By Pekkie Aon
The health and vitality of both partners involved can be boosted by a satisfying union developed over time. It is thus imperative that for satisfying results both partners should be physically, emotionally and spiritually attached. Reaching an orgasm together is a magical moment best shared together.
Sex is a very integral part of our daily lives. Look no further than the Kamasutra, an ancient Sanskrit text that describes the rules for sensual pleasures. The classical erotic stone sculptures of Khajuraho and Konark in India stand as mute testimony to the unparalleled comprehensive documentation of sexual acts and the emphasis that is laid upon various sexual positions.
How a man can exert control over his ejaculation is greatly increased by the sexual position he engages in with his partner. Missionary position is one of the commonest sexual positions but it is difficult for a man to control his ejaculation in this position. If the man lies on his back and the woman lies on top of him then the man is relaxed and in a better position to guide his partner.
Premature ejaculation is a highly relative issue. A vast majority of women fail to reach orgasm with the stimulation provided by penetration and thrusts alone. The vagina is far less sensitive than the clitoris and in most regular coital positions the clitoris is not stimulated at all. The BIG SECRET is that most of the sexual positions recommended for controlling ejaculation in men are the ones that stimulate the clitoris too!
A woman can often have multiple orgasms due to manual stimulations before penetration and if the partner ejaculates within seconds after mounting then sex is satisfactory for both partners. Men have a natural urge to ejaculate early and such urges should not be treated as premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation also should not be associated with the time taken and the number of thrusts necessary to ejaculate. The stop-start method, the squeeze technique and adopting favorable sexual positions are helpful in controlling premature ejaculation.
Thus the ground reality is that premature ejaculations are a major cause behind barriers for prolonged sexual intimacy. There are numerous treatments for premature ejaculation, some proven and some just high-pressure advertising.
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Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Tantric Sex Techniques - Transform Your Sex Life!
By Ben Evans
I'm sure you have heard about tantric sex and the amazing benefits it can bring to your sex life. Tantric sex techniques enable partners to not only have amazing sex, but also create an amazing emotional connection with each other.
There are hundreds of amazing tantric sex techniques but the one thing that you must know for all of them is the importance of taking your time. With traditional sex, there is normally a period of foreplay that is soon followed by penetrative sex in one of the most common sexual positions. Most people only ever have sex in a couple of different positions.
However, tantric sex can last much longer and orgasms are often achieved in a totally different way. Sometimes, just a gently touch whilst looking into each others eyes can achieve orgasm. Imagine having this amazing tantric power! Well, here's how:
Start of sitting down, legs crossed and directly facing each other. For now, just look into your partners eyes and appreciate how beautiful they are. See them breathing and time your breathing to match theirs. Then, slowly take their clothes off, savouring each and every touch and sight. Stroke their skin but avoid the most common erogenous zones. Look deeply into your lovers eyes as you do this. Slowly touch more of their body and move to the erogenous zones. Keep paying attention to their breathing and move closer together so that you are in a deep embrace and start kissing lightly. Do not progress to penetration yet. Keep moving slowly and feel each others bodies entwined with each other until you both reach climax.
I'm sure you have heard about tantric sex and the amazing benefits it can bring to your sex life. Tantric sex techniques enable partners to not only have amazing sex, but also create an amazing emotional connection with each other.
There are hundreds of amazing tantric sex techniques but the one thing that you must know for all of them is the importance of taking your time. With traditional sex, there is normally a period of foreplay that is soon followed by penetrative sex in one of the most common sexual positions. Most people only ever have sex in a couple of different positions.
