous 64 positions which has launched hundreds (maybe thousands) of books, videos and websites. A veritable smorgasbord.
What many people don't realize is that the Kama Sutra's focus is to give the man the maximum amount of sexual pleasure. The more sexual energy she had, the more likely her energy would cross over to give him a bigger, better orgasm.
Our quickly-becomes-boring Western get-on, get-in, get-off type of sex cannot begin to rival Kama Sutra's sex because it is about the entire sexual experience.
Kama Sutra sex has a beginning, middle and end-instead of just focusing on the middle like Westerns do. First, the Kama Sutra gives instructions on how to prepare yourself and your environment for lovemaking. It then talks about multiple ways to have foreplay in order to "energize" the woman (yeah!). It then shows many different options for positions. The possible combinations are endless, enabling you to mix-up sex each and every time.
You may be asking, "If Kama Sutra is so great, why aren't more people jumping on the band wagon?" Well, if you go totally authentic and read Richard Burton's original translated version of Vatsyayana's work, it is deathly boring. Did I mention complicated? He talks about yonis and bulls and other euphemisms that are unfamiliar to our Western sensibilities. Luckily, Anne Hooper came out with Kama Sutra for 21st Century Lovers. It's the best version I've seen on the store shelf because it is written in understandable language and the photos are superb. Or if you want to go more authentic, Deepak Chopra is trying to cash in on his name with his beautiful version of Kama Sutra.
If you've done the math, yes Kama Sutra takes more bedroom work. Time starved couples look at it, roll their eyes and say, "No thanks." Please remember though, good sex gives you and your relationship a much-needed injection of energy.