However, tantric sex can last much longer and orgasms are often achieved in a totally different way. Sometimes, just a gently touch whilst looking into each others eyes can achieve orgasm. Imagine having this amazing tantric power! Well, here's how:
Start of sitting down, legs crossed and directly facing each other. For now, just look into your partners eyes and appreciate how beautiful they are. See them breathing and time your breathing to match theirs. Then, slowly take their clothes off, savouring each and every touch and sight. Stroke their skin but avoid the most common erogenous zones. Look deeply into your lovers eyes as you do this. Slowly touch more of their body and move to the erogenous zones. Keep paying attention to their breathing and move closer together so that you are in a deep embrace and start kissing lightly. Do not progress to penetration yet. Keep moving slowly and feel each others bodies entwined with each other until you both reach climax.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
How to Give Your Female Partner an Orgasm
By Branson Yen
For any man, probably the most essential thing is to realize about a woman's sexual climax is that the woman is not as easily satisfied as the man. This is because women do not ejaculate and hence, their sexual climax is indefinite. In most incidences, the man ejaculates and reaches his climax before the woman attains her orgasm.
Men can climax just by stimulating their penises for a while. But for women, the whole situation is quite different. In order to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm, you must learn how the female body experiences sexual climax, what her main excitable organs are, and how they are affected during sexual stimulation.
Unlike men who can reach their climaxes at the drop of a hat, women require a romantic atmosphere, proper arousal, a comfortable sex position, or to sum it all up, an overall stimulating ambiance.
Here are some tips on how to give women their orgasms.
Tip 1:
Make the atmosphere as romantic as possible. For women, romance has a strong relation with fragrance. But do not go for any artificial sprays and deodorants, choose some natural flavor (simple flowers may work). Another thing you can do to add fuel to her sexual desire is to play some romantic, soft and soothing music. Let the beat and rhythm become a part of these wonderful moments.
Tip 2:
Invest in some comfortable bedspreads, flowing curtains, tantalizing pictures, mood lighting, the works. Keep everything neat and clean. When the woman walks into such a room, she won't be able to resist herself.
Tip 3:
One of the most important things in learning how to give your female partner an orgasm is to understand how to make her feel wanted and appreciated. Proper communication can open hidden doors. Tell her that you appreciate her body and spend a lot of time caressing each of them. Tip 4:
Foreplay is mandatory and cannot be overlooked. You know all about the female sexual body parts such as breasts, thighs, lips, neck and most importantly, the clitoris and vaginal lips. Some men prefer oral sex whereas others just keep themselves away from it. Do not get worried if you feel that stimulating by tongue is something you don't want to do; you can simply rub your genitals against her private parts and excite her no end.
Spend as much time as possible fondling all her assets that can make her feel aroused. Tip 5:
Penetration should be gentle if you want to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm. Sexual positions do matter and different women like different positions. Some women love to be on top and some would want to be more adventurous and ask for different kinds of penetrations too. Whatever way you adopt, the idea is to arouse and tempt your female partner as much as possible.
For any man, probably the most essential thing is to realize about a woman's sexual climax is that the woman is not as easily satisfied as the man. This is because women do not ejaculate and hence, their sexual climax is indefinite. In most incidences, the man ejaculates and reaches his climax before the woman attains her orgasm.
Men can climax just by stimulating their penises for a while. But for women, the whole situation is quite different. In order to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm, you must learn how the female body experiences sexual climax, what her main excitable organs are, and how they are affected during sexual stimulation.
Unlike men who can reach their climaxes at the drop of a hat, women require a romantic atmosphere, proper arousal, a comfortable sex position, or to sum it all up, an overall stimulating ambiance.
Here are some tips on how to give women their orgasms.
Tip 1:
Make the atmosphere as romantic as possible. For women, romance has a strong relation with fragrance. But do not go for any artificial sprays and deodorants, choose some natural flavor (simple flowers may work). Another thing you can do to add fuel to her sexual desire is to play some romantic, soft and soothing music. Let the beat and rhythm become a part of these wonderful moments.
Tip 2:
Invest in some comfortable bedspreads, flowing curtains, tantalizing pictures, mood lighting, the works. Keep everything neat and clean. When the woman walks into such a room, she won't be able to resist herself.
Tip 3:
One of the most important things in learning how to give your female partner an orgasm is to understand how to make her feel wanted and appreciated. Proper communication can open hidden doors. Tell her that you appreciate her body and spend a lot of time caressing each of them. Tip 4:
Foreplay is mandatory and cannot be overlooked. You know all about the female sexual body parts such as breasts, thighs, lips, neck and most importantly, the clitoris and vaginal lips. Some men prefer oral sex whereas others just keep themselves away from it. Do not get worried if you feel that stimulating by tongue is something you don't want to do; you can simply rub your genitals against her private parts and excite her no end.
Spend as much time as possible fondling all her assets that can make her feel aroused. Tip 5:
Penetration should be gentle if you want to learn how to give your female partner an orgasm. Sexual positions do matter and different women like different positions. Some women love to be on top and some would want to be more adventurous and ask for different kinds of penetrations too. Whatever way you adopt, the idea is to arouse and tempt your female partner as much as possible.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Guide of Sexual Positions - Use These Positions To Impress Her During Sex
By Crid Lee
Before we get into the types of sexual positions to adopt to impress her during sex, do remember to spend sufficient time on foreplay. Foreplay is essential to get her aroused and ready for intercourse. A good foreplay will focus a lot of kissing and caressing on areas such as breasts, neck, shoulders, abdomen, inner thighs, lips, earlobes and spine.
Once the both of you have enough foreplay, you are now ready to learn these sexual positions to bring her to mind-blowing orgasms:
1. The Missionary Position.
This is a natural starter because of its strong eye contact and stimulation for both parties. The woman will lie flat on the bed with both her feet planted on the bed and knees bent. The man will then enter her while caressing her body. This position allows the man to have thrusting control, which can either be deep or shallow depending on the woman's reaction. One thing to note is that this position usually causes a man to ejaculate faster due to friction. To last longer and keep her happy, you can switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.
2. The Belly Flop Position.
With this position, the woman will lie on her tummy, taking her weight on her forearms. When you are using this position with your partner, you should place a pillow under her hips so that her pelvis is angled and you have a better chance to hit her g-spot.
3. The Clip Position.
This positions starts off with the man lying down with his legs outstretched. His partner will sit on top of him, allowing him to penetrate her. The woman will lean back, allowing the man to stimulate her clitoris with his free hands, giving her greater pleasure.
These 3 positions that I have shared with you are very easy to execute. Be sure to master these positions first before moving on to more complicated ones.
How skilful are you in bed to make your woman achieves the best orgasm that she ever had? Visit the website below to find out more tips to skyrocket your sex life now...
Before we get into the types of sexual positions to adopt to impress her during sex, do remember to spend sufficient time on foreplay. Foreplay is essential to get her aroused and ready for intercourse. A good foreplay will focus a lot of kissing and caressing on areas such as breasts, neck, shoulders, abdomen, inner thighs, lips, earlobes and spine.
Once the both of you have enough foreplay, you are now ready to learn these sexual positions to bring her to mind-blowing orgasms:
1. The Missionary Position.
This is a natural starter because of its strong eye contact and stimulation for both parties. The woman will lie flat on the bed with both her feet planted on the bed and knees bent. The man will then enter her while caressing her body. This position allows the man to have thrusting control, which can either be deep or shallow depending on the woman's reaction. One thing to note is that this position usually causes a man to ejaculate faster due to friction. To last longer and keep her happy, you can switch to a move that maintains clitoral pressure without so much thrusting.
2. The Belly Flop Position.
With this position, the woman will lie on her tummy, taking her weight on her forearms. When you are using this position with your partner, you should place a pillow under her hips so that her pelvis is angled and you have a better chance to hit her g-spot.
3. The Clip Position.
This positions starts off with the man lying down with his legs outstretched. His partner will sit on top of him, allowing him to penetrate her. The woman will lean back, allowing the man to stimulate her clitoris with his free hands, giving her greater pleasure.
These 3 positions that I have shared with you are very easy to execute. Be sure to master these positions first before moving on to more complicated ones.
How skilful are you in bed to make your woman achieves the best orgasm that she ever had? Visit the website below to find out more tips to skyrocket your sex life now...
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Best Sexual Positions Of The Rich & Famous Part1
By Sacha Tarkovsky
In this series on best sexual positions we have covered a multitude of situations and conditions for a greater understanding to sexual health.
Famous people, like everyday normal ones, are allowed to have a sex life, but sadly, theirs ends up in tabloids and cheap publicity outlets.
Elvis.
Elvis, like most men in the 1950s were completely taken with Marilyn Monroe.
One day at a chance meeting he met her on a movie lot, and asked her out. Elvis on the other hand, had a very active sexual life, and mostly ladies were arranged by one executive at the William Morris Agency who represented him.
Elvis apparently pressured this agent to arrange a meeting with Marilyn.
Marilyn
At the time of this “arrangement” Marilyn was still married to the famous playwright Arthur Miller, so the liaison had to be kept completely secret.
Marilyn was known to have herself been in some kind of 3-way relations with a pair of bisexual men (Charlie Chaplin’s son and another man) as well.
She was willing to meet Elvis, and did.
Their Most Likely Favorite Position
From information gathered in recent books about both of these Hollywood legends, there is one position that is likely to have been their favorite.
This would have been the doggy style in two variations.
On the bed and against a sofa back.
The correct version of the doggy style (most used in the sexually inhibited 1950s America) would have been for the woman to be on all fours on the bed, but her head close to, or touching the sheet.
Instead of her hands supporting her upper body, she would have rested on her forearms with hands flat.
This position elevates the woman’s buttocks for direct contact to the man, on his knees behind her. This also allows the man to fondle her breasts or even her genital area while he is thrusting.
The variation of this is where the man places the woman over the back side of the sofa, so her head in on the sofa back cushion, but her buttocks are firmly against the rear backside of the sofa, her feet on the ground.
The man enters from the rear, standing, and can thrust in a very vigorous manner. This is pure sex, and as the couple can’t really see each other, they are free to fantasize while the sexual act is in progress.
As we know from history, both of these unfortunate individuals were on drugs at the time, perhaps stimulants (amphetamines or cocaine), and the positions described would have been ideal for a couple so influenced.
As we also know from history, this was a one-off event, it seems both their sexual lives took on some negative elements.
Let us suppose that at the time, the positions mentioned (the agent was in the outer room while the two were together) were accurate.
In this series on best sexual positions we have covered a multitude of situations and conditions for a greater understanding to sexual health.
Famous people, like everyday normal ones, are allowed to have a sex life, but sadly, theirs ends up in tabloids and cheap publicity outlets.
Elvis.
Elvis, like most men in the 1950s were completely taken with Marilyn Monroe.
One day at a chance meeting he met her on a movie lot, and asked her out. Elvis on the other hand, had a very active sexual life, and mostly ladies were arranged by one executive at the William Morris Agency who represented him.
Elvis apparently pressured this agent to arrange a meeting with Marilyn.
Marilyn
At the time of this “arrangement” Marilyn was still married to the famous playwright Arthur Miller, so the liaison had to be kept completely secret.
Marilyn was known to have herself been in some kind of 3-way relations with a pair of bisexual men (Charlie Chaplin’s son and another man) as well.
She was willing to meet Elvis, and did.
Their Most Likely Favorite Position
From information gathered in recent books about both of these Hollywood legends, there is one position that is likely to have been their favorite.
This would have been the doggy style in two variations.
On the bed and against a sofa back.
The correct version of the doggy style (most used in the sexually inhibited 1950s America) would have been for the woman to be on all fours on the bed, but her head close to, or touching the sheet.
Instead of her hands supporting her upper body, she would have rested on her forearms with hands flat.
This position elevates the woman’s buttocks for direct contact to the man, on his knees behind her. This also allows the man to fondle her breasts or even her genital area while he is thrusting.
The variation of this is where the man places the woman over the back side of the sofa, so her head in on the sofa back cushion, but her buttocks are firmly against the rear backside of the sofa, her feet on the ground.
The man enters from the rear, standing, and can thrust in a very vigorous manner. This is pure sex, and as the couple can’t really see each other, they are free to fantasize while the sexual act is in progress.
As we know from history, both of these unfortunate individuals were on drugs at the time, perhaps stimulants (amphetamines or cocaine), and the positions described would have been ideal for a couple so influenced.
As we also know from history, this was a one-off event, it seems both their sexual lives took on some negative elements.
Let us suppose that at the time, the positions mentioned (the agent was in the outer room while the two were together) were accurate.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Best Sexual Positions For Sex Out of the Bedroom
By Sacha Tarkovsky
In the Best Sexual Positions series we cover the ideal sexual positions for all circumstances and situations. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for sex out of the bedroom.
Use this information to spice up your sex life, and remember that variety is the secret weapon against complacency.
Sex Out of the Bedroom Situations – At Home
The areas of greatest advantage are the living room, where the sofa and easy chairs are; the bathroom and the kitchen.
The living room
Gives the bed replacements in the sofa and easy chairs.
The best sexual position in these cases are supported doggy style, with the woman on her knees on the sofa seat, and her hands supporting her holding on to the sofa back.
The man is standing, and easily finds a rear entry. This is a marvelous position in that it is pure sex for both partners, and the woman is getting full g-spot stimulation.
The second best position in this case is the man seated on the sofa, and the woman mounts him, facing him, or even with her back turned.
Penetration is easy and deep, and trusting is up to the woman. This is a maximum clitoral stimulation position, and usually ends up with the woman achieving a profound orgasm.
The bathroom
Presents some great possibilities, but the best is the standing rear entry. The woman will support herself against the bathroom sink, and spread her legs wide.
The man will easily find rear entry and in this case, all the thrusting is up to him. This position is a standing doggy style, and thus gives both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This is really a pure sex position.
Sex in the kitchen
Is never as easy as it might seem. The best sexual position here is to have the woman sit or lie back on the kitchen counter (if low enough), or kitchen table.
A small pillow should be placed under her buttocks.
The man will raise the woman’s legs to her breast, and expose her genital area. The woman can assist him by giving feed back.
Then the man can begin thrusting in various ways, such as alternating short and long thrusts.
The woman is very much stimulated by this position (which the Chinese refer to as the standing horse), and the man usually can last a great amount of time also without ejaculating.
There are other great positions for sex outside the bedroom and outside the house, and these are covered in later articles in this series.
In the Best Sexual Positions series we cover the ideal sexual positions for all circumstances and situations. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for sex out of the bedroom.
Use this information to spice up your sex life, and remember that variety is the secret weapon against complacency.
Sex Out of the Bedroom Situations – At Home
The areas of greatest advantage are the living room, where the sofa and easy chairs are; the bathroom and the kitchen.
The living room
Gives the bed replacements in the sofa and easy chairs.
The best sexual position in these cases are supported doggy style, with the woman on her knees on the sofa seat, and her hands supporting her holding on to the sofa back.
The man is standing, and easily finds a rear entry. This is a marvelous position in that it is pure sex for both partners, and the woman is getting full g-spot stimulation.
The second best position in this case is the man seated on the sofa, and the woman mounts him, facing him, or even with her back turned.
Penetration is easy and deep, and trusting is up to the woman. This is a maximum clitoral stimulation position, and usually ends up with the woman achieving a profound orgasm.
The bathroom
Presents some great possibilities, but the best is the standing rear entry. The woman will support herself against the bathroom sink, and spread her legs wide.
The man will easily find rear entry and in this case, all the thrusting is up to him. This position is a standing doggy style, and thus gives both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This is really a pure sex position.
Sex in the kitchen
Is never as easy as it might seem. The best sexual position here is to have the woman sit or lie back on the kitchen counter (if low enough), or kitchen table.
A small pillow should be placed under her buttocks.
The man will raise the woman’s legs to her breast, and expose her genital area. The woman can assist him by giving feed back.
Then the man can begin thrusting in various ways, such as alternating short and long thrusts.
The woman is very much stimulated by this position (which the Chinese refer to as the standing horse), and the man usually can last a great amount of time also without ejaculating.
There are other great positions for sex outside the bedroom and outside the house, and these are covered in later articles in this series.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
By Sacha Tarkovsky
In the best sexual positions series we have discussed the best sexual positions for most situations that can arise.
One special situation is for spontaneous sex, and this is something that is totally unpredictable, and thus, knowing the best sexual position in advance can make the magic of a spontaneous sexual encounter last in your memory forever.
Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Often portrayed in films and written about in books, the spontaneous sexual encounter is more or less another name for the Americanized word, ‘quickie’.
The other problem is clothing, and for the spontaneous encounter, you will need to keep as much of your clothing on as possible, as in spontaneous sexual encounters, there is always the risk of being “caught in the act”.
The Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Assuming the encounter begins by kissing, once the couple have passed the moment of decision (to or not to), then the man must turn the woman around so she has to back to the man.
The clothes on the upper part of the body are not required to be removed (regardless of how it is done in films), and concentrate on getting the lower clothes to the knees at least or better the ankles. The man then embraces the woman with one arm, and uses the other to position himself.
The woman does the same. One arm is used to hold the man, usually around his neck, but holding her arm back over her own head, and the other is used to facilitate penetration.
Both the man and woman bend their knees slightly, and come together very closely, like two spoons resting together. As penetration is made the couple move in unison with push and recoil.
This is the action, and as entry was made from the rear, both the g-spot and the clitoris are stimulated.
It is very much like a dance, and indeed the movements from new club dancing should be used if the couple understands how to do it.
The very term spontaneous often means that there is not enough time to prepare for all eventualities.
If inside the woman, then there is no problem, if outside (a term known as coitus interruptus ) the man should terminate in his own free hand, as not to cause a mess.
Remember time is of the essence here, and a quick dressing after the session will not be possible if the man is careless about where he deposits his sperm.
Finishing Up
There are other sexual positions possible for spontaneous sexual encounters, but the standing spoons is by far the best from the standpoint of mutual satisfaction, speed to penetrate, react and completion, and should it be interrupted or discovered, it is the fastest position to recover one’s equipoise.
In the best sexual positions series we have discussed the best sexual positions for most situations that can arise.
One special situation is for spontaneous sex, and this is something that is totally unpredictable, and thus, knowing the best sexual position in advance can make the magic of a spontaneous sexual encounter last in your memory forever.
Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Often portrayed in films and written about in books, the spontaneous sexual encounter is more or less another name for the Americanized word, ‘quickie’.
The other problem is clothing, and for the spontaneous encounter, you will need to keep as much of your clothing on as possible, as in spontaneous sexual encounters, there is always the risk of being “caught in the act”.
The Best Sexual Position for Spontaneous Sexual Encounters
Assuming the encounter begins by kissing, once the couple have passed the moment of decision (to or not to), then the man must turn the woman around so she has to back to the man.
The clothes on the upper part of the body are not required to be removed (regardless of how it is done in films), and concentrate on getting the lower clothes to the knees at least or better the ankles. The man then embraces the woman with one arm, and uses the other to position himself.
The woman does the same. One arm is used to hold the man, usually around his neck, but holding her arm back over her own head, and the other is used to facilitate penetration.
Both the man and woman bend their knees slightly, and come together very closely, like two spoons resting together. As penetration is made the couple move in unison with push and recoil.
This is the action, and as entry was made from the rear, both the g-spot and the clitoris are stimulated.
It is very much like a dance, and indeed the movements from new club dancing should be used if the couple understands how to do it.
The very term spontaneous often means that there is not enough time to prepare for all eventualities.
If inside the woman, then there is no problem, if outside (a term known as coitus interruptus ) the man should terminate in his own free hand, as not to cause a mess.
Remember time is of the essence here, and a quick dressing after the session will not be possible if the man is careless about where he deposits his sperm.
Finishing Up
There are other sexual positions possible for spontaneous sexual encounters, but the standing spoons is by far the best from the standpoint of mutual satisfaction, speed to penetrate, react and completion, and should it be interrupted or discovered, it is the fastest position to recover one’s equipoise.
